GodMode:
When u have a salary that can pay rent, transport and feeding and you'll still have savings.

edited: YOU'RE GAAAAAY

Now this story is just another survey... Indirect way of getting reactions...

nice you noticed the attention craving kid. Seriously how many people announce on nairaland they moving out of the father's and then drop the subtle hint that there gay.

?.
Point is nairaland or no nairaland e go still move, nairaland or no nairaland you'll still be gay.

adewumiopeyemi:
nope men can marry wen any time they want but must not be more than 35 years.,... no body can pressureize them since they are men... but woman normally pressurise by there parrent

So what if the man is 40 and still unmarried, what then?

notin will happen he can get married anytime he wish to marry

khiaa:



So what if the man is 40 and still unmarried, what then?

goshap:
nice you noticed the attention craving kid. Seriously how many people announce on nairaland they moving out of the father's and then drop the subtle hint that there gay.

?.
Point is nairaland or no nairaland e go still move, nairaland or no nairaland you'll still be gay.

Are you ok at all?? Did you read my entire post and reasons for leaving?? You're really getting on my nerve these days.


Move along please.

masonkz:
So I recently moved out of my parents' place at Ajah to my own mini flat at Oniru. This happened about 2 months ago, January precisely. The problem is..my parents have been angry ever since I took the decision to leave.

The facts:

I'm 24
I'm the third child of five
I've been working for four years in the corporate world.
Intelligent, smart, very nice, the dream of every parent, except for the last part...
I'm gay.

Reasons I moved out:

1.The traffic from Ajah to my work place in VI can be killing and I have not intention to continue that way into the future, whatever number of years my parents may feel I should stay with them more for. I hate spending time in traffic, to and fro, and it can be very much frustrating for the most part.

2. I need my privacy. My parents are the very clingy type who wanna know every thing that's going on in your life. Who visits you, who you visit, the state the person is from and even down to the person's local government. If I dare stay a night out of home, even after giving them an excuse, na quarrel the next day be that. My mum feels i should actually "marry" her first, before thinking of marrying any other girl.

3. I actually wanna start distancing myself a little from my parents, to slowly let the know the real me..and the fact that their expectation of me may not hold, especially with me being gay. I feel if I start distancing myself, I won't have to be totally depressed, along with them, in the event that they finally get to know about my sexuality...which they may soon come to know about.

Apart from that I just feel i need some space at this time of my life. Just staying on my own. I probably don't have enough time before the talks of marriage starts creeping in and the pressure starts coming from all angles to get married to a girl. So I just wanna have the pleasure of actually living my life while visiting my parents and siblings occasionally. So far I've been enjoying staying alone. Finally feel I'm free from just so many ropes. I can invite anyone over without having to explain myself, keep late nights at the office without having to feel the need to report at home why I'm staying out late, or even party out late in rare cases.

Like I said the whole concept of staying alone doesn't fit in well with my parents and I often see the sad face my mum wears whenever I visit, and it's starting to make me feel guilty. But again, don't I also deserve to be happy on my own?? I've tried talking to them but they still feel I'm too young to be staying alone, and that it's just not right. I mean this is four years of me being financially independent. Why should I continue staying with them.


While all these may be too late since it's been 2 months already, I'd still like to know people's opinion on this. Maybe I'm the wrong one, or maybe there are just some things I still need to discuss with them. Dunno . What do you guys think?

right choice, honestly you didnt need nairaland to pinpoint that.

masonkz:


Are you ok at all?? Did you read my entire post and reasons for leaving?? You're really getting on my nerve these days.


Move along please.

your a man, look at your reason, you never needed nairaland to begin with, as sad as your parents might seem, they are proud of you, cause nigga thats the height of been a man, da day you move out of ur parents house.

So seriously who you kidding.

Why do Nigerias have bad mouth? that is why we are still back ward.

Kay u are right to have moved out. Am facing the same challenge with u. But for me am yet to move out. Am a working class and 27.

Your parent will get use to ur moving out sooner or later don't get sad just be your self. I would advice u not to tell your parent about ur sexuality now because they may not be ok with it. Many ppl are scared of that word or ppl who come Out as gay. I don't. Blame them because they don't know what it means to be gay. You can never know what it feels if you are not gay.

Congrats and stay cool my guy.

goshap:
your a man, look at your reason, you never needed nairaland to begin with, as sad as your parents might seem, they are proud of you, cause nigga thats the height of been a man, da day you move out of ur parents house.

So seriously who you kidding.

Goshap, I'd appreciate if you can refrain from replying my posts. You're sounding silly by the day, sorry to say.

jeffoe:
animals like u rightly said are not rational being, so because some animals feed on other animals (carnivore) so human(canibals) who have urge to eat fellow human should go on eating spree. Is a question o.

You are right, animals are not intelligent like humans, but the function, who gives them the urges they have (i.e tells them who to mate and when to mate?) wouldn't you say it is your God? so MY question is why would your God put homosexual urges into animals if it is evil? your bible says God is the caretaker of animals, since they can't reason he basically conditions their actions.

