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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Stillfire: 6:13pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
cococandy: Maybe we can borrow a smile from these women that respected their husbands and were very happy then. see the one on the far right, rotflmao. 3 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Pdizzle(m): 6:15pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
bukatyne: The bible is sexist, 1st Cor 14:34-35 according to your NLT says: Women should be silent during the church meetings. It is not proper for them to speak. They should be submissive, just as the law says. If they have any questions, they should ask their husbands at home, for it is improper for women to speak in church meetings. 1 Like |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 6:18pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Stillfire: equal opportunity between men. women were always in the back seat. how come Jesus never hand picked a female as one of his disciples? was there a scarcity of righteous women? BABE3: Jesus was very ok with the status quo. the things he hated, He spoke about them with vigour & sometimes with violence. he scattered the main temple in jerusalem when he saw people trading there......Jesus wasn't tongue-tied. there was never a time he tasked the sadducees to review the rights of women. He was happy with the fact that women were covered from head to feet! Pdizzle: they blame apostle paul & timothy for those scriptures. i have heard someone telling me paul would be in hell cos he was a misogynist. 3 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by BABE3: 6:18pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Stillfire: ...and not once did he preach against slavery. Slaves were actually part of his sermons. He taught his followers to treat their slaves well. You can have slaves but treat them well. ... same applies to women/feminism. "Treat each other well but there's an hierarchy. Men are men. Women are women. Slaves are slaves. " He made man the head in marriage? Marraige: arguably the most important institution. how? Why? 1 Like |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by lezz(m): 6:21pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1:lol, her truth-absorber is awfully thin. your words were sharpened by facts and truth; it cut her deep. 5 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 6:21pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:The only bigger message I can draw out of all of it is that God is indeed omniscient...he knows what was, is, and is to come. However, there is something that God and the holy spirit have no control over.. and that's freewill. Surely he knew that tree in the garden could be the cause of man's downfall, but he left it there in a bid to test the strength of his newest and best creation. God didn't deliberately show up after Adam ate the fruit because it was usual for him to come down to earth in the evenings to fellowship with man - fellowship in modern language can be interpreted to mean gist, converse, spend time with, bond, etc. It was during this daily round of fellowship that he didn't meet Adam and Eve at their usual meeting spot. Did he already know what happened? Probably. He is still omniscient and his ways are just too mysterious to be fully understood. ****** Oh my, I'm beginning to sound like them TBN televangelists.... *shudders* I don't think this would have happened, but if it did, I certainly can't presume to know the outcome. 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by pickabeau1: 6:21pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
cococandy: why do u think its a conspiracy theory Im sure you know the family is the bedrock of any community and a dysfunctional family has effects that are perverse 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by pickabeau1: 6:23pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
coogar: Ahhhh.. where is Shirley07 Damn that chick hates paul LOL lezz: LOL |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Stillfire: 6:24pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
coogar: Equal opportunity between men? Lol. Look below. BABE3: The New Testament presupposes a fundamental equality because all humans are created in God’s image (James 3:9). Yet, an even deeper unity in Christ transcends human boundaries and social structures: no Jew or Greek, slave or free, no male and female, as all believers are all “one in Christ Jesus” (Galatians 3:28; cp. Colossians 3:11). 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 6:24pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Stillfire: My ribs Someone who didn't live in the past is trying to tell us how women then were happier than women now. OP lezz are you a time traveler? |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 6:25pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
njokusboy:That's the point right there. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 6:26pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Stillfire: so why then does the same new testament say no woman should make a sound in church. if she's unclear about any teaching, she should direct the question to her husband. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 6:26pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Yes the family is the bedrock of any society. Too bad if you feel women empowerment destroys your idea of a family. It doesn't destroy my idea of a family and many people who I know that share such POV. That's why it is a conspiracy theory. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by pickabeau1: 6:28pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
cococandy: Now you are leaping No one ever said female empowerment destroys family What I have said is simple That is the message everyone else has been saying A True Feminist will not recognize male headship in her marriage - that is if she even bothers to marry at all 1 Like |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 6:30pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
BABE3:12 disciples weren't the most important people to him. He, working with men doesn't make him a sexist or anything. Maybe it's people he felt convienent with. By the way, he has to make a demeaning words about women before he can be called a sexist/misogynist. What is it, then? |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 6:32pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
coogar:Judas and Eve who was/is worse? Mind you, Jesus was perfect and no man or woman can deceive or lure him. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by BABE3: 6:33pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Stillfire: we're not talking about heavenly matters. When we get to heaven all of us will be on the same level (so they say). Heaven.. the extra magical disneyland. So you do accept that there's an hierarchy on earth? Good. And jesus was okay with it? Sweet. If he wasn't, he would have spoken on women's rights. Cool. Back to my question Stillfire, why did he make the husband the head, if we're all "one in Christ"? 1 Like |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by TV01(m): 6:33pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
BlackLeopard:I don't equate them - homosexuality is worse. Given cultural norms and traditions, the age of consent/marriage can be debated. And where that is so young as to be considered paedophilia is by degrees (not paedophilia in the sense of babies/toddlers 0). I consider homosexuality more or less bracketed with bestiality. BlackLeopard:Speaking in a purely civil manner, one can make a case for tolerating it. But as we've seen, discussing and negotiating with sin - let alone compromising with it - merely gives it more headroom (it abounds). And it will continue to force it's way to totally colouring the social discourse. I actually see nothing wrong with zero tolerance towards homosexuality. And Homosexuals are 6-20 times more likely to abuse minors; and at rates over 85% for minor boys. BlackLeopard:As above. I honestly pay no heed to ad hominem and it makes no difference to me. I may even confess to enjoying it a little. In all, I cut to the heart of issues. Some issues can be discussed civilly, but I've come to see that some evils must be confronted head on and without recourse to bogus niceties. When the talk here is now of charging people who don't give their children a positive portrayal of homosexuality . That actually implies children taken into care, and then possibly fostered out to...yeah, think about that. No to homosexuality, no to same sex marriage, no to same sex adoption. No and thrice no. TV 1 Like |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 6:34pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 6:35pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Vickybee: eve was worse! without eve deceiving her hubby to eat the fruit, Jesus wouldn't have been needed on earth in the first place. the whole journey of Jesus to earth & back to heaven was to erase the mistake of eve's addled-brain. 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Pdizzle(m