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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Stillfire: 6:13pm On Apr 14, 2015
cococandy:
grin grin Women are not happy. That's the argument

Maybe we can borrow a smile from these women that respected their husbands and were very happy then. grin grin grin grin see the one on the far right, rotflmao. grin grin grin grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Pdizzle(m): 6:15pm On Apr 14, 2015
bukatyne:
@babygirlfl,

The Bible is not sexist. It took me years to get to This point too.

I could cope more with sexist men than a sexist God. I mean the men met it (can't fault them), But the person that actually put me There and then claims to love me?

Tuah!

Read and studied and put everything in context.
P.S.: I do not use KJV though. I use NLT.

The bible is sexist, 1st Cor 14:34-35 according to your NLT says:

Women should be silent during the church meetings. It is not proper for them to speak. They should be submissive, just as the law says.
If they have any questions, they should ask their husbands at home, for it is improper for women to speak in church meetings.

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 6:18pm On Apr 14, 2015
Stillfire:


Jesus was for equal opportunity. He told us to treat ourselves as one, love your neighbor as yourself, no be equality be that? kiss, so yes He was and is a feminist. tongue grin

equal opportunity between men.
women were always in the back seat. how come Jesus never hand picked a female as one of his disciples? was there a scarcity of righteous women?

BABE3:

Abi o? Not once in the bible did jesus, peter and paul carry placards to demonstrate. grin
If jesus was not okay with the gender status quo then, won't he have said or done something---- something miraculous? grin
not once did jesus say the woman's place is not in the kitchen. lipsrsealed

Jesus was very ok with the status quo. the things he hated, He spoke about them with vigour & sometimes with violence. he scattered the main temple in jerusalem when he saw people trading there......Jesus wasn't tongue-tied. there was never a time he tasked the sadducees to review the rights of women. He was happy with the fact that women were covered from head to feet!

Pdizzle:

The bible is sexist, 1st Cor 14:34-35 according to your NLT says:
Women should be silent during the church meetings. It is not proper for them to speak. They should be submissive, just as the law says.
If they have any questions, they should ask their husbands at home, for it is improper for women to speak in church meetings.

they blame apostle paul & timothy for those scriptures. i have heard someone telling me paul would be in hell cos he was a misogynist. grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by BABE3: 6:18pm On Apr 14, 2015
Stillfire:


Jesus was for equal opportunity. He told us to treat ourselves as one, love your neighbor as yourself, no be equality be that? kiss, so yes He was and is a feminist. tongue grin

...and not once did he preach against slavery. Slaves were actually part of his sermons. He taught his followers to treat their slaves well. You can have slaves but treat them well.

... same applies to women/feminism. "Treat each other well but there's an hierarchy. Men are men. Women are women. Slaves are slaves. "



He made man the head in marriage? Marraige: arguably the most important institution. cheesy how? Why?

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(m): 6:21pm On Apr 14, 2015
pickabeau1:


You could have made your points without the drama and histrionics
You have your moment of fame




lol
lol, her truth-absorber is awfully thin.
your words were sharpened by facts and truth; it cut her deep.

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 6:21pm On Apr 14, 2015
Shollypopzz:

BTW, what do you think would have happened if Eve ate the fruit and Adam didn't?? Do you think God showing up only after Adam ate the "fruit" is significant? Like, is it sending a bigger message??
The only bigger message I can draw out of all of it is that God is indeed omniscient...he knows what was, is, and is to come.
However, there is something that God and the holy spirit have no control over.. and that's freewill.

Surely he knew that tree in the garden could be the cause of man's downfall, but he left it there in a bid to test the strength of his newest and best creation.

God didn't deliberately show up after Adam ate the fruit because it was usual for him to come down to earth in the evenings to fellowship with man - fellowship in modern language can be interpreted to mean gist, converse, spend time with, bond, etc.

It was during this daily round of fellowship that he didn't meet Adam and Eve at their usual meeting spot.

Did he already know what happened?
Probably.
He is still omniscient and his ways are just too mysterious to be fully understood.

******
Oh my, I'm beginning to sound like them TBN televangelists.... *shudders*



Also, what do you think would have happened if Adam ate the fruit and Eve didn't??
I don't think this would have happened, but if it did, I certainly can't presume to know the outcome.

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by pickabeau1: 6:21pm On Apr 14, 2015
cococandy:
conspiracy theorist.

why do u think its a conspiracy theory

Im sure you know the family is the bedrock of any community and a dysfunctional family has effects that are perverse

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by pickabeau1: 6:23pm On Apr 14, 2015
coogar:


equal opportunity between men.
women were always in the back seat. how come Jesus never hand picked a female as one of his disciples? was there a scarcity of righteous women?