P.S
It's like you are a head of a kindergarten class and you see a baby (who can't rationalize things well enough) putting a razor blade in it mouth, would you allow it? well that is what your God does when two male goats hump each other.

GodMode:


I can't help you with your reasoning...

If you can't deduce my comment then I should stop replying you..

Nah, you have nothing reasonable to say so you dodge my question like a simple coward . Goodbye.

adewumiopeyemi:
notin will happen he can get married anytime he wish to marry

Well that's kind of........

khiaa:


Well that's kind of........

Are you doing all night ?

masonkz:


Goshap, I'd appreciate if you can refrain from replying my posts. You're sounding silly by the day, sorry to say.

say the guy whose attention needy and star queer.
I know guys of 18,who moved out long ago and foot their bills, since god knows when. I keep telling them the same thing when they complain of things, your a man, you know whats its like to survive in life, i fucking admire them.

Sorry ur not hearing what you wanted to hear, guess am used to been around men, not needy boys.

masonkz:
So I recently moved out of my parents' place at Ajah to my own mini flat at Oniru. This happened about 2 months ago, January precisely. The problem is..my parents have been angry ever since I took the decision to leave.

The facts:

I'm 24
I'm the third child of five
I've been working for four years in the corporate world.
Intelligent, smart, very nice, the dream of every parent, except for the last part...
I'm gay.

Reasons I moved out:

1.The traffic from Ajah to my work place in VI can be killing and I have not intention to continue that way into the future, whatever number of years my parents may feel I should stay with them more for. I hate spending time in traffic, to and fro, and it can be very much frustrating for the most part.

2. I need my privacy. My parents are the very clingy type who wanna know every thing that's going on in your life. Who visits you, who you visit, the state the person is from and even down to the person's local government. If I dare stay a night out of home, even after giving them an excuse, na quarrel the next day be that. My mum feels i should actually "marry" her first, before thinking of marrying any other girl.

3. I actually wanna start distancing myself a little from my parents, to slowly let the know the real me..and the fact that their expectation of me may not hold, especially with me being gay. I feel if I start distancing myself, I won't have to be totally depressed, along with them, in the event that they finally get to know about my sexuality...which they may soon come to know about.

Apart from that I just feel i need some space at this time of my life. Just staying on my own. I probably don't have enough time before the talks of marriage starts creeping in and the pressure starts coming from all angles to get married to a girl. So I just wanna have the pleasure of actually living my life while visiting my parents and siblings occasionally. So far I've been enjoying staying alone. Finally feel I'm free from just so many ropes. I can invite anyone over without having to explain myself, keep late nights at the office without having to feel the need to report at home why I'm staying out late, or even party out late in rare cases.

Like I said the whole concept of staying alone doesn't fit in well with my parents and I often see the sad face my mum wears whenever I visit, and it's starting to make me feel guilty. But again, don't I also deserve to be happy on my own?? I've tried talking to them but they still feel I'm too young to be staying alone, and that it's just not right. I mean this is four years of me being financially independent. Why should I continue staying with them.


While all these may be too late since it's been 2 months already, I'd still like to know people's opinion on this. Maybe I'm the wrong one, or maybe there are just some things I still need to discuss with them. Dunno . What do you guys think?

sorry bro.......report yourself to the nearest police station, you need to be incarcerated

Larryfly:



sorry bro.......report yourself to the nearest police station, you need to be incarcerated

Since this is all you could say about the whole post you quoted, thank you, you may now take your leave...

what the fuuuu Gay.....dude should just back off... was up with all dis Gay pple sef...i hate dem

well seems he is a rich dude....someone renting a flat in oniru estate.....na big man pikin o..@24 ..while guys dey street 30 noting to show...some don even born put for papa house

Liberty is good but without a checker, it could be dangerous.
Your parents are still a part of you and will always be, so don't cut them off.
Gay practice is allowed in some countries but here in Nigeria, it is a crime.
Financial independence is a privilege and not maturity. Intact, age cannot even guarantee one's level of maturity. I think you should give gratitude to God.
Lastly, there is always a time(probably old age for those who will live that long), that people will have to review their past lives. And it brings regret to most people. Here now, you have the opportunity to set your record straight. Remember the last line of our National Pledge: so help me (you) God.

jeffoe:
so people who hold views contrary to yours are suffering from downsyndrome, and that makes them less human compared to you. Btw Is it GSKING or GAYKING

I don't know if you have challenges comprehending my previous post but let me help you

Nowhere in my previous post did I say money turned people into homosexuals neither was there anywhere I ruled out the possibility that some homosexuals are from poor families.

I said that all the gay persons I have seen(it is a personal observation"theory" and not a rule) are from wealthy homes, wealthy here does not only implies billionaires. That is my view and some person in this thread also hold similar view.

Being gay is a choice, one has the choice to act on his homosexual tendencies or not. The choice is yours.

