olexy4real:


Hmmm!!! That's the kind of traits and lesson we pass down to the younger generation and we expect the world to be a better place.

NmaGOD44:
now don't be foolish....did u ever read where she was said to have ran her mouth like a sloth??....evils

TheFilmmaker:


Ever asked yourself why you're still single?

Feminist.

Sophyrocks:


Is singleness a disease? are you married yourself?

NmaGOD44:
thanks dear.....some people are just too egocentric for my liking......spoiling the beautiful image of other sane Africans

aflyingbird:
why are some of y'all blaming the wife ?
OP , ur mother wanted to take the photos, but u didn't mention her wanting to print them and bring back the original. 1) ur wife had every right to prevent her from taking the photos ( they are her photos after all ), especially if there was no mention of printing. they r child dedication photos dat mean a lot to ur wife , of course she won't let anyone take them just like that . 2) ur mother had no right to slap ur wife just 'cus ur wife said she couldn't take the pictures. why hit her? she isn't ur child neither is she a little kid to be slapped anyhow. u don't put ur hands on anyone. let's be fair here : your mother initiated this fight. ur mother had her sister n friend there so of course they will take her side, ur wife is the lone ranger dat they ganged up on , but if u ask me she is the victim . they were probably looking for a fight from the start



A mother-in-law should be respected no matter what, it happens all the time, relations, especially mothers would want a memorable picture of their grandchildren to show off, the wife has no right WHATSOEVER to fight the mother, she can only go inside her room when the mother slapped her, if it were sister in law that would have been different but mother, no way, that shows u don't have respect for your husband.
That said, Op u have been advised, just make peace between them and get them to reconcile, but warn ur wife seriously because that action of hers will make people conclude that she is not well brought up.

TheFilmmaker:


I'm saying this because were not in the dark ages. Therefore, she has to apologize.

MadCow1:



Coming from someone who see nothing wrong in a mother in Law assaulting her daughter in law over the photos of her daughter in laws child in her daughter in Laws house..


You keep calling me a woman prick and that is supposed to be an insult?

You are a funny young man..

iiichidodo:
Yeah and his Royal High Prick would suggest a clap on the back for the wife for drawing blood and should get more commendation if she had the opportunity to break her head afterall her husband is hen pecked and liverless just like RHP's father.Whichever way you look at it son, that's your funeral..not ours.

TheFilmmaker:



No I'm not married, not even planning to. However, I won't acomodate a fiery woman who doesn't love me or my family back.


Love is the basis for everything. I think I have been bitter throughout this thread. I have my reasons and I am sorry if I have erred anybody.

I wish you all the best.

TheFilmmaker:



No I'm not married, not even planning to. However, I won't acomodate a fiery woman who doesn't love me or my family back.


Love is the basis for everything. I think I have been bitter throughout this thread. I have my reasons and I am sorry if I have erred anybody.

I wish you all the best.

babyosisi:


I met a lady recently at a party who told me she disliked Nigerians with a passion
From her accent I placed her to be a Cameroonian
Come to find out she was a full blooded Igbo woman but born and raised in Cameroon and married to an Igbo man too
I asked why she hated us
She said Nigerians were wicked people
She told me growing up in Cameroon she would see Nigerians call even their own sisters and nieces their maids and treat them poorly and that cameroonians didn't do that.wouldnt refer to their own flesh and blood as maids and house girls.i couldn't defend that.
I asked if she had been to Nigeria
She said she spent 6 months in Nigeria and just hated it
Every nigerian relative,every man ,woman she met was very harsh and very wicked and treated everyone around so poorly
People were extremely rude for no reason and constantly angry and on edge
If you know cameroonians,they are easy going party people, I had a good friend from there sometime ago
Very polite people
If a nigerian and a Cameroonian chased a woman the Cameroonian will get the woman
There is a terrible culture we have that many Nigerians are caught up in without knowing it and sometimes it requires being away from Nigeria to another environment to appreciate the enormity of that defect we call culture.
Many of the things I see now and cringe may not have bothered me before.
There are fellow Africans that will read this same story and be horrified that a mother inlaw will act this way and be more appalled that majority of the people see her as the victim here.
Our people are messed up in their thinking and don't even know it and we call it culture
That is sad

NmaGOD44:
a good wife my foot.....how about a good MIL??....won't she be good to d DIL and not make troubles first??.....stupid

MadCow1:



Coming from someone who see nothing wrong in a mother in Law assaulting her daughter in law over the photos of her daughter in laws child in her daughter in Laws house..


