joelenesleek:
Please can I have his number. I am very very intrested in him.

Sharp Babe !!!! Pesin wey get cap, no get head !!!!!

Which would you prefer, calling the marriage off now or a divorce(possibly within a short period of time)?

my sista u nid God's intervention, be prayerful or better still, see a pastor, u need to b delivered from external spiritual forces that don't want good things for you

PULL OUT B4 ITS TOO LATE

DIX IS MARRIAGE NOT RELATIONSHIP

IF U DONT GET IT RIGHT

YOU ARE DOOMED

If this is true then you are very wicked. What has the poor guy done to deserve this? This is the height of selfishness. Na wa

sprinkles14:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

WELL YOUR THE ONE DECIEVING YOURSELF. MARRY OUT OF LOVE NOT PITY

Hmm im picturing a runaway bride going down the steps of the church in tears and the guy looking shocked to the marrow, someone in the front row goes down in heart attack.....


You've never discussed even with a confidant(an elderly, friends)- thats the very big deal about issues like this. Wonder why! Keeping mute till the devil says "yay"

do something so you wont be added to the statistics of divorce in our time. LHM

N

sprinkles14:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

But why lie because you wanna make front page

sprinkles14:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

Do you feel that powerless in your life that you can't even choose who you marry? If you don't want, call it off. Why plan to wreck the man after you marry him FOR NO REASON when you can simply release him to go find his own person Now?

So you want to wait after he has paid all the money for your wedding and lists and etc. Chai, this is evil O.

Are u from the sea or Ocean?

sprinkles14:

Not at all...met this guy when he earns less than 20, 000 monthly...

i smell lies if nt the money den sumtin else 4year wit a guy and nuttin interest u? Hmmmmmmm we really need change, u jst bout to destory a guy life. Y didn't u tell him all ds while?

22 men r running after u like a football game. U are doing shakara. Soon u will be chased by 12men like in the game of basketball. But soon only one lazy man will be following u like a game of golf. That time ur eye go open.

You are about to experience a new dimension of frustration.

For four years! My dear there must be something connecting you guys, no matter how small the connection is, you need to build on that.
Where does he goes wrong? Is it the sex life? Do you have someone that f.ucks you more than he does? Why not talk about the missing links with him? Let him know that all is not well, let him know you're not happy either. No more faking, no more charade.
If you go ahead with marriage without proper consultations, it might send that lovely guy to early grave, even though you knew you've been playing a written script with his life and future.
Above all, walk away. Never late than ever.

Cheating on him will not make you happy but rather shatter your life for the worse. I wonder y u wud stay faithful(daz if u ve bn) to d guy for 4years n wen he nw willingly n lovingly want to settle down wit u u wnt m shatter his life. Beta tell him nw n let him call off d wedding n try to overcome d shock in time dan to mke him waste his resource on a will b failed union. Tell m what den n hu den interest u?

iPrevail:
Nonsense talk!. Your problem is obvious.. You're a frigging gold-digger.. It's been the money keeping you all along.

You dated someone for four good years, you felt no connection.. You didn't breakup. He then engaged you... You still didn't breakup. Now he's about to get married to you but you still wouldn't let go..

Are you related to Lucifer?

Have some good in you... Save that poor guy's soul.. Tell him you feel no connection whatsoever.. It best you do so before the marriage.. Tell him he's free to divorce you after the marriage..

This is one very horrible story

it's obvious many people are in a relationship cos other people have a bf or gf

bosun11:


d OP does that

hehe

Abeg stop forming bullshit up 4 us jo,if nothing interest u abt him lo be sod'ogun ngba na,oniro oshi,trying 2 waste ur ppl's time.

None of my business!!!

sprinkles14:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

Just imagine the poo you wrote! This dude has all the qualities you'd need in a man. Yet you want more! What nonsense

The OP need a medical attention.

4 solid years?

So you want to dump him after spending so much on wedding.

You're crazy.

Even Satan himself won't forgive you.

You can only blame yourself at the end of everything. Some would kill to get half of the qualities of the guy u mentioned.
But then on the flip side, maybe because u guys have over banged each other in the course of the relationship so the spark is gone, or maybe you are too young to appreciate that step u guys are about to take...or maybe you just aren't the marriageable type.
Which ever way, when.you are about to break up with him like u plan, just be rest assured that the karma that will haunt n massacre you will be so unbelievably quick but fatal. Thanks.

sprinkles14:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

My goat for Easter won't believe this.

