Nollywood part 4

waiting for part 5 where ur two eyes go clear after divorce.

your fading beauty is deceiving you.

My dear,I got nothing to tell u than to figure out wat exactly is going on nd pray abt it,it may be devil work to tear ur world apart,so am advicing to seek God intervention he will lead u

Are you sure you are thinking from your head?

Guys make una see the lady wey deserve hearbreak o! Not those innocent ones. Some persons derive pleasure and satisfaction from pain. The OP is one of them

sprinkles14:

I'm a victim of the overrated marriage in our society.

shut the f*ck up! you made yourself a victim. why did you play along with some one you aren't even interested in from the get go? shame on you, dear. fact is, your fiance is the the victim here, not you. sadly, the good dude took you as his No. one priority, if he had treated you like trash, you wouldn't be here typing such gibberish. Now, do the honorable thing and "TAKE A WALK" before you wreck your sorry life and that your fiance.

1- YOU COULD SEND your mutual friends.

2- Type a written message to him, and blank him by traveling away from his reach.

3-Tell your family sternly all you typed here if you are forced to marry him.

please for the sake of your innocent future children don't marry that dude out of pity.


Advice to my fellow guys out there,:
Never give all your power to a lady, regardless of your relationship status whether married or not. its a beauty to always remain a challenge and keep her on her toes, through her existence. Have your life, and be your own priority before some dumb lady enters that list. ciao.

pretydiva:
85% of girls don't no wat dey want.

very correct and they are confuse too

sprinkles14:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

How heartless can you be
You feel nothing but want to go ahead with the wedding with a plan of divorce in place even before the wedding
He will sponsor a fake wedding them spend his money to send you abroad then you release the bombshell from there
CHineke kpoo kwa gi oku
Nne just come out and tell this man that you are already chopping another man that you prefer instead of lying to everyone and yourself

sprinkles14:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

You must be a turkey. Yo were his gf for 4 years and you allowed this relationship to go as far as marriage?
All these while, what were you enjoying in him? Iguess his money . Something must be wrong with you. You have not yet told us why you stayed this long.

WELL TO START WITH U MUST UNDERSTD THAG LUV IS NOT THE CRITERIA FOR MARRIAGE UNDERSTANDING MATERS ALOT, OWING TO THE FACT THAT U STILL HAVE NOT OPENED YOUR MIND JUST TO SEE THE BEAUTIFUL SIDE OF HIM ALONE, I THINK FROM YOUR DISCRIPTION HE IS AN IDEAL MAN FOR EVERY WOMAN, JUST PRAY AND OPEN YOUR MIND FOR LUV TO ENTER THEN YOU WILL REALISED THAT YOU ARE THE MOST BLESSED THIS YEAR.

sprinkles14:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

my own advise is for you to stop posting fake sh1t

sprinkles14:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

Then simply walk away cos if u fail to listen to ur inner voice, u may end up f*cking anoda guy outside ur marriage. Seeking advise here or anyother place is not the solution because 'a shoulder to lean on is definately a d*ckto ride on'

laplace12:


Nawa oo.

Didn't you read where he said the guy is caring with a good paying job.


No be Nigerian girls again

lol... many of them are confuse

joelenesleek:
Please can I have his number. I am very very intrested in him.

Nice one.....please do the needful since the OP cant appreciate what she has

I remember this actress chalize theron and her boyfriend of many years broke up mutually bcus according to charlize the boyfriend was like a brother to him and not a lover. My advise is break off the relationship now than later. Don't marry this guy out of obligation. Why not travel abroad now instead of waiting until u get married? Its easier to call everything off than divorce. Marriage no be "I dey come". Na lifetime thing. Cheers.

sprinkles14 or whatever your name is...give joelenesleek the number of the guy straight off........if you cant value him , another lady will

sprinkles14:

This has got nothing to do with money please...saying the guy is earning a good salary is just to add to his qualities....money isn't a factor of what's on ground please...my family back ground is very okay...and my family is handling almost everything for the ceremonious wedding.....Thank you for your contribution.

What is the factor....sex?

IYANGBALI:
op oniranu ni e,o nikan se. Igbeyin lo ndun oloku ada,oju e a ja.Just give me the guy number,if you no wan do,i go do.

ahahah... I think say you Don marry born plenty gan

4yrs relationship is not a joke I believe u have been cheating on him during this years , your fears are if cute after marriage . if you know too well u can't coupe with him run away .
maybe he is not a good fucker or His cock is too small let me know so I can advice u correctly .