Jesus was very ok with the status quo. the things he hated, He spoke about them with vigour & sometimes with violence. he scattered the main temple in jerusalem when he saw people trading there......Jesus wasn't tongue-tied. there was never a time he tasked the sadducees to review the rights of women. He was happy with the fact that women were covered from head to feet!



they blame apostle paul & timothy for those scriptures. i have heard someone telling me paul would be in hell cos he was a misogynist. grin

Ahhhh.. where is Shirley07
Damn that chick hates paul
LOL

lezz:
lol, her truth-absorber is awfully thin.
your words were sharpened by facts and truth; it cut her deep.

LOL
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Stillfire: 6:24pm On Apr 14, 2015
coogar:


equal opportunity between men.
women were always in the back seat. how come Jesus never hand picked a female as one of his disciples? was there a scarcity of righteous women?

Equal opportunity between men? Lol. Look below.

BABE3:

...and not once did he preach against slavery. Slaves were actually part of his sermons. He taught his followers to treat their slaves well. You can have slaves but treat them well.
... same applies to women/feminism. "Treat each other well but there's an hierarchy. Men are men. Women are women. Slaves are slaves. "
He made man the head in marriage? Marraige: arguably the most important institution. cheesy how? Why?

The New Testament presupposes a fundamental equality because all humans are created in God’s image (James 3:9). Yet, an even deeper unity in Christ transcends human boundaries and social structures: no Jew or Greek, slave or free, no male and female, as all believers are all “one in Christ Jesus” (Galatians 3:28; cp. Colossians 3:11). grin grin tongue

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 6:24pm On Apr 14, 2015
Stillfire:


Maybe we can borrow a smile from these women that respected their husbands and were very happy then. grin grin grin grin


My ribs grin cheesy grin

Someone who didn't live in the past is trying to tell us how women then were happier than women now.

OP lezz are you a time traveler? grin
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 6:25pm On Apr 14, 2015
njokusboy:


True feminists consider any teaching that stands at variance with theirs to be sexist...
Most religious teachings stand in contrast with what they preach and am still talking about Christianity, They prolly consider ALLAH to be not only sexist but a misogynist as well...
Religion and feminism are like water and oil, they cannot mix
That's the point right there.
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 6:26pm On Apr 14, 2015
Stillfire:

Equal opportunity between men? Lol. Look below.

The New Testament presupposes a fundamental equality because all humans are created in God’s image (James 3:9). Yet, an even deeper unity in Christ transcends human boundaries and social structures: no Jew or Greek, slave or free, no male and female, as all believers are all “one in Christ Jesus” (Galatians 3:28; cp. Colossians 3:11). grin grin tongue

so why then does the same new testament say no woman should make a sound in church. if she's unclear about any teaching, she should direct the question to her husband.
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 6:26pm On Apr 14, 2015
pickabeau1:


why do u think its a conspiracy theory

Im sure you know the family is the bedrock of any community and a dysfunctional family has effects that are perverse

Yes the family is the bedrock of any society.

Too bad if you feel women empowerment destroys your idea of a family.
It doesn't destroy my idea of a family and many people who I know that share such POV.

That's why it is a conspiracy theory.
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by pickabeau1: 6:28pm On Apr 14, 2015
cococandy:


Yes the family is the bedrock of any society.

Too bad if you feel women empowerment destroys your idea of a family.
It doesn't destroy my idea of a family and many people who I know that share such POV.

That's why it is a conspiracy theory.

Now you are leaping

No one ever said female empowerment destroys family

What I have said is simple
That is the message everyone else has been saying

A True Feminist will not recognize male headship in her marriage - that is if she even bothers to marry at all

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 6:30pm On Apr 14, 2015
BABE3:


1) so?

2) so Mary being a single mum means jesus isn't sexist? grin

3) that was all women were good for to jesus; good for amebo and reporting. cheesy Plus, did jesus have control over who saw him first? C'mon now..

4) his job was to perform miracles on earth, innit? Whoever commanded the miracle is irrelevant.

5) Duh! The woman has the womb. That's biology
That's a woman playing her natural role. Who should have given birth to jesus before? Joseph? ??

How about you address the fact that the 12 most important people to jesus were MEN. He had control over who he chose to be his discipline. He decided to go with men, why?
12 disciples weren't the most important people to him.

He, working with men doesn't make him a sexist or anything. Maybe it's people he felt convienent with.

By the way, he has to make a demeaning words about women before he can be called a sexist/misogynist.
What is it, then?
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 6:32pm On Apr 14, 2015
coogar:


after what eve did to adam, Jesus wouldn't let any female have that kinda access. it's not impossible for satan to have possessed a woman to seduce Jesus.........and we all know women of those days had a good understanding with satan.
Judas and Eve who was/is worse?

Mind you, Jesus was perfect and no man or woman can deceive or lure him.
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by BABE3: 6:33pm On Apr 14, 2015
Stillfire:


Equal opportunity between men? Lol. Look below.



