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| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by kayjegs: 11:33pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Lady, my advice is this. You have to know why he is saying you should not go further with your studies. If it is just that he just doesn't want you to further your studies without any good reason, then I will advice you cut off from him. Mind you when it comes to the issue of a man of God told you this and that when you prayed on it, I see it as rubbish. The man of God can only advice you based on what he knows about the guy and any matured person who is married can also advice you, so its not the 'man of God' only that can advice. The real issue here is marrying someone that loves you and wants the best for you. If he does not want the best for you then you should leave him even if he is the governor of the central bank. That your husband has money is not a guarantee of a good marriage. And if you think you won't get a better person, that is a lie. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Nobody: 11:34pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
I need to meet this fellow. He should run for his life o. The babe doesn't know what her priorities should be plus na her mama dey determine will of God for her life? That brother needs to move on. If you ask her what she wants to do with the Masters now, she go talk say make she just get am for hand make people know say she go school. Babe, tell the guy to move on with his life. You'll soon grow up 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by UNLEASHED(m): 11:43pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
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| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by MockinJay(m): 11:45pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
In the course of my service year, I met a guy who has shown interest in marrying me. I am equally interested in him. He is working in an oil company and he is well paid.  "I'm equally interested in him. He works in an oil company and he's well paid" 4 Likes |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by habeebcole: 11:45pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
ronald4lif:masters don baf  ......wat if shes tru and still doesnt get a job.......nko.2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Nobody: 11:46pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
This one here's a no-brainer (pun intended). I def know what I would've done. In fact, the thread title should have the words MASTER'S DEGREE in caps, not "him" 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by habeebcole: 11:47pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Timbuktou:[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]a[size=8pt][/size] abi oo tell dem my broda 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by ronald4lif(m): 11:49pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
habeebcole: There will always be a job. Change has come to Naija remember.  |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Venom104: 11:51pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
its just funny how all the guys always described in these kind of stories work in an OIL COMPANY.. who then dates the bricklayers and mechanics of this world... 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Venom104: 11:53pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
ronald4lif: most definitely surely joking... right? RIGHT??... |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by habeebcole: 11:54pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
ronald4lif:we knw say change don come.....bt bro noting is permanent evn CHANGE. u knw y even change changes change dat results into anoda change wich can be further changed into wat it changes into wich can still be changed . so make she take her man jeje |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Nobody: 11:54pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
ronald4lif: I think you've been living in lala land , in as much as I don't support the man enforcing his wishes on her it really isn't as easy as you put it. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Nobody: 11:55pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
@OP If he wants you, is anything stopping him from marrying you and then you keep on doing your part-time schooling? |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by valdes00(m): 11:56pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Missmossy:many wil tel her such, including me..... he does not want a suitation whereby she wil fall in luv wit anoda guy in d course of her studying.... after spending enof to fund her education, he w now bit his fingers in regret..... d guy round it up bfor he loses her to sum1 else 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Venom104: 11:57pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Anyway if the main reason for the masters is to get job, my dear.. having a higher degree doesn't guarantee you any job.. i have Msc. Archi but i never still get better job.. so better not to lose a bird hand for a slight advantage in the labor market 4 Likes |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Nobody: 11:59pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Islie: Those requirements are archaic The qualities I want : 1) The only daughter of wealthy parents 2) A recovering nymphomaniac 3) Gravity defying mammary glands(NASA must be studying it for anti-gravity) 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by ronald4lif(m): 11:59pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