Are you a Christian? U nid counselling frm a genuine man of God ASAP

Were u guys havin sex tru out 4yrs? If yes den u both killed d vibe.... CHANGE is dere4 important buh d earlier d beta....call d marriage off now or neva.....d gods ov nairaland av spoken....ise !!!!!!

Odunharry:

ahahah... I think say you Don marry born plenty gan

i never marry o

Eh ya, I am sorry dear. I know you are currently feeling bad about your self. Its not too bad, in life we make mistakes but we must not allow our mistakes to turn to error. Currently, I am in a four years relationship too, its hard for ladies to feel thesame way they felt for four years, but we are both working it out. It may not work but still we'll hold each other in high esteem for the good time we have shared together. Take a deep breath and ask yourself what exactly you want in life. Take emotions away and answer yourself in good faith, if the guy can provide the solution then take ur time and go ahead. If you think he can never give you happiness pls stop the wedding plan and don't put the innocent guy in everlasting prison.

ehjiwummy:
My dear,I got nothing to tell u than to figure out wat exactly is going on nd pray abt it,it may be devil work to tear ur world apart,so am advicing to seek God intervention he will lead u

in this case,IMO the op na the devil,, date a guy for 4 years, meet his family members and all, plan wedding then decide a month to go that you dont feel complete with the guy.. Let her just tell us the truth that she has another guy telling her sweeter things.. May God keep me away from women like this..

Hi, this is my first time of commenting on this forum. I was exactly in this type of situation 5yrs ago. I bowed 2 family pressure even though I wasnt attracted 2 d girl. Now I live wth d consequences of that decision: we r divorced & I have nt been happy since then. Pls and Pls don't go ahead with d marriage if u don't really love d guy.

gbemi12:
For guys: If a lady doesn't really feel you and you have noticed, plssss just let her go. It will almost certainly have a bad ending and I am very sure that the guy will notice that the lady isn't really interested. We humans crave for relationship because we feel lonely or because we want to be loved and appreciated.....but when you get yourself into this kind of mess, your life just becomes a nightmare and that loneliness glares at you every minute of your life even though you are married. its just better to be alone than to get into this kind of mess. An Uncle of mine got out something similar after five solid years. I couldn't hold back my tears when he told me the story....In situations like these, women can be evil!

true

It's very simple. Call it off..

It might sound false,but is true have also pass through this,we have been dating since my uni days,he likes me,like ke love,he can do anything for me,if I offend him, he will be the one to beg,he loves me,he can buy me anything,he over pamper me,wht else can I qualify him with,but I don't love him,i thought with his attitude that I will love him,i try all my best,i never cheated on him,i pray to love him Buh is a matter of the heart,after 3yrs I hurt him eventually with the truth,the truth I should have told him long ago,but he won't accept I can't c him hurt,hes a rare gem,wish him all the best,matters of heart r dicey,op if u can't love him fr 4yrs,u can't

You seem to have the problems and the solutions.

This lady is economical with the truth!
There is someone else in the picture!

You have someone else you are in love with but the person isn't ready for marriage yet or the person doesn't care for you as much!

Secondly, your current guy might be satisfying you emotionally.

What ever is the case, that guy deserves a better person than you.
You stringed him along for four years and you don't think its wickedness but if its a guy that does that all hell will let loose.

When this nice guy turns into a heart breaker afterthis experience its the same ladies that will complain!!!

maryhaam:
It might sound false,but is true have also pass through this,we have been dating since my uni days,he likes me,like ke love,he can do anything for me,if I offend him, he will be the one to beg,he loves me,he can buy me anything,he over pamper me,wht else can I qualify him with,but I don't love him,i thought with his attitude that I will love him,i try all my best,i never cheated on him,i pray to love him Buh is a matter of the heart,after 3yrs I hurt him eventually with the truth,the truth I should have told him long ago,but he won't accept I can't c him hurt,hes a rare gem,wish him all the best,matters of heart r dicey,op if u can't love him fr 4yrs,u can't

Eyya.. better late than sorry.. so are you single now??

sprinkles14:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

I will advise u to leave now and let other lady that wil appreciate him comes in..... Tell everyone that u don't want him, people wil have to respect ur decision....