henribj:


i hope he really does o
and not just a case of trying to marry into a wealthy family #justsaying

Bwon:
Easy bro am no suffer head or from a broke home. Its genuine love...

kitnah:
Blackett

Their relationship is up to 4years??

Well,she knows him better than anyone,more reason to tell her before the wedding

If he is faithful all those years,trust me she will definitely overlook it.

And if this is a first time,it makes it a plus

Blackett:
Nope. Nothing like she will definitely overlook it. . . Ladies don't overlook such so close to the wedding date. It sets off all kinds of alarm in their head.

Even you, kitnah. You would not overlook it. I know why I asked you the duration of your longest relationship. - I was trying to prove a point.

Bwon:
you know!!!

Blackett:
Nope. Nothing like she will definitely overlook it. . . Ladies don't overlook such so close to the wedding date. It sets off all kinds of alarm in their head.

Even you, kitnah. You would not overlook it. I know why I asked you the duration of your longest relationship. - I was trying to prove a point.

Blackett:
Yes I do bro. . . That because I'm a womanizer very emotionally intelligent individual. . . I read people.

kitnah:

i knew you were tryin to prove a point,that was why i ignored it

Now,my question is that "is this happening for the first time"

That question determined her reactions.

kitnah:

You are a womanizer??

Blackett:
It doesn't matter if it's the first time or not. We are talking about marriage here. . . Not bf/gf relationship

Blackett:
Where did you see that?

kitnah:


But i still think he should tell het b4 marriage

Whatever rocks his boat,i'm very sure he can sieve and pick from the advise so far

kitnah:

In your posts nah,tho u cancelled it

That was a typo.

Blackett:
Yes. He's not telling her.

Blackett:
That was a typo.

ronald4lif:
Tell her and risk ruining your marriage plans and possibly lose her forever.

Don't tell her now until you both must have married, the marital union won't be easy to collapse and the risk of losing her will be way lesser than this courtship period, should you tell her now.

But you 'must' tell her soon after the marriage, every details of what transpired between you and her bestie. Gather as much evidence as you can like someone earlier suggested you record calls made to her relating to the issue or chat messages. Failure to tell her what happened will be disastrous and could be considered that you are harbouring the thoughts of getting laid with this girl. She'll never stop making suggestive moves at you until you succumb. That is why it is pertinent you let your woman know everything. But not until after marriage.

kitnah:

Haha,lmao

It's allowed now

Typo kwa??

Atleast you dont womanize on nl.

kitnah:

alberto2k:

*checks her profile*
you look like a mercenary to me
But
you got pretty eyes, now that makes u a drop dead gorgeous mercenary

Blackett:

kitnah:

So i chatted with you for some minutes,and you didnt insult me
maybe you aint as bad like they said

What they say is true - I'm bad. . . I'm that guy your mom asked you to stay away from.

Mhizizzy:
I tink u Sud tell d bae..itz better she knows

Dnt keep tinz from each oda

Blackett:
What they say is true - I'm bad. . . I'm that guy your mom asked you to stay away from.

kitnah:

Hmm...i see

I will stay away then

Bwon:
eyes on you 2

kitnah:

lol
wetin i do??

kitnah:

Hmm...i see

I will stay away then

You have no other choice -