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Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
khiaa: Thank you Khiaa. Surveys and reactions indeed. They've left the main issue put up to be looking for where there's no issue. smh 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
khiaa: That's great. No regrets so far from my end also, just the whole sadness of my parents regarding it all. I just hope they let it slide with time. Hope you're doing fine gal ![]() |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 10:02pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
ikechukwu354: Thanks bro. |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Ghoxt: 10:02pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
I had to move out at 20, with nt to hold on to but a dream, didn't even know where I was going. Its funny that in less than a year I've been able to secure my own apartment and even help others. I'm still working on that dream. Oluwa thank you. 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
babyosisi: From the reactions of parents to certain conversations they must have held with their child/children, the child will either feel comfortable tabling his/her issues/fears/worries/excitements/plans, etc, or they'd rather back out and deal with it on their own. This has been the case with me and my parents. Right now they don't seem to me like the understanding type, and while i'm not entirely concerned about it, I just wouldn't wanna cause too much commotion or bring that much attention to myself, before someone will blame me for giving them a heart attack. Abeg. So, for now, I'm chilling. I get your point though, and thanks for it. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by khiaa(f): 10:06pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
emmadejust: LMAO @ money making someone gay. ![]() ![]() ![]() If you came into a large amount of money would you then turn gay? lol ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
khiaa: Some comments are dead on arrival. ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by khiaa(f): 10:19pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
GodMode: Ok, fair enough, if you didn't know, you didn't know. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Dolemite(f): 10:19pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Kolade354: If homosexuality is such a dangerous sin why did is there homosexuality in the animal kingdom? seriously you Christians should start reasoning. 4 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by diamondinyang(f): 10:21pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
@ 75 because buhari is still living with his parent. lol |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
DesChyko: Thank you. Well, the gay part was seriously also one of the reasons I moved out..so I had to put it all in. 1. Yes they may feel so, but at what point does someone start having "enough" cash? "Enough" is relative, which is highly dependent on the savings culture of the person in question, in comparison to the spending. I feel I even spent more when I was still with them. Now I can save better knowing I'm totally on my own. Not like I've been the type to ask for help anyway. 2. Actually they do, and this may be one of the reasons they don't want me out. Even my elder siblings come to me to seek advice on some occassions. I've always been the "go-to" person in the family. 3. Yes I do understand that I have obligations, family-wise, but nothing stops me from fulfilling those obligations from wherever I am. Even people living abroad still help their relatives back home when in need. 4. Sorry I don't understand your last point. 5. I'm not sexually interested in the opposite sex. As usual with gay people who have been pressured into marriage by their families (whether they know about their sexuality or not), and who still go to see their BFs behind the wife's back, I may be pressured into marriage...but I'm just not thinking about that now. A lot of things to achieve before then. Thanks a lot for the input though ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by GodMode: 10:25pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
khiaa: Doesn't make a difference... Now I know and it's out of place... Cos NL has started promoting gay threads... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by GodMode: 10:28pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Dolemite: What animal kingdom ![]() I'm atheist... Homosexuality is a crime against humanity... Its worse than sin... 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by khiaa(f): 10:31pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
masonkz: Don't worry about the sadness, all parents who love their children react the same way, they miss you right now but with time they will get over it. Invite them over for Sunday dinners, or make sure they see you atleast once a week, make those phone calls 2 or 3 times a week, not every day because the goal is to get them independent of you much like getting a baby independent of his bottle, I'm sure you get the picture. ![]() By the way, I'm doing fine. 4 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
khiaa: Finally the most reasonable comment. Thanks dear ![]() ![]() ![]() Definitely gonna start applying this. 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Jfrezzy(m): 10:33pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Am just Surprise,why no one is talking about u been gay,I stayed in England 4 Yrs. I still don't get why people I mean humans wanna do something God don't want ,or go opposite . Go to U village and tell them U gay,U hit a man in his anus.. I don't know what to say just try using the next hospital 4 mad people. U sick |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Jfrezzy: Next! 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by emmadejust(m): 10:37pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
khiaa: is that what you understand about my message? what my msg mean is that the little touch of cash he started handling at early age without morality guidance, self discipline, fear of God, and psychological directions in what will fit his future personality , lead him to being gay. |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by itsMrIke(m): 10:45pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Oh Nigerians, my people. Why are we so ignorant? So he said he is Gay! Kini big deal?? All of you who are criticizing him are no better. Some of you are even quoting scriptures, like you lead exemplary religious lives. Oh please shut up you lots!!! Mason, please quit worrying about your parents, you are a young man and on the right track. You must learn to say NO to them, and stand by your NO. Your parents will come around surely. 7 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by itsMrIke(m): 10:47pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
emmadejust: You must be an ignoramus. Moronic statements like this actually churns my stomach. 4 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
emmadejust: And you assumed all these from what i narrated. you know nothing about me. So leave it that way and either focus on the questions I asked, or leave the thread. Thanks ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by khiaa(f): 10:57pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
emmadejust: Your message is still foul, I don't care how much money a person makes at a young age, I repeat, MONEY DOES NOT MAKE A PERSON GAY!!! Now you are disrespecting his parents insinuating that they brought him up with the lack of moral guidance, self discipline, The fear of God, and you got all of this from one paragraph that he wrote. YOU DO NOT KNOW HIM!! 4 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
See comments,as expected ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by edwardjr(m): 11:03pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
u need deliverance 4rm ur feelings...change d words u hear,the way u think n hw u feel(emotions). I knw d real u is nt gay... |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by Nobody: 11:08pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Op U mean to say guy or gay? |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by hidee20(m): 11:08pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
guy just reduce the number of bulala available to our female folks by one and denial one or more girl(s) happy-ever-after ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by prissyluv(f): 11:09pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
masonkz: Do you need to tell them that you are gay? You sure know it will drain them. Why not use this space and retrace your steps. Goodluck. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by hidee20(m): 11:09pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
guy just reduce the number of bulala available to our female folks by one and denies one or more girl(s) happy-ever-after ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by khiaa(f): 11:11pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
masonkz: You are most welcome. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by khiaa(f): 11:14pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
hidee20: And how many millons of men are there in Nigeria? With so many men I'm sure there will be no woman left behind. ![]() |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by khiaa(f): 11:21pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Jfrezzy: Read the title of the topic and continue from there. 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong To Have Moved Out Of My Parents' Place? by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 11:31pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Woged2005:By wife do you mean another feminine guy? Last I checked, this dude is GAY and proud of it.... @ OP, praying for you to have yet one more acheivement........ To begin to love to have "female women"... The dick is meant to go into the veejay(entry point) and not the a-hole(exit point)... |
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