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Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by shrekandfiona: 3:31pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Askseek:Wow! I learnt a lot from your post. Thanks for sharing 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
pinkbee: 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:36pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
pinkbee: Thank you jare. Our parents are way too matured to engage in such petty fights abeg. Too petty for my liking. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by shrekandfiona: 3:40pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
greatgod2012:Op, I'll advise you to go with this. @ all, we as individuals should practice the act of self control. If I am slapped by an elderly person or anyone at all, my best reaction will be to walk away. I don't encourage violence in any form even if you're first provoked/hit. When tempers have calmed then you can express your displeasure in being hit 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Starieangel(f): 3:41pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Well,am still on honeymoon(in pluto) bt I cudnt help bt comment.....Alryt!ur wife called u?she pickd up her fone,paused the fight,called u and went back into fighting#weird#?its lyk ur wife doesn't trust ur mum enof to giv her hergrandchild's photo......#check dt area too#well I no sum motherinlaws can b vry troublesome and annoying bt ur wife had no ryt to fight wif ur mum.....where I come frm(am a typical yoruba woman),its a taboo....a big taboo to hit the woman who gave ur husband lyf.....dat bin said,ul need to take ur wife to ur mother's place and apologise.....ask for forgiveness.......my frnd,u need peace oooo........ensure u settle dis issue so dt it wnt affect ur family generally+vote for change!sai buhari!sai baba!#zoomingofftopluto# 3 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:42pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: hhahahaha I told my hubby the MIL said the wife would go. He asked "Go where?" Lmao. What do you expect? When they keep saying no woman ranks above my mum. Mum that has built her own family _birth you and your siblings. Abegi... Didn't that mum have her fair share of family issues? Why didn't she leave her husband and go back to her own mum. Just as you said, MILs deserve their own orientation on code of conduct. You don't walk into someone's matrimonial home and start hustling for pictures. Women naturally are very protective of their kids. She should know better. God bless my MIL. That woman is soooo sweet. 7 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by BABE3: 3:44pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
freecocoa: Abi o. Bruising your husband's mother coz she slapped you? Victim? I think not. If she had walked away. Yes she's a victim. But they fought each other sotay she left bruises on mama's face? Nah. We can even argue that mama is the victim here coz she has weaker bones. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 3:59pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
BABE3:Lmao @ weaker bones but that is a point to consider sha.. Omo, do you know the kind of liver it requires to fight someone older, just older than you o in a family?, let alone your hubby's mother? The mama is very wrong to slap wifey, no doubt but this wifey no innocent abeg. To me, it's like raising hands to slap my mum. I can yell at someone older, even my parents, bad as e bad(worst case scenario) but to hit them, and to the point of leaving marks? I don't see it happening. Even with my level of always "throwing logic" as accused by my family , I no fit turn lawyer for this kind matter, there are somethings you just don't do, this has nothing to do with, how mama is overbearing, yes we agree, she can be that and more but you don't slap a woman like that, especially over an issue like this, it's too much. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
u keep blaming the DIL, there're many ways to prove this n dat, what about the MIL, she's the one who began hitting. if u hit anyone, don't expect them to just stand there . maybe a child will, but as an adult u don't want to be belittled by anyone, dat's just a normal response it doesn't matter who the fukk u are. being a MIL doesn't give the audacity to hit any other adult. def not bcus of some pics, pics that weren't even hers! u don't hit someone because u don't get ur way, especially bcus of something that doesn't belong to u. n mumu, u need to reread the op. they have never gotten along . the fact that the MIL was bold enough to go into the DIL's home to cause trouble meant she has done something similar before , had her way n dat's why she's continue the behavior, bold enough to go into another woman's home n abuse her. thinking the DIL will just stand there. only difference is the DIL stood up for herself dis time . the MIL didn't like the DIL from the jump . pple will bully as long as u let them but i bet u ten bucks the MIL won't try this nonsense again. mirob: 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:01pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: LOL. The MIL had her own share of MIL drama in her own home o and i'm sure she wasnt a saint either. I suspect she is a troublesome DIL towards her own MIL with the way she came to her son's house for a fight. Your hubby talk well jare. Tell him i said so. 3 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by ladygogo: 4:09pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
@madcow1 . |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Osas001: 4:15pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
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Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Emmydek(m): 4:19pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
babygirlfl: You get brain swag... I like that. It's a systematic way of telling one he or she lacks home training.. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