Gaddamn!
I think if you think of the lapses, loopholes, potholes, pu$$yholes or di€kholes of individuals u wont wanna be in a relationship let alone marriage. No one is perfect but work out those necessary stuff. Happiness & joy is needed in marriage, if you walk into that marriage without these; you have murdered that matrimony prematurely. You have one month to back out before its late.
I heard you say "cheat" in your last statement. I sense maybe you guys are not sexually compactible or ur guy cant bang wella, if u have tried unsuccessfully working that out mehn! Ball out! Before u create chaos & anarchy in ur kpokri life

sprinkles14:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

Why re U nt happy?
Why re U nt fulfilled?
Why do U keep d rlatnship 4 4 year?
Why do U accept his proposal?
U re tinkin of divorce even b4 d marriage
U re even tinkin of cheatin ur husband even b4 d weddin.

D way U describe him seems he is good. May be u wnt a thug.

If U said nothing n absolute nothing interest U 2 d guy den I guess U re lieing wit all dis qualities. Jst examine urself diaris someting U need or someone.

sprinkles14
post=32303082:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting
married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must
confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites
me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending
and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying
job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his
priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me.
Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do
because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in
particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will
convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm
away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't
work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my
husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly
appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

I Might Be Young,But am sure hv spoken to Numerous Ladies about Relationship and Marriage,u dnt need to Pretend wen u dnt like smtn,i do warn pple once u dnt like a man dnt say i will adjust later or he will adjust,No things doesnt wrk dat way.Marriage is nt smtn to toy with.The Best option is for u to call him Right Now and Opt Out Of the Marriage.becus if u go in2 d marriage and cheat, Very Great Mistery Await to B4 u,dat one of the biggest sin u dnt need to do.My sister pls opt out now!

...brb

@op,
i have a few questions i know you have said some good things about the guy however:
1. Is he physically ugly? e.g bad face, short and black, thin and flat, too fat wit large tummy and snores etc?
2. Does he have self confidence, he speaks well, well educated, and polished, do you know any family problem the guy has in his family eg terminal health problem etc?
3. Are u into another guy of some sort?
4. Is any other guy asking you out for dating or marriage at the moment?
5. Is he neat?
6. Does he not seem to be planing his future properly?
meanwhile be careful bc good husbands are scarce.
Maybe part of the problem that your guy has is that he doesn't cheat on you.

From your post I can conclude the main issue is coming from the angle of sex.

BETTER CALL IT OFF NOW BEFORE IT BECOMES TOO LATE

Listen and listen well. If the guy loves you, then you are making the best decision. I ve ignored reading other comments because they may change my mind on what to tell you.
I ve said it and I will say it again. Women are ment to respond 2 love and not to fall in love before marriage.
God created women to identify and respond to the man who loves them. In marriage you will gradually start falling in love with the man who treats you with respect, who is proud of you among friends, takes care of your children, parents. Who plans your future home with you, sets up a family business, workes hard to put your children in the best schools, stand by you against his family. ... when that time comes you will know and naturally fall in love with the man over and over again and forget this your childish excitement.
Look at it this other way. You are so excited today , love him die but he feels just excited about your body looks 2day. With time when these things fade away, he starts 2 cheat on you, irritated by your presence and disrespects you in public. That is when you will realise it is better to marry a man who loves you than the one you love.
Many married women 2day wish they were in your shoes to go back and marry that guy that loved them rather than the one they married who is presently dealing with them at home.
Unfortunately most of them don't ve the time to come this forum and offer that advice because they are too chocked taking care of the children all alone including the big baby thier husbands.

Nollywood part 4

waiting for part 5 when ur eye go clear after divorce

charles316:


Its her problem if his dick isn't big for her. No woman was born with a wide hole, so if her puss#y is still how it was created, then she wouldn't need gigantic member.

When you tell them to stop jumping from dick to dick, they won't understand.

Imagine,for 4 years she has been deceiving herself with the guy.I am she did that for financial gain.