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Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by Nobody: 12:32pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
coogar: Now I see the kinds of girls shymexx spends his money on. They'v formed his idea of money, love and relationships |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by Nobody: 12:49pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Lucky you got to know you are not good for each other or maybe she was just not ready. Sorry, stuffs happen. |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by Roland17(m): 6:05pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
My subjective take I never fail to advise single young men who are still struggling and trying to create a path for their future which seems uncertain, "DONT EVER COMMIT YOURSELF TO ANY WOMAN PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY WHOLEHEARTEDLY", leave some space for sudden changes that are bound to occur, as it's not certain where life would take you. Secondly, if possible, steer clear of young inexperienced ladies who especially are still undergraduates and yet to complete NYSC, do not deny ladies the luxury of experience and developing their personalities themselves, experience shapes thoughts and brings forth maturity, doing otherwise would make you a father rather than a partner and trust me gradual alienation would follow. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by KanwuliaJara: 8:52pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
I don't know why most people find it difficult to UNDERSTAND that relationships and marriages in AFRICA have nothing to do with LOVE, but to escape POVERTY and BOREDOM. ![]() If MOST NIGERIAN WOMEN had the opportunity to leave the jungles of Nigeria, marriage would be the LAST thing on their minds! ![]() OP! Please, read the "memo"! Thanks! ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by ryom(m): 8:58pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
@op, Its gonna hurt but you may have to move on. I am amazed how our ladies behave this way once they come here. I think its foundational. Moulding and grounding issues. A few years from now, she will bitterly regret her actions but you are likely to have moved on. I've seen it over and over in the 14 years I've been here. My appeal to any of our young people coming over here new: please don't dump your values. Have a mentor. Keep focused. The novelty does wear off. Then you find its the anchor of your foundation that keeps you. I can only pray this lady retraces her step quick. Good men are extremely hard to come by here, even for the natives. |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by pickabeau1: 7:13am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Interesting... 1 Like |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by DaMayor1: 7:44am On Apr 13, 2015 |
For Nigerian ladies, its unfortunately always about options, winner or loser, always in a competition with themselves that they cannot see clearly anymore. A game of what they can get and not what they can give. Brother, if you want peace of mind just get yourself a white lady. They're exciting, loyal, honest, and most of all give you PEACE! Thank me later ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by maclatunji: 9:34am On Apr 13, 2015 |
I can relate with being 'in love' but I think you also were projecting your biases on the lady and not seeing her for who she is. This epistle shows you how not gotten over her. #Hehehehe 3 Likes |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by Nobody: 10:04am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Op, you tried and did what you could. Many pple are fooled into marrying the wrong person. |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by freecocoa(f): 10:20am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Yea right. Sounding like you were doing her a favor being with her, narcissism sha. Why won't she leave you when you act like you are perfect, abegi. 6 Likes |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by JeromeK: 10:26am On Apr 13, 2015 |
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Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by Nobody: 10:34am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by maclatunji: 5:32pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
freecocoa: You women want men that will embrace your flaws and tantrums. However, would it not be better if you didn't throw tantrums and be like almost perfect so that when you make mistakes, the guy understands that you are human? All-too-often women do things that will drive a sane man mad. ![]() |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by freecocoa(f): 7:55pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
maclatunji:Yes ofcourse, it's all the woman's fault, did you expect me to argue that? ![]() |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by veave(f): 10:31am On Apr 15, 2015 |
There are three sides to a story. OP's side, babes side, the truth. How come you never did anything wrong all through? Not even a single mistake in the relationship? 4 Likes |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by Nobody: 10:51am On Apr 15, 2015 |
All I see is a man who likes to be in control . . . ![]() Domineering and dictatorial!!! Women also hate to be chooked, just like men. You are right to walk away from the relationship. You are not doing her much good either . . . Let her find her path while you follow yours. It doesn't always have to be about YOU! 4 Likes |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by Nobody: 10:52am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by coogar: 11:02am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Wedon: shut up, wedon were your boyfriends in uni not in control? pray tell, would you even date a man that doesn't like to be in control? what is wrong in being a man that is in control? |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by DaMayor1: 11:54am On Apr 15, 2015 |
freecocoa: Wedon: Iv known/dated quite a few 'feminists' in my life time. Notice I used a quote on the word feminist, its because I dont believe they exist. One thing they all have in common is misleading their fellow women and breaking other people's homes/relationships with poisonous advice while their's remain intact. Pretending to be tough and in control of their men, but in truth are worse than fools, servants and slaves to the men they end up with, willing to do anything to keep their own relationship intact. Women been feeble minded since creation. Just ask Eve (or serpent) if you disagree. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by Nobody: 12:21pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
coogar: Shut up . . ![]() ![]() Was I talking to you? Amebo! ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by Nobody: 12:33pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
DaMayor1: Okay, blame it on feminism (even though there's nothing feminist about my comment) . . If it will make you feel better! Marriage is not by force. Not every relationship is meant to end in marriage . . Maybe she will regret letting him go, maybe she will not. That's left for her to deal with and certainly not any of our business. 1 Like |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by DaMayor1: 1:10pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Wedon: Your reply only serves to buttress my point. Is that really the advice you would give yourself in such a scenario for a guy you know without a shadow of doubt loves you? "Marriage is not by force...etc". You know you wouldn't accept that, unfortunately that's what you give your fellow women. Instead of encouraging them to persevere, to endure, to love and honour their man, etc. I wouldn't want my wife hanging around dangerous women like you. 3 Likes |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by coogar: 2:31pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Wedon: you are high on groundnuts! 1 Like |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by kaboninc(m): 8:12pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by coogar: 8:18pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
kaboninc: don't mind that wedon with her brainless advice. when everyone sees legs, she sees hands. 1 Like |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by kaboninc(m): 8:20pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
coogar: Lool. Seeing hands when everyone sees legs. You guys are funny. Well, everyone has the freedom to type. Just that it exposes our thoughts. |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by coogar: 8:23pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
kaboninc: and it has also exposed wedon's single-digit IQ. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by kaboninc(m): 8:26pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
coogar: Chai! Single digit IQ? What's the range? 0 - 1? |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by coogar: 8:29pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by kaboninc(m): 8:32pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by Nobody: 8:42pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
coogar: Singing . . "Some people jealous me . . . " |
Re: A Love Affair To (not) Remember by Ewuro4: 8:48pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
princesssusan: Omo.. You have to be a cultured, home trained, tamed and courteous to NOT get carried away by all the downtown lights. Some were lost and never found ![]() Obodo oyinbo is a free land with ENDLESS opportunities. The only place to freely tell a maga to go to blazes. |
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