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Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by DesChyko: 5:32pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Jengbetiele: If only you're using it as an adjective. Sometimes, it functions as a verb and thus, has a past tense. Adj: He is mature.. (mature is an adjective(describing him); 'is' is the verb (state of being) ) Verb: He matured a lot.. (mature is the verb. 'a lot' is an adverb (showing degree) ) 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Posh(m): 5:36pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
In as much..i support d idea 2 opt out of ur parents house nd live alone, i wanna say that gayness is an aberration. I pray that God ll open ur eyes 2 realise that u re created 2 hv feelings for nd love a woman..nt for ur fellow man(spits out).. God bless u 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by nepp(f): 5:38pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Someone says he's gay and all of a sudden everyone becomes saints telling him to repent! How can u repent from a sexuality?? I can't seem to wrap my head around it! The topic has just been derailed. 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Vivly(f): 5:41pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Why are certain d1ckheads focusing on the gay part? The main issue is the ripe age for a guy to leave his house! If he had said something like 'He wants his girlfriend to move in with him', you guys would have ignored that though immorality is a sin too. I hope one of the bashers is not a straight guy still living with his parents and hating on a gay dude living on his own. Life is cruel. Everybody knows. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 5:41pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
nepp: I wonder o. Thank you. I've dealt with far more hateful comments on NL in my earlier days on NL, so comments here regarding my sexuality only make me laugh, as I feel this isn't the thread to start sexuality arguments. let them keep wasting their time. Lawd this Chocolate Royale cake tastes damn good! 6 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by lolalovegrace: 5:44pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
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Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Vivly: Thank you gal. I don't have the strength for them today. The least thing to worry me would be my sexuality. 4 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by DesChyko: 5:46pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
nepp:Perhaps you're missing the point. The treatment he is getting is expected. 99.99% of Nigerians would openly apportion 'being gay' as being outrightly abhorring and frankly, he's had some support so far because this is a faceless forum. Instead of fighting what you can't kill, find a way around it. That is what you'ld term a 'constructive reaction'. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by fairygeh(f): 5:48pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
masonkz:you mean you can actually bring yourself to tell ur parents you are gay Would any parent(Nigerian) really wanna hear that? 2 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Applaner: 5:48pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
op, wat is DAT ur address again. I mean de new place. am a lady and very sexy . I would like to spent just a night with u. u won't regret it o. |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by AIREGIN360(m): 5:53pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Chief Hope u still remember u are in Nigeria. and every act of homosexuality is a crime. No BEEF. I just don't like this gay sh*t. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 5:54pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
AIREGIN360: Read the law. |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by tunnary(m): 5:57pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
i'm impressed wit u leaving ur parents @24, i commend u for dat but u being a gay is totally odd nd i believ somtin spiritual is attached to dis gay tin. My guy i dnt no u o so i ve no reason to deciev u, go for a very effective delievrance in any gud church. U might not see or comprehend hw bad it is cos ur involve in it, hw can somebody use eba to touch eba before eating, it doesnt make sence, na eba nd soup dey sweet 4 mouth nt eba nd eba. 2 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Angelis: 5:59pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Jengbetiele: Either 'Matured' or 'mature' is correct. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by DesChyko: 6:00pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
masonkz: Well, I have to say your presentation is quite complicated. The 'gay' part was unnecessary if actually your problem is with your parent's resistance. You drew attention to yourself instead and that is leading everyone to reflect on that 'unorthodox' element of you. That s by the way. Naturally, every parent should be proud of their 'millionaire' son at such a cute age. Your progress should be their joy. However, since they're being negative about your decision, it may stem from the following guesses. 1. They probably don't believe you have enough cash to live alone yet. 2. They probably don't trust your decision-making yet. Review your activities while living with them. 3. You probably have unfulfilled obligations/responsibilities towards siblings or themselves and you are 'running out of reach' already. 4. They think you need a partner to help you manage or a family to 'utilize' the finances (before the tough times come, they fear) About the marriage part, it would seem you aren't interested in the opposite sex (yet?). Don't expect any favours or consideration when you finally break the ice. Expect NONE at all. If you get some, just take it as a plus. But before you do, put your HOME in order since you're financially equipped. Make sure the needs of your siblings especially are not straining your parents. They may cut you off when you tell them you're (hehehehe). Wish you luck! You need lots of it 2 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by DesChyko: 6:03pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Applaner: Because you know you may not tickle his fancy abi?? Where is MrPhockPhockMan when you need him?? |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by toprealman: 6:05pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
YOUR ORIENTATION HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS. AT YOUR AGE YOU ARE LUCKY TO HAVE A GOOD JOB. YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT PATH, FIRE DOWN. OUR PRIORITY IS ALL OVER THE PLACE IN NIGERIA. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Pauloot(m): 6:07pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
blakky97: u get it blakky.......rubbish! 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Mekzmoney(m): 6:10pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Mr Gay, u moved out because u don't hav d opportunity to sleep wit ur fellow man wen ur in ur family house. So u moved out so dat u will hav ur freedom.. Don't give us dos flipsy reasons.. Keep it up. masonkz: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by SkinnyDude(m): 6:10pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
man, you started working @20! i'm jealous o! see, am 20 now, still under my parents care. eating 'mama thank ma'am'. i can't wait to graduate and start my own life. 2 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by EMEzzy(m): 6:17pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Curvinus:Do you know who a eunuch is? Dont quote the Holy book wrongly. 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by pickabeau1: 6:17pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
ElFenomeno1: masonkz... as long as u can afford it go ahead Oniru is a cool area...10 mins to the island and all spots are in proximity.. Sky Lounge, The Place, Palms etc reducing commute time in lagos actually increases your life span 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by blakky97(m): 6:18pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
masonkz:basstaadz don't quote me. my message to your lost soul; get caught by the streets; get ur sorry skull gully tripping out red blood. its real. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Bhella5(m): 6:21pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
F^*ck*ng f*gg0t! Gtfoh! It's was the best thing to do coz as soon as ur parents find out u are a gay, they will not only send u parking but throw you to the wolves! Run! 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by EMEzzy(m): 6:22pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
tunnary:Oh my days! |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by kelvyn7: 6:23pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
after service year, another 1yr maximum. if u have handwork, 1yrs after apprentiship. |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by stigman(m): 6:24pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
masonkz: God killed everyone in Sodom and Gomorrah. This was because some homosexuals lived there (See Genesis 19:4-5). 19:24-25 Sodom's sin, stop it today 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 6:26pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Swagu baba.... Iz well ooo.. Oga Mason u don wash it... Abeg never wash am yet i still dey road o. |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by asuquo1982: 6:26pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Your mum married to your father to have you as their son, and you make a decision to marry a man like you. When every body come to know this how will people regards your parents, or will they say your parents train you well ? Let me tell you whatever you think you are having now will gradually leads you to your doom. Repent and ask God for forgiveness for your GAY attitude. My God will help YOU. CAPTAIN KING 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by tohero(m): 6:30pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
That's a nice decision I reckoned with except for the last part being *gay*. Religion will say it is a SIN! Tradition will say it is a TABOO!! And YOU will know within yourself that it is an IMMORAL ACT!!! A stitch in time saves nine. 1 Like |
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