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| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by IYANGBALI: 2:06pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
op oniranu ni e,o nikan se. Igbeyin lo ndun oloku ada,oju e a ja.Just give me the guy number,if you no wan do,i go do. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by manuelpepper: 2:06pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
naija ladies are now witches and mammy waters. 6 Likes 41 Shares |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by xkris11(m): 2:06pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Its simple....His joystick is not big enough for you. My advice is to sit yr family down and explain to them that you have someone else who can make you happy because there is no way the marriage will work,you will surely go out for sexual pleasure 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by sonnie10: 2:06pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Bollinger: 12 years minus 4 years of dating = ?  1 Like |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by princemi(m): 2:07pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
all I can say is " nyc guys don't get the girls". like u pointed out " he is a complete gentleman" maybe u feel he's too nice and predictable that's y nothing abt him impresses u anymore. 10 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by ogaofficer(m): 2:07pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
This lady need change, soulglo eleojo pls come and advice her o o o o she needs your help emusmith where you dey. Am short of words |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by kliq(m): 2:07pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
ellabooz:  |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by siegfried99(m): 2:07pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Some people are heartless  OP, where is your conscience 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by DECOtech(m): 2:07pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
So what?! How is it even our business? Was she forced to accept the guy's proposal in the first place? That marriage had better not happen or the both of them might be a miserable couple the rest of their married lives. 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by femi4: 2:08pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
sprinkles14:Is there another man somewhere that you have feelings for? Don't cheat on him, just tell him after the wedding to release you from his heart. Don't have a child for him........else you ll deprive such child motherly/fatherly care. |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by sophtaf(f): 2:08pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
DonX001:I tire  |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by laplace12(m): 2:08pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
sprinkles14: He is probably too good for you. I was told you people don't like good guys. Just dump him and hang on. A reliable player and heartbreaker will surely around. Be patient sister 6 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 2:08pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
sprinkles14: First thoughts....I may return here to modify posts. Love is not a feeling. We think that when we love someone...we would always have that warm feeling of love towards that person. That every day would be like a wonderful birthday. That there would be sparks in the air, that the birds will sing in the trees, and that we would walk together in the air...singing and reading such wonderful poetry. That we would walk arm in arm by a beautiful sunset, have lovely nights full of passion, and wake up sweetly in each other's arm. Yes....that's.....a paperback version of love. (Now I know why my mum refused point blank to allow any romance novels...especilaly Mills and Boon into the house when I and my sibs were much younger). Forgive me....but I think you are in love with an idealised version of love. If you ask me, you do not love the guy. You love your idea of being in love with this guy. Well....I have news for you. True love is what lasts when the other person hates your guts beyond reason. True love is what is there when the other person is not perfect. Indeed , I wonder if you really loved the guy. You were never in love with this guy.You loved the idea of being in love, his gentleness, and his etc....and now you suddenly realise that it is not enough. My friend...my advice to you is to break up , forget about how people will shout at you....and about the disgrace.....and go and learn the truth about love. Before you enter into any marriage...you have to learn how to love more than your spouse loves you...because humans are not perfect. My goodness....have you, for instance learned to love people who abuse you? Have you learned to love people who don't think you are fantastic.? Have you learned to love people who are not attractive enough? You are not ready to be a servant....giving out love....you want to be a master. Time you learned being a servant. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by charles316: 2:08pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
This is the reason ladies are adviced to close their legs in their youth. Cos after sometime, nothing about their potential husbands interest them. Don't let him waste his money on the wedding then. Go look for the guy that interest you. Your mates will kill to be in your shoes. 9 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Boscog(m): 2:09pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
If you can't develop any emotional choice for him, then find away to break it down earlier than to plan cheating mechanism. It may back fire ok, 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Akposkool(m): 2:09pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Please cancel the marriage ASAP. Life is too short to spend anyhow. But how did you get this far when you don't love him? Let me guess, you are after his money that's all, or he is not good in bed, or perhaps you are one of those over 30 Nigerian girls who are tired of waiting because people are piling pressure on you to get married. Abeg quit the fantasy and face the real world. 3 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by chudez0147(m): 2:10pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
