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Should I Forgive Her? by CR9R: 6:26pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Hello NL, I seriously need your help. I'll try to make it short and precise. I was dating a lady and along the line she got pregnant for me. I was forced to marry her for this reason, but the thing is I knew she was cheating on me even when we were dating. But I am responsible for the baby. The only problem I have with her is that she is a flirt, this happened a lot of times before she got pregnant. However, I decided to marry her based on my relationship with her family, hoping she would change. Two years after marriage, she still flirts but I have never caught her red handed. As God will have it I saw a chat with one of her boyfriend, where she promised the guy a good nice time next time she visit. I was mad, since I was close to her family, I reported their daughter to them. And I also told my mum. I have been avoiding home since this happened but she has been calling and texting me that it was the devil. She said her pastor said it was a spiritual attack (spirit husband) that is making her cheat. But she said she has been delivered. Now I'm confused. Could this be true? Or she is just a flirt that would never change. As I speak I don't have feelings for her again. I have never trusted her anyway but we only married because she got pregnant for me. Please help, my future, my child's future is at stake on the decision I make. |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by Dyt(f): 6:30pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
![]() ![]() ![]() It is always the devil Here on NL There are two answers/solutions to your problem When a man cheats, the wife is expected to pray/fast/love him more, forgive him and be best of wife But when a woman cheats, she's devil, wicked, she should be disgraced, chased out, abandoned cos men don't forgive cheating. Muchechecheche NL my pace ![]() |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by zyzxx(m): 6:36pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
She as become Ur's So start praying for her |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by olalekan225(m): 6:39pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Spiritual attack co natural attack ni. Once a cheat will always a cheat. To mk ur decision easy go for DNA of child. Send her away is d best option |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by countsparrow: 6:40pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Hahahahaha... I don't even know what advice to drop... But seriously, if u don't kill dat gal she will... Easy bro |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by starlingbawa(m): 6:44pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
As sad as it may seem, I'd walk away from this and NEVER look back... I don't like to be cheated on when my emotions are involved. My candid opinion! |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Op, life is simple...if it isn't make it simple. Walk away...take ur baby......live your life....give your heart a soft cushion..give your baby a responsible environment to grow....your woman has her life..you are tying her down...free her to do what she wants...simple!!!!!!! |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by CR9R: 9:12pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
olalekan225:hmmm, send her away? The baby looks exactly like me though. If I send her away, her parent won't accept her back, and I don't won't her either. But I don't want her to be useless. I'm confused. |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by olalekan225(m): 8:30pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
CR9R:. u can not pus anyone up the ladder unless he or she is willing to climb. My brother u ar responsible for ur self and ur self alone, if she is not seeing things ur way u can't force her, u just hv to move on. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by sinaj(f): 8:37pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
ur property ur palaver ![]() |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by segzicres(m): 8:50pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
DNA DNA DNA DNA DNA DNA DNA DNA DNA DNA |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by klark3: 9:09pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
CR9R:It's a sin to forgive a cheating wife. Let her go, she won't change. Never forgive her, no matter what u feel for her... Only weak men forgive & accept a cheat as a wife, real men don't. It's a sin.. As regards ur child, dere will always be a way to care 4 him. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by cold(m): 9:34pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
It all depends on you. If you think you can give one more chance,fine. If you can't,walk away bro. In any event,the trust is broken and can never be mended. How are you even sure the baby is yours? Think man,think. By the way there's no such thing as a spirit husband or spirit wife. It's just a load of croc. You know what they say,you can't turn a hoe into a house wife |
Re: Should I Forgive Her? by CR9R: 3:01pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
klark3:hmmm, this makes sense, a lot. Thanks |
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