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Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Nobody: 9:20am On Apr 09, 2015 |
ITbomb: did you say endure? hahahahahajjajajajajajahahahaha bro you no be better person ooo see the kind advice you de give your fellow man ( abi woman cos the guy jonse wella by doing the trad without tapping that puna) meeeeeehn I've experienced that shiiiiii with a potential side chick, she looked innocent, fresh, beautiful and stuff but damn I was in a wrong lane, was angry with her when I discovered the shii and had to discharge her that evening after a planned adventurous night. seriously there is nothing to endure at all and you get to start wondering, calculating how, what happened to make this shii to be loose on you. you just can't continue but her mad for the wasted time and get the bittch to relieve you with some head, how can one live with a borehole like that Girl |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Nobody: 9:41am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Chinum: Smh. So traditional wedding is not wedding? Traditional wedding is the real deal! Before y'all put on the holy-than-thou attitude, check your bible!!! |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Chinum: 9:53am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Joavid: Nobody is putting on any holy-than-thou attitude, just do what works for U and let me do mine okay? |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Nobody: 10:02am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Chinum: Yes you are. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by duduade: 10:04am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Keziehenry:so the dude actually reported his wife to a third party?? |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Nobody: 10:06am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Vinshu:U mean marriage in church is the only one you recognize? No problem. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Ruttashobolwa(m): 10:12am On Apr 09, 2015 |
I concur with her and if all ladies were like this they wouldn't have cried everyday 1 Like |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Mariojane(f): 10:25am On Apr 09, 2015 |
when will u people understand that the real marriage is the traditional marriage where the bride price is been paid. going to church is for blessing of the marriage and to acquire certificate. if a pastor attends your traditional marriage and bless you during the celebration, the marriage is as authentic as anyone done everywhere in the world. if you go to church without paying a bride-price sorry u are not fully wedded. some churches will ask you before the commencement of the white wedding if the groom as paid the bride-price? if she is refusing sex after the traditional marriage, it is either she is hiding sometin or she is been brain-washed by people who convinced her that it is wrong until they do white wedding. but if she is hiding sometin and you discovered after the white wedding, then you can annul the wedding cos it is done under false pretense that means there was never a wedding cos it was on lie. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Chinum: 10:34am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Joavid: If choosing to live my life in a way dats diff from yours means putting on a holy-than-thou attitude then so be it. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Orubebe01: 10:48am On Apr 09, 2015 |
duduade:it may not be to 3rd party but btw d husband and the wife. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Chinum: 10:50am On Apr 09, 2015 |
duduade: With these red flags, I'm beginning to feel for d lady. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Nobody: 10:50am On Apr 09, 2015 |
She NEVER JAM man... I just pray she will come my way. Please, Go and ASK the LADIES ,I have dealt with. I have walked out of a MOTHER in LAW, who insisted I must go for the wedding HALL , she chose..That amounted to about #600K in portHARCOURT... I told her I would concede to that, if she would provide the cash, I was FED UP and left things unattended to. NOW, they are pleading for my Return after MONTHS. Thank God , All men are not the same.. At least EVERYMAN HAS AN ATOM of BEAST in him , it just depends on the LIMIT he can take. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Chinum: 10:51am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Orubebe01: Indirectly telling us that the guy is you? |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Nobody: 10:58am On Apr 09, 2015 |
kunletoks: Nah so e dey take start.. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Nobody: 10:59am On Apr 09, 2015 |
olasosweet: Okay, you have already saved up the money meant for his white wedding.. You haven't seen people who do trad and wait another 6 months before white wedding ? Abi you produce wedding calendar ? |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Nobody: 11:04am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Vinshu: I am sure you don't know what it takes to earn and save money. For your mind, wedding calendar states that white wedding takes place 2 weeks after traditional.. Some ladies self. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Nobody: 11:09am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Enegod: Exactly, tell her you are no more interested, not only her will beg, even her famy will join her.. