LadyX:

imagine them exchanging biscuit on FP!

No wonder people say good advice comes from page 2 going forward.

[size=14pt] That's very trues! Don't mind them.

How u doing ladyX? How ya family? [/size]

LewisO:

[size=14pt] That's very trues! Don't mind them.

How u doing ladyX? How ya family? [/size]

CityNG:


Sure but it doesn't hurt to expand, IMHO.

LadyX:

Am doing well. How are you?

kevinberry:




Thought as much

Dimples192:
I think what you need to learn from this experience is the fact that you teach a man how to treat you by treating yourself with respect. What I mean by this is that throughout the relationship you sacrificed your happiness for his and maybe that's why his mind was in the relationship but not his heart. The sad fact is that when we give all of ourselves to someone we will never get back what we invested so be mindful of what you're getting from the relationship before giving your all. It's give and take and you broke that balance by just giving. Had he invested in the relationship too then he'd have more to loose and maybe then his heart would be in the relationship .

LewisO:

[size=14pt]Good!

Sometimes i will wanna open a thread i will just decide not to, i was about writing "7" things about boyfriend's need to know during their girlfriend's menstrual cycle i just decided not to create it again. [/size]

kevinberry:
There are always three side's to a story..and this is just one of them.....

If the guy should say his part am pretty sure people will hate you..


So am gonna keep calm and keep quiet...


For you to gang up with your mother and go against your hubby decisions,I personally will not tolerate that,we are not yet married and you have start misbehaving,what will now happen if we eventually get married...btw you are both working,so I see no reason why you should still be asking for favours from your hubby....
*Berry*

kevinberry:

Typical naija girl..

Always following the crow

You forgot the part where the lady went against his decisions abi... They are not yet married and she is already taking her mother idea over her hubby decisions....they all wanna have a rich wedding,they wanna show off...the money is there,the guy just want a simple wedding but the girl and her mother says otherwise...she is the cause of her misfortunes...

Btw...I don't see anything bad in having babies before marriage,if it about the religion stuff...then she should not have had sex with him...cus am very sure for they guy to ask for a baby,they would have had sex countless times...

My Piece..

*Berry*

LadyX:


Why? Go ahead and open the thread. The worst thing anyone can do is to insult you. You should not worry about insults...they only make you stronger.

You are on NL to learn and teach others. Don't expect everyone to agree with you. What should make you happy is the fact that someone learnt something from your post.

You need to have a strong personality to stand the *storm* of NL (I know you can stand harsh words). So you've got all it takes to create a thread and respond to comments.

Please cc me when you post.

[size=14pt] Insult? Who deer insult me? Nothing is really stopping me.

I don't feel like creating thread yet, don't worry anytime i open it i will summon u. [/size]

LewisO:


[size=14pt] Insult? Who deer insult me? Nothing is really stopping me.

I don't feel like creating thread yet, don't worry anytime i open it i will summon u. [/size]

Sophyrocks:
The guy sef doesnt know what he wants. He asked for a child before marriage, a marriage he isnt sure about. This is why ladies should learn to scrutinize some ridiculous demands from men. If your man is proving to be f00lish, you should be wise. If you had gone ahead to get pregnant this guy would left you as a single mother. One thing about men is that you've got to teach them how you should be treated. They take you however you decide to take yourself. Bending too much to accoomodate values that do not match yours will leave you with regrets. You should not date or marry men who dnt share the same morals as you do. This lady should be happy that it didnt work out because a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage o. Let her move on with her life. she will meet a better man with a matching moral value with her.

dre11:



You just like Mr cock that love light skinned ladies and wants to.marry from pelican; D

basille:
Well, i just heard your own side of the story. We need to hear his before a conclusive advice can be given.

Missonas:


And your wife?what about what She wants?I'm not justifying what she did esp if they had both agreed not to entertain their guests i jst dnt get why u guys are judging their future based on that.

Yes such men are usually stingy with everything i wasn't talking money wise alone.
I want less than 50.my family, his and few friends/colleagues shouldn't be upto 50

tochimas:


Yeah, but he can ask from her, some people are simply unbelievable, so you actually think she don't have responsibilities just because it happens to be a she. I actually blame her, the signs were there, what kind of man will not like to support his wife but will want to be supported by her. Either he is spending money in another relationship or he is simply not a husband material. Girl, he actually did you a big favour

Sophyrocks:
The guy sef doesnt know what he wants. He asked for a child before marriage, a marriage he isnt sure about. This is why ladies should learn to scrutinize some ridiculous demands from men. If your man is proving to be f00lish, you should be wise. If you had gone ahead to get pregnant this guy would left you as a single mother. One thing about men is that you've got to teach them how you should be treated. They take you however you decide to take yourself. Bending too much to accoomodate values that do not match yours will leave you with regrets. You should not date or marry men who dnt share the same morals as you do. This lady should be happy that it didnt work out because a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage o. Let her move on with her life. she will meet a better man with a matching moral value with her.

dre11:




Am sure you know this is the wedding day
A day that the father and mother will give the lady to you.
And you say the parent input aren't to be respected just because you both agreed.


When its time for you to be married..... Just tell you wife to be that her parents idea about how the marriage is to be done is inconsiquential


Its their day, if you have reasons you seat with them and discuss to agree on a compromise and not just what you say up there

freshcvvs:


Abeg o, where you see "wedding day"?

topic says "FEW DAYS TO WEDDING"

kevinberry:

I so much love them...they are always real and down to earth in terms of love...

LewisO:


[size=14pt] Insult? Who deer insult me? Nothing is really stopping me.

I don't feel like creating thread yet, don't worry anytime i open it i will summon u. [/size]

dre11:


That's why cheaters network keep exposing their cheating habit and the many divorce case over there

Holywizard:
am nt sure dat u're a marriage material