perfectionist: The more I read you,the more i get a picture of your wife and the more I dislike your mother The wife after her assault and battery agrees to go and apologize to your mom and your mom says never,instead the only thing to appease her is for you to send your wife away? Are you sure this person actually gave birth to you Where is your father in all this? Or he ran four forty from her 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by EbolaParasite: 4:29pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Notyourb1tch:Come back when you give birth to a son and we'll see how your view will change. A good wife is hard to find. Agreed. But we also agree she can be found. A biological mother CAN NEVER be replaced. I have been in the delivery room on 4 different occasions and i SWEAR IF YOU FOORK WITH MY MOTHER, YOU ARE DONE. I dont care what anyone says, the woman that carried me for 9months plus several hours of hard labor should not be disrespected by my wife. When you become a mother, you'll know what im talking about 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
you're right . i don't think the DIL hates the MIL either. i'm sure she wants nothing more than to have a peaceful relationship with her MIL. some MILs hv a hard time letting their sons go when another woman comes into their life. another woman comes in and the hatred starts , the MIL starts finding fault and picking fights unnecessarily, but it's up the the man to step in and stand up for his wife. u're now a man and have ur own family, don't let anyone come into ur home and start fighting her, trying to put enmity between u. funny enough she wants the DIL to leave, like this is what she has been wanting. u went into her home to fight her and u want her to leave , smh babyosisi: 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by EbolaParasite: 4:32pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: Maybe if someone young enough to be your daughter physically fights with you, youd just accept forgiveness as if nothing happened. Easier said than done 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
EbolaParasite: Fights her after she started the fight? Let her stay there and keep breathing fire and brimstone then Who is losing out on a son and grand kids? The DIL is not going to kill herself All she can offer is an apology If it takes her 20 years to accept it that's her problem 6 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by EbolaParasite: 4:34pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:If your mother slaps you, will you fight back? 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by EbolaParasite: 4:36pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: If your mum slaps you, will you slap back? The DIL is disrespectful ENDOF. She lacks training. A good wife will walk away and when the husband gets bk, they can table the issues. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:37pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
EbolaParasite: If anyone asks me this question again eh 5 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
EbolaParasite: The slaps and the corresponding punches have already been given and received This is now the post Mortem I can assure you next time,the MIL will think twice before raising her hand to anyone Maybe she had never been paid back in her own coin before She knows better Infact when her other sons marry,she will be very careful when she visits them 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by EbolaParasite: 4:44pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:The issue here is that she had the audacity to fight with the MIL. What if the MIL slumped and died. The DIL lacks respect. Period. The MIL may have issues but that doesnt absolve the DIL. She is not a good wife. A good wife will not fight/beat elders. This kind of woman can kill her husband. She is not a goid wife and CAN be replaced. On the other hand, even if the MIL is bad, she cant be replaced. You only support a GOOD WIFE. Any woman that PHYSICALLY FIGHTS with your mum is BAD. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
EbolaParasite: Then she would have gone straight to hell Thank God she survived I hope she remembers to ask God for forgiveness for her actions 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by EbolaParasite: 4:53pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
shrekandfiona: Your parents will be proud. You were raised right 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Evil-doers are on the prowl Op, take @Madcow1, @flyingbird and @Babyosisi's advise. Don't do what you will regret ooooo When the chips are down, your Mum can't put her own family on hold for you I just dey laff some people for here sha, chaeeeeeeee 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by EbolaParasite: 4:56pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: Are you inferring you would do same if your MIL slaps you? Ethnically and religiously, it is wrong. I repeat any woman that fights an elderly person, whether MIL or anyone else is irresponsible. Modern day feminist. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
EbolaParasite: And it is ethnically and religiously right to beat up your son's wife? What ethnicity and religion is that 6 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 5:02pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
EbolaParasite:Can we not make this about feminism please? Why do you people have the idea that feminism can be/is responsible for an individual's opinion? 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by EbolaParasite: 5:06pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: It is not. I am not saying the MIL is right for her actions. In this case both the MIL and DIL did wrong. My point is, if you have to chose between your MUM and a bad wife, i say choose your mum because she is irreplaceable. A bad wife can be replaced with a good wife. Same thing for a bad husband. The reason the wife is bad in this case is because no Good wife will do what she did. There is no excuse for it |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by ezimum(f): 5:07pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
perfectionist:can ur wife beat ur mother if she refuse her anything in her own house dat she wants to live her life 'n live ur wife's own. No bi she marry her so don't send ur wife away b/c of her. Ur mom disrespected u one time b/c if she really want pic she shuld hav waited 4 u but let me tell u d truth she has discused how she will beat ur wife wit d pple she came wit. So ur wife was wrong too 4 not waiting 4 u 2 come bck 'n fall 4 ur mom's trap. She shuld have called u 'n hear wht u will say instead of fighting wit ur mom. Don't send ur wife away pls. Apologise to ur mom if she didnot undastand now she will undastand later. d 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by EbolaParasite: 5:08pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
freecocoa: Because of the females responding thinking it is okay to fight with their MOTHERS. |
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