Another thing that I have come to realize is that people who tell u things that would be helpful would be the enemies and those that will keep hailing you will leave you to your fate when the" chips" are down

I believe one day a cure will be discovered. Once again it is my opinion.

Gibberish.

Read your own posts.

Gibberish, I tell you.

BTW, its GSKing, and YES, I'M GAY.

Revolva:
what the fuuuu Gay.....dude should just back off... was up with all dis Gay pple sef...i hate dem

well seems he is a rich dude....someone renting a flat in oniru estate.....na big man pikin o..@24 ..while guys dey street 30 noting to show...some don even born put for papa house

I'm not rich. Anyone holding a comfortable post in any of the multinationals should be able to afford a mini flat at Oniru and still live comfortably. Young people my age and less are living there, and other ok places in Lagos.

Thanks though.

Hmmm. Hypocritical nigerians that have committed all sorts of atrocities don come. The issue is his moving out of his parents' house and not his s.exuality. Face the damn topic!!

Op, you are on point. you did the right thing. Man has got to be a man by taking that first step of independence. Well done. You are more of a man than many guys here criticizing you. They are nothing but sissies. They envy how manly you have become.

counsellor1:
Liberty is good but without a checker, it could be dangerous.
Your parents are still a part of you and will always be, so don't cut them off.
Gay practice is allowed in some countries but here in Nigeria, it is a crime.
Financial independence is a privilege and not maturity. Intact, age cannot even guarantee one's level of maturity. I think you should give gratitude to God.
Lastly, there is always a time(probably old age for those who will live that long), that people will have to review their past lives. And it brings regret to most people. Here now, you have the opportunity to set your record straight. Remember the last line of our National Pledge: so help me (you) God.

I'm not cutting them off. That would be stupi.d of me. Please read my post again.

Sure, I realise that I'm human and I'm working towards having less or no regrets at old age. What makes you happy doesn't have to make me happy. We all have our own lives to live. Live it to the best you can, and make those around you happy. I wish to live a fulfilling life, and sexuality has nothing to do with that.


Thanks for your input.

masonkz:


Are you ok at all?? Did you read my entire post and reasons for leaving?? You're really getting on my nerve these days.


Move along please.

I also don't find his comment funny.

CyrusXandria:
I also don't find his comment funny.

He's obviously looking for attention. I won't oblige him further.

Hope you're doing fine now bro.

masonkz:


He's obviously looking for attention. I won't oblige him further.

Hope you're doing fine now bro.

just let him be.

Am much better now,thanks.

CyrusXandria:
just let him be.

Am much better now,thanks.

You're welcome

I still need you to come cook for me o .

masonkz:


You're welcome

I still need you to come cook for me o .

Am available whenever you are ready.You know what to do

Truckpusher:
Are you doing all night ?

I'm doing fine. Heeey Trucky!!

masonkz:


I'm not rich. Anyone holding a comfortable post in any of the multinationals should be able to afford a mini flat at Oniru and still live comfortably. Young people my age and less are living there, and other ok places in Lagos.

Thanks though.

Fagged as MF....dude u r in no sense better than a goat....i can't stand folks like u....in public....how can a man be havin sex with a man....wait do u ave family members and wat and how will they feel....duse enough ukwu n possay plenty for lagos...u dey choose to be gay...I see gay folks as mentally ill folks who need to he helped

Sophyrocks:
Hmmm. Hypocritical nigerians that have committed all sorts of atrocities don come. The issue is his moving out of his parents' house and not his s.exuality. Face the damn topic!!

Op, you are on point. you did the right thing. Man has got to be a man by taking that first step of independence. Well done. You are more of a man than many guys here criticizing you. They are nothing but sissies. They envy how manly you have become.

am pretty sure if he wasnt gunning for those exact response, he would have left the part of him been gay, look at the piece he clearly singled out his sexuality.

No offense but he meant for it to be provocative, he enjoys the attention and thrill of it all. A gay dude and a straight dude are the same thing.

Wow! I must say ur moving out isa nice one but considering the fact that u are a gay...huh,I Wonder if that's not a technique u are trying to employ in other for u to use in carrying out your gay sexual- escapades? ...I wish u success and also a re-conceiving heart to change from gay practice because its not part of our law here...

Revolva:


Fagged as MF....dude u r in no sense better than a goat....i can't stand folks like u....in public....how can a man be havin sex with a man....wait do u ave family members and wat and how will they feel....duse enough ukwu n possay plenty for lagos...u dey choose to be gay...I see gay folks as mentally ill folks who need to he helped

K.

Curvinus:


Another low life masquerading as professor behind the keyboard. Well done Sir.

I see your high IQ tells you to call people names and type like a two-year old.

S.t.u.p.i.d wool.

U didnt understand my first post,instead of asking for explaination u started typin with ur arse and you took my correction as an insult.you couldnt make a simple argument with constructive critisism,instead u attack me...ur not stup.id,neither are u a fo.ol...ur jst an ill.iterate and it isnt ur fault.