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by ITbomb(m): 11:42am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Can you give you the name of the church? |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Nobody: 11:53am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Ruttashobolwa:U mean a man cannot still leave you or make you cry even after the church wedding? |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Vinshu(f): 12:22pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Keziehenry: Maybe in Nigeria. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Nobody: 12:30pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Keziehenry: just endure the wait and punish her with too much afterwards 1 Like |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Vinshu(f): 12:34pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Naughtysite: Well, if the man is not "Man-Enough" to sponsor a Wedding completely, that means he cannot sponsor a family! Why is he getting married? Most marriages dissolve very quickly these days because of the Men! Most of them marry for the sake of pleasure(Sex) without having the Financial resources! Listen to yourself, so the wife would wait until he earns money before wearing white? That is bull-shit. I said it before on a previous thread that Nigerian ladies have Poor quality standards.. That is why they are never respected. Most of them are actually bought/purchased in the name of wedding. 1 Like |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Kingsasian(m): 12:48pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Is he truly in love with her or he is after her just because of the sex? 2 Likes |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by OdenigboAroli(m): 12:48pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Over-Christianity is messing with her head. She believes the traditional wedding isn't ordained by God. My wife did the same but I didn't really care because I know why she opted for it. Guy, just relax. Africans are too sentimental and ignorant. Most of them don't even know there is nothing like church wedding in the bible. Oyibo wey bring church give them go don even straff for years before their court marriage nobi even church wedding...Ndi ala! |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by OdenigboAroli(m): 12:51pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Vinshu: Where did you get the idea that most men marry for sex? Speak for those you know...In the US people cohabit and have bunch of kids without even getting married. What's wrong with African women and their reasoning? |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Vinshu(f): 1:11pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
OdenigboAroli: Most African Men do! Its a fact. Judging by the comments on this thread, it is obvious. The worst thing a man could do is to deceive himself. Read the comments over and see what "Men" are saying. They point it out like Sex was the purpose of the wedding. I am not African actually, i am European and i am married so i understand a few things. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Abrahamweb(m): 1:36pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Vinshu:forgive me but you are very stupid for this post,bible said 'you shall leave you parents house and be joined as one' meaning ur parent will have to agree and not ur pastor,correct me if i'm wrong. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by MrsChima(f): 1:57pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Yeye men and their daft views on sex! 1 Like |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by Nobody: 1:59pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Vinshu: I have seen men who have built their own houses, run their own businesses yet they dont have money for white wedding. Don't get carried away by norms imposed on you by the white man. In your analogy if he doesn't have N1m for his white wedding, he cannot take care of a woman. That's why you need to get a job and save money to assist your husband when he will marry you. Go to the bible and also african traditional religion. Marriage involves paying a woman's bride price and her father giving consent to transfer the care of her daughter to another man. Not wearing white gown when you have slept with him and many other men. Smh.. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by clemzo101(m): 2:00pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
The lady in question is suspecting foul play Dats why. |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by kaeycea(m): 3:15pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Kingsasian: marriage, sex and love are integral part of each other, the are interwoven in the sense that u can't define one without d other... Stop creating artificial distinction here to mislead others |
Re: After Traditional,She Still Insist She Cant Have Sex Until After Church Wedding by kaeycea(m): 3:52pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Vinshu: you dont seem to get the point.. The lady in question is denying her husband sex only on d ground that she wants white wedding.. And most of us are of d view that that is idiotic and silly.. There are some reasonable excuses why wives could say no to sex to thier hubby but to premise that to white wedding alone create a whole lot of suspicion on the lady as if traditional marriage where the two families consent and bride price paid is not legally binding.. Before the advent of christianity, marriage existed in Africa and does nt need any extraneous factor to authenticate it.. As far as I'm concerned, the lady in question lacked common sense and those urging her on would hv acted differently... 4 Likes 1 Share |
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