sprinkles14: |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by ayarandy10: 2:10pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
on point, bro! datz d PRbLM...if only she will admit. scribble: |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by misspetit(f): 2:10pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Smh..... Dated him for 4year  and notin interest u abt him den Y did u say yes when he proposed to u?Anyway...... jst passing by 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by portacabin: 2:10pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
What are the things you don't really like about him? Don't get married to him if you are already feeling this way. 1 Like |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by bee444: 2:11pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
The problem is, bad girls like you don't like gentle men. And I don't blame you a bit. You need a guy who could spice up your activity with some kind of crazy shhit. You need a friend and not a husband who would later turn up and act like your daddy. You need someone who says dirty and do nasty things to you in bed. A guy that can handle you roughly. A very mean guy but also caring and loving. A guy full with activities and very ambitious. No one should marry out of pity. If your guy don't tickle your fancy, don't marry him. But then everyone can change. You could make him to be what you want him to be. 6 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by bakynes(m): 2:11pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Am sure some other guy is now in the picture, that's why she is thinking this way she probably wants a new face arnd after 4 years bt remember if my guess is right that the New guy might even be worse and you will get tired of him too. Just have it mind that love dies in a rship from time to time it's that friendship that keeps you guys going. 1 Like |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by sukkot: 2:12pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
sprinkles14:is his joystick too small for you ni ? 4 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by gbemi12(m): 2:12pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
For guys: If a lady doesn't really feel you and you have noticed, plssss just let her go. It will almost certainly have a bad ending and I am very sure that the guy will notice that the lady isn't really interested. And no matter who you become or what you achieve, she'll most likely not suddenly fall in love with you....she can only play along for her selfish interests.We humans crave for relationship because we feel lonely or because we want to be loved and appreciated.....but when you get yourself into this kind of mess, your life just becomes a nightmare and that loneliness glares at you every minute of your life even though you are married. its just better to be alone than to get into this kind of mess. An Uncle of mine got out something similar after five solid years. I couldn't hold back my tears when he told me the story....In situations like these, women can be evil! 15 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Donpizzle(m): 2:12pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
@Op, u re simply too wicked. U dnt hv to tie down anoda woman's husband. If u dnt like him,flee nd let him look for a woman dat loves him rather than habour such evil tots as cheatin on him evn b4 marriage. Mehn, i go do 1wk dry fasting b4 i marry to avoid pple lyk u.... 5 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by KingsleyCEO: 2:12pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
@OP you need serious deliverance and is going to be in phases: Day 1-Cele Pastors Day 2-Aladura pastors Day 3-witches and wizards Day 4-Babalawos Day 5-The elders from your village Day 6-Your friends Day 7-Mountain of fire If after all of this, your head still is unable to reset... You need to dey chop slap everyday till your head normalise. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by joelenesleek(f): 2:12pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Please can I have his number. I am very very intrested in him. 15 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 2:12pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
sprinkles14:
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| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 2:13pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
misspetit:Lol, That's what you get when you have eaten up the cake before the party begins. 6 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by charles316: 2:14pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
xkris11: Its her problem if his dick isn't big for her. No woman was born with a wide hole, so if her puss#y is still how it was created, then she wouldn't need gigantic member. When you tell them to stop jumping from dick to dick, they won't understand. 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Homguy(m): 2:14pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
MzNelly:before I give any advice of any sort to this disillusioned lady, I would ask why you want to make that young man's miserable by advising Op to continue with a relationship she's definitely not interested in? she said she's forced herself to continue with this guy and its not working for the past 4 years, what would spicing up do since she ain't even attracted to hr hubby to be? 3 Likes |
| Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Ilekeh(f): 2:14pm On Apr 03, 2015 |
Dem Don start again. Is marriage by force? 1 Like |
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