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Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Bwon(m): 2:50pm On Mar 23, 2015
henribj:


i hope he really does o
and not just a case of trying to marry into a wealthy family #justsaying
Easy bro am no suffer head or from a broke home. Its genuine love...
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by henribj(m): 3:05pm On Mar 23, 2015
Bwon:
Easy bro am no suffer head or from a broke home. Its genuine love...

alright bro
you know what to do
do it
stop beating round the bush
delay is dangerous
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Mar 23, 2015
Blackett

Their relationship is up to 4years??

Well,she knows him better than anyone,more reason to tell her before the wedding

If he is faithful all those years,trust me she will definitely overlook it.

And if this is a first time,it makes it a plus
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by ronald4lif(m): 3:14pm On Mar 23, 2015
Tell her and risk ruining your marriage plans and possibly lose her forever.

Don't tell her now until you both must have married, the marital union won't be easy to collapse and the risk of losing her will be way lesser than this courtship period, should you tell her now.

But you 'must' tell her soon after the marriage, every details of what transpired between you and her bestie. Gather as much evidence as you can like someone earlier suggested you record calls made to her relating to the issue or chat messages. Failure to tell her what happened will be disastrous and could be considered that you are harbouring the thoughts of getting laid with this girl. She'll never stop making suggestive moves at you until you succumb. That is why it is pertinent you let your woman know everything. But not until after marriage.
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 3:18pm On Mar 23, 2015
kitnah:
Blackett

Their relationship is up to 4years??

Well,she knows him better than anyone,more reason to tell her before the wedding

If he is faithful all those years,trust me she will definitely overlook it.

And if this is a first time,it makes it a plus
Nope. Nothing like she will definitely overlook it. . . Ladies don't overlook such so close to the wedding date. It sets off all kinds of alarm in their head.

Even you, kitnah. You would not overlook it. I know why I asked you the duration of your longest relationship. - I was trying to prove a point.
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Bwon(m): 3:22pm On Mar 23, 2015
Blackett:
Nope. Nothing like she will definitely overlook it. . . Ladies don't overlook such so close to the wedding date. It sets off all kinds of alarm in their head.

Even you, kitnah. You would not overlook it. I know why I asked you the duration of your longest relationship. - I was trying to prove a point.
you know!!!
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Mar 23, 2015
Bwon:
you know!!!
Yes I do bro. . . That because I'm a womanizer very emotionally intelligent individual. . . I read people.
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Mar 23, 2015
Blackett:
Nope. Nothing like she will definitely overlook it. . . Ladies don't overlook such so close to the wedding date. It sets off all kinds of alarm in their head.

Even you, kitnah. You would not overlook it. I know why I asked you the duration of your longest relationship. - I was trying to prove a point.
i knew you were tryin to prove a point,that was why i ignored it tongue

Now,my question is that "is this happening for the first time"

That question determined her reactions.
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Mar 23, 2015
Blackett:
Yes I do bro. . . That because I'm a womanizer very emotionally intelligent individual. . . I read people.
You are a womanizer?? shocked

btw:is this happening for the first time??
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Mar 23, 2015
kitnah:

i knew you were tryin to prove a point,that was why i ignored it tongue

Now,my question is that "is this happening for the first time"

That question determined her reactions.

It doesn't matter if it's the first time or not. We are talking about marriage here. . . Not bf/gf relationship
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Mar 23, 2015
kitnah:

You are a womanizer?? shocked

Where did you see that?
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Mar 23, 2015
Blackett:
It doesn't matter if it's the first time or not. We are talking about marriage here. . . Not bf/gf relationship


But i still think he should tell het b4 marriage

Whatever rocks his boat,i'm very sure he can sieve and pick from the advise so far
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Mar 23, 2015
Blackett:
Where did you see that?
In your posts nah,tho u cancelled it
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Mar 23, 2015
kitnah:


But i still think he should tell het b4 marriage

Whatever rocks his boat,i'm very sure he can sieve and pick from the advise so far

Yes. He's not telling her.
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Mar 23, 2015
kitnah:

In your posts nah,tho u cancelled it
That was a typo. tongue
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Bwon(m): 3:49pm On Mar 23, 2015
Blackett:
Yes. He's not telling her.
lol i never said anything yet!
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Mar 23, 2015
Blackett:
That was a typo. tongue
Haha,lmao

It's allowed now lipsrsealed

Typo kwa??

Atleast you dont womanize on nl. tongue

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Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Bwon(m): 4:26pm On Mar 23, 2015
ronald4lif:
Tell her and risk ruining your marriage plans and possibly lose her forever.

Don't tell her now until you both must have married, the marital union won't be easy to collapse and the risk of losing her will be way lesser than this courtship period, should you tell her now.

But you 'must' tell her soon after the marriage, every details of what transpired between you and her bestie. Gather as much evidence as you can like someone earlier suggested you record calls made to her relating to the issue or chat messages. Failure to tell her what happened will be disastrous and could be considered that you are harbouring the thoughts of getting laid with this girl. She'll never stop making suggestive moves at you until you succumb. That is why it is pertinent you let your woman know everything. But not until after marriage.
Sigh thanks
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Mar 23, 2015
kitnah:

Haha,lmao

It's allowed now lipsrsealed

Typo kwa??

Atleast you dont womanize on nl. tongue
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by alberto2k(m): 4:31pm On Mar 23, 2015
kitnah:

tongue tongue
*checks her profile*
you look like a mercenary to me undecided
But
you got pretty eyes, now that makes u a drop dead gorgeous mercenary tongue
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Mar 23, 2015
alberto2k:

*checks her profile*
you look like a mercenary to me undecided
But
you got pretty eyes, now that makes u a drop dead gorgeous mercenary tongue
Thank-you
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 4:35pm On Mar 23, 2015
Blackett:
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
So i chatted with you for some minutes,and you didnt insult me
maybe you aint as bad like they said lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Mhizizzy(f): 4:41pm On Mar 23, 2015
I tink u Sud tell d bae..itz better she knows

Dnt keep tinz from each oda
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Mar 23, 2015
kitnah:

So i chatted with you for some minutes,and you didnt insult me
maybe you aint as bad like they said lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
What they say is true - I'm bad. . . I'm that guy your mom asked you to stay away from.



Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Bwon(m): 4:47pm On Mar 23, 2015
Mhizizzy:
I tink u Sud tell d bae..itz better she knows

Dnt keep tinz from each oda
Not as easy as you think
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Mar 23, 2015
Blackett:
What they say is true - I'm bad. . . I'm that guy your mom asked you to stay away from.



Hmm...i see

I will stay away then tongue

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Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Bwon(m): 4:51pm On Mar 23, 2015
[quote author=kitnah post=31923251]
Hmm...i see

I will stay away then tongue[/quote eyes on you two grin
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Bwon(m): 4:52pm On Mar 23, 2015
kitnah:

Hmm...i see

I will stay away then tongue
eyes on you 2
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Mar 23, 2015
Bwon:
eyes on you 2
lol
wetin i do??
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Bwon(m): 4:58pm On Mar 23, 2015
kitnah:

lol
wetin i do??
nothing yet..... tongue but i got my 3d glasses on... watching closely
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Mar 23, 2015
kitnah:

Hmm...i see

I will stay away then tongue
You have no other choice - cool
Re: Confused!! Should i tell her? by vega84(m): 5:22pm On Mar 23, 2015
This nairaland people self. Always high on Pakistan weed. #vegatalks#

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