The New Testament presupposes a fundamental equality because all humans are created in God’s image (James 3:9). Yet, an even deeper unity in Christ transcends human boundaries and social structures: no Jew or Greek, slave or free, no male and female, as all believers are all “one in Christ Jesus” (Galatians 3:28; cp. Colossians 3:11). grin grin tongue



we're not talking about heavenly matters. When we get to heaven all of us will be on the same level (so they say). Heaven.. the extra magical disneyland. grin

So you do accept that there's an hierarchy on earth? Good. And jesus was okay with it? Sweet. If he wasn't, he would have spoken on women's rights. Cool.

Back to my question Stillfire, why did he make the husband the head, if we're all "one in Christ"?

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by TV01(m): 6:33pm On Apr 14, 2015
BlackLeopard:
Dude stop equating homosexuality with pedophilia, it's tiring. Child abuse is, I think we can agree on, wrong. Regardless of who does it to children.
I don't equate them - homosexuality is worse. Given cultural norms and traditions, the age of consent/marriage can be debated. And where that is so young as to be considered paedophilia is by degrees (not paedophilia in the sense of babies/toddlers 0). I consider homosexuality more or less bracketed with bestiality.

BlackLeopard:
Legitimising homosexuality? Let me see. For one, most of the civilized world respecting human rights moved on. Homosexuality isn't harming anyone, and legitimizing it doesn't really increase sexual abuse cases because plain, abusers aren't by majority homosexuals.
Speaking in a purely civil manner, one can make a case for tolerating it. But as we've seen, discussing and negotiating with sin - let alone compromising with it - merely gives it more headroom (it abounds). And it will continue to force it's way to totally colouring the social discourse. I actually see nothing wrong with zero tolerance towards homosexuality.

And Homosexuals are 6-20 times more likely to abuse minors; and at rates over 85% for minor boys.

BlackLeopard:
And in fact, I wasn't calling you either of these. I was just saying it's a thing each should consider on their own when being so strongly against at least one of those issues (homosexuality, the pedophilia is I think we can agree a different basket of fruits.)
As above. I honestly pay no heed to ad hominem and it makes no difference to me. I may even confess to enjoying it a little. In all, I cut to the heart of issues. Some issues can be discussed civilly, but I've come to see that some evils must be confronted head on and without recourse to bogus niceties.

When the talk here is now of charging people who don't give their children a positive portrayal of homosexuality shocked. That actually implies children taken into care, and then possibly fostered out to...yeah, think about that.

No to homosexuality, no to same sex marriage, no to same sex adoption. No and thrice no.


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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 6:34pm On Apr 14, 2015
JoeCutie:
How do you, Veekey, define feminism?
No offence

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 6:35pm On Apr 14, 2015
Vickybee:

Judas and Eve who was worse?

Mind you, Jesus was perfect and no man or woman can deceive or lure him.

eve was worse!
without eve deceiving her hubby to eat the fruit, Jesus wouldn't have been needed on earth in the first place. the whole journey of Jesus to earth & back to heaven was to erase the mistake of eve's addled-brain. grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Pdizzle(m): 6:36pm On Apr 14, 2015
coogar:
they blame apostle paul & timothy for those scriptures. i have heard someone telling me paul would be in hell cos he was a misogynist. grin

Why blame uncle Paul, Christains both men and women believe the bible was written under the influence of the holy spirit. Oh wait the spirit is sexist too undecided
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by TV01(m): 6:36pm On Apr 14, 2015
cococandy:
@bold, all thanks to feminists.

Even little is too bad And the few remaining countries where women are still in chains will keep breathing the air of feminism blowing their way until they are liberated. grin
Au contrairé Coco - thanks to Christianity. And I want fundamental human rights for all.


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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 6:38pm On Apr 14, 2015
Pdizzle:


Why blame uncle Paul, Christains both men and women believe the bible was written under the influence of the holy spirit. Oh wait the spirit is sexist too undecided

they said apostle paul added his own bit.
in a nutshell, any chapter starting from the acts of apostle to revelation has been doctored by apostle paul according to feminists. grin
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 6:38pm On Apr 14, 2015
bukatyne:


The Bible is not sexist. It took me years to get to This point too.

I could cope more with sexist men than a sexist God. I mean the men met it (can't fault them), But the person that actually put me There and then claims to love me?

Tuah!

Read and studied and put everything in context.

P.S.: I do not use KJV though. I use NLT.
Lol, why does it matter if you use KJV or not? grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by BABE3: 6:44pm On Apr 14, 2015
Vickybee:

12 disciples weren't the most important people to him.

He, working with men doesn't make him a sexist or anything. Maybe it's people he felt convienent with.