neoapocalypse: Oh well. I have been living in cuckoo land rather.  |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by habeebcole: 11:59pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Missmossy:c her as if u dont knw ur fellow women........d guy os simply scared of a break up . abi no be woman we dey talk of ....once dey attain a level higher dan urs u don turn to dier footd guy is simply doin it for love. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Matty33(m): 11:59pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
dre11:It is very clear that u don't really love the man in question. But be kful cos u r getting old already, pray that God quickly give u a husband u'll actually love. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by eightsin(m): 12:00am On Apr 03, 2015 |
We might be missing a point here. Is the guy not interested in you furthering your education or he just doesn't want to wait for you till you finish the program before settling down? What I understand is that he is ready to settle down while you ain't. I think you can get married and still school. You don't need to wait till after your master program before tying the knot 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Teespice(f): 12:02am On Apr 03, 2015 |
SagePerv: it is this reasoning of yours that divorce is on the rise these days smh. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by braine(m): 12:02am On Apr 03, 2015 |
Masters would be the option. |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by MEJURU231(m): 12:08am On Apr 03, 2015 |
in as much as you wish to further your education,remember you are a woman and time is not on your side at 27,i think the major problem here is your mums statement which i know prayer can solve and give you direction.frankly speaking if you were my sister i will tell you to go ahead and marry your hubby who knows the fake pastor she must have been in contact with(mum) all the same prayer is the only key.,God will see you through |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Nobody: 12:11am On Apr 03, 2015 |
I for like to comment. But anything were dey related to naija women, Nothing just dey concern me with them. Imagine most of the female for here dey say dump him dump him, career first career first. And I fit spot 10 of the username were don open thread dey Shout no husband, We're is good suitor. As a Banker, no suitors is coming my way. Can a woman find husband at the age of 37. Etc. I know all of una for here. Keep on deceiving yourself. WOMEN AND THERE MADNESS 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by zubino(m): 12:14am On Apr 03, 2015 |
I think there is something missing in your story. u need to tell us more about this guy. Do u really love him ? Does he love u? Make sure he loves u , before u say yes. Oil company money isnt everything 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Tshaphilo: 12:19am On Apr 03, 2015 |
Go for ur masters becoz ur mother says he is not ur ordained choice secondly. do not marry any man dat feels insecure abt ur academic progress. Marriage is actually not meant to b do or die affairs. When d time comes u will b married 3 Likes |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Nobody: 12:22am On Apr 03, 2015 |
[s] SagePerv:[/s] Marriage isnt vanity also shey.....The girl in questiom is a graduate for tha matter? Please my dearest, I'd really like to let her knows, The word love isnt just liking yu both personality, Buh errTin relating to you Academically,Physical Appearance. Pls dont let LOVE stop yu.......... Am aving this feeling tha if he wants the best for you, He would permit yu to further your study........He has hidden or unknown intension as to yur MSC! Well as a real ma , I'd advise you as the woman/feminine to finally and boldly tell him tha If he really wants the best for you then he should either wait for yur MSC.....He has d intention of makn u a full house wife(Buh dis u wnt bliv me? Wuld like to talk to u berra on dis! #Privately thO |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by IYANGBALI: 12:24am On Apr 03, 2015 |
To be candid with you,I will advice you to go for your Masters programme,what you hold in your hand is yours,if the man truly loves you,he will wait for you to get your masters degree,moreover you can be thrown out anytime by a man,but you will always have your certificate in your hand. Secure your future first and the right man will find you 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by Nobody: 12:24am On Apr 03, 2015 |
And also remember yur mum doesnt even want him somehow 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by buoye1(m): 12:28am On Apr 03, 2015 |
HBD toykathy |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by InvertedHammer: 12:38am On Apr 03, 2015 |
/ As husband scarce reach? Everything is negotiable. The problem I have come to find out is that a lot of people do not know how to negotiate. I find it hard to believe that the dude opposed your master degree pursuit. I am saying this because I have dealt with women with valid points but their mode of delivery sucked. Did you tell him that it is the plan for the family or you told him it is your plan and then went ahead and dish out some ultimatum? I know why I ask all these questions. Change your style. Forget about your mother's spiritual consultation. That in itself is a load of crap. \ 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Torn Between HIM And Masters Degree by udmydearest(f): 12:43am On Apr 03, 2015 |
SagePerv: |
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