You keep calling me a woman prick and that is supposed to be an insult?

You are a funny young man..

Sophyrocks:


So you are not married and you could point fingers at another person for being single. Nigerians and hypocrisy! Why? Remove the rafter from your eyes before removing the straw from another. I have not seen you point out the fact that the Op's mother was wrong for daring to slap his wife. She was the troublemaker here. What sort of mother goes about fighting in another person's home? Will such a woman get the respect she deserves? You dnt go formenting trouble and expecting a pat in the back. Respect begets respect. If a MIL does not have such mentality in dealing with others, she should expect disrespect.

perfectionist:
@ ZACHIE
Thanks for updating your previous post.
My wife called me while they were still quarrelling, before the fight started.
I hope to God this issue is resolved amicably. I've already started the mediation process but it's not easy 'cos my mother would have none of it. Her terms for reconciliation are rather steep, necessitating the departure of my wife from the home.

mirob:



What is so hard in leaving the copy for the mother in law and printing another one? She wants to drag things with the mother in law and that is so bad, we have to initiate peace sometimes.

NmaGOD44:
[s]stop hating guy......it doesn't suit u......just wake up from ur slumber cos this is 21st century where men treat their wives with the due respect they deserve...it's actually very simple[/s]

mirob:



What is so hard in leaving the copy for the mother in law and printing another one? She wants to drag things with the mother in law and that is so bad, we have to initiate peace sometimes.

NmaGOD44:
ur story has nothing to do with the issue at hand.....did the wife throw her MIL out?....did she not welcome her well ??...was she the first to strike??.....pls read the whole story before dishing out ur advice ...abeg

perfectionist:
@ ZACHIE
Thanks for updating your previous post.
My wife called me while they were still quarrelling, before the fight started.
I hope to God this issue is resolved amicably. I've already started the mediation process but it's not easy 'cos my mother would have none of it. Her terms for reconciliation are rather steep, necessitating the departure of my wife from the home.

NmaGOD44:
ur story has nothing to do with the issue at hand.....did the wife throw her MIL out?....did she not welcome her well ??...was she the first to strike??.....pls read the whole story before dishing out ur advice ...abeg

iiichidodo:
Real men control their wives and not allow them fight their mothers.Woman wrappers eat sh**t dished out by their wives then allow their mothers be bloodied by these jezebels jes because they can.As a jezebel that should be easier for you to understand.

NmaGOD44:
he has no idea how old I am so I won't bother about the being single comment of his........marriage isn't everything for me contrary to the general believe they have here....first things first then a clean and correct guy will follow

TheFilmmaker:


What the hell are you people saying? A woman slapped my mom? And you expect me to take it like it's Nescafé? Why is everybody so hypocritical in judging? My wife can not even have the effrontery to slap my junior sister, not to talk of my mother. WTF are you people talking self?

onoja12:
As for strike,let me ask you so,if your mother strikes you,you would strike her back,or if your mother wants to take pictures from your husbands house you would stop her,please answer

NmaGOD44:
[s]laughs.....u really are a sadist...it's quite clear to me now..........I keep telling u to wake up cos u are gonna b stuck right here in this country with dat idea of being a control freak.....learn to love and u will b loved back.....peace[/s]

onoja12:
As for strike,let me ask you so,if your mother strikes you,you would strike her back,or if your mother wants to take pictures from your husbands house you would stop her,please answer

iiichidodo:
Nonsense rubbish....