By the way, he has to make a demeaning words about women before he can be called a sexist/misogynist.
What is it, then?

Who was as important to jesus as the 12 disciples?
Beyoncé johanna? grin Johanna was so important to christ that there is a gospel according to st'johanna in the bible. The book is right after Mathew. cheesy

So a man has to say "woman are useless or half-useless" before he can be considered sexist?


Pdizzle:

Why blame uncle Paul, Christains both men and women believe the bible was written under the influence of the holy spirit. Oh wait the spirit is sexist too undecided

grin
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by TV01(m): 6:47pm On Apr 14, 2015
crackhaus:

Lol, why does it matter if you use KJV or not? grin
KJV can give people headache and it's not as amenable to sophistry as some of the more recent translations grin.

We all all equally heirs of grace, equal in a creational sense, but men are charged with leadership in the home and church - this should by some readings extend to civil leadership, but I'll leave that - feminism cannot abide any sense of being led by men.

Indeed they consider marriage oppressive to women and many would like it dismantled. It's clearly stated within the first few paragraphs of the wiki definition.


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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 6:48pm On Apr 14, 2015
Stillfire:


Jesus was for equal opportunity. He told us to treat ourselves as one, love your neighbor as yourself, no be equality be that? kiss, so yes He was and is a feminist. tongue grin
Love your neighbor as yourself is not equality, it's equity.

Equality aims to promote fairness and justice, but
it can only work if everyone starts from the same place and needs the same things.

Equity aims to promote fairness and justice, despite our obvious differences and needs.

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 6:48pm On Apr 14, 2015
BABE3:


Who was as important to jesus as the 12 disciples?
Beyoncé johanna? grin Johanna was so important to christ that there is a gospel according to st'johanna in the bible. The book is right after Mathew. cheesy

So a man has to say "woman are useless or half-useless" before he can be considered sexist?

permit me to explain this.....

there might have been a chapter for female disciples but there's also a compelling evidence that paul was a lover of red wine.

in one or his binge-drinking, he forgot to add the chapters that included women. writing under the influence can make one forget important things. grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 6:48pm On Apr 14, 2015
Pdizzle:
Christianity and feminism don't mix, stop twisting words, even the new testament says women shouldn't head a church. For those saying the bible doesn't support adultery and there are lots of adulterous Christian, that doesn't make it right, the standard has been set, it's left for you to meet up.
Why did Apollo and Priscilla head the church?

Luke1:48 For he has looked on the humble state of his servant. For behold, all generation shall call me blessed.

Why should all generation including men call her blessed. Isn't that an adulation?

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 6:52pm On Apr 14, 2015
pickabeau1:


Now you are leaping

No one ever said female empowerment destroys family

What I have said is simple
That is the message everyone else has been saying

A True Feminist will not recognize male headship in her marriage - that is if she even bothers to marry at all
And A true feminist is who? According to who?
(Don't bother answering)

that's where we disagree.
You give feminism your own definition because you want us to believe it has nothing to do with female empowerment/equality for reasons best known to you. And such reasons lack facts and reeks of sensationalism. No need restating them.

(It smacks of an underhanded attempt to sabotage the progress women have made over the years against oppressive cultures.
#my opinion.)

I could be wrong. Maybe your agenda is not to sabotage female social progress. maybe you're truly afraid some people out there are out to rob men of their manhood. (the sensationalism and conspiracy theorist things I'm talking about)

As always we get to the point where we don't agree and have to part ways so that you can concentrate on work and I on whatever it is I am doing right now.

Ciao

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 6:54pm On Apr 14, 2015
crackhaus:

LOL.. easy now princess.

I simply didn't see what the fuss was about if a grandpa still wants to get his freak on.
Would it be better I judged him and ended up breaking the 'judge not' commandment? grin

You need to understand that feminism and Christianity are like two parallel lines, never the twain shall meet... - especially when it comes to marriage and leadership.
Then, why are you judging feminists?

Which woman in the bible was submissive with the way 21st century men wants us to be.

I need an example of submissive biblical wife.
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by TV01(m): 6:54pm On Apr 14, 2015
crackhaus:

Love your neighbor as yourself is not equality, it's equity.

Equality aims to promote fairness and justice, but
it can only work if everyone starts from the same place and needs the same things.

Equity aims to promote fairness and justice, despite our obvious differences and needs.
Equality is used to force outcomes and make different things the same.

Case in point is SSM. An opposite sex couple can never be equal to a same sex couple. But forcing the narrative to make them equal means they have to have marriage. And then they have to have children. So wombs for rents, forced separation of children from mothers (children rights out of the window) all has to be legitimised to ensure equality.

Equality is treating things that are situational alike in the same way. It should never mean compromising the rights of one set (children) to indulge the desires of another (gays). It should not require huge amounts of social re-engineering or come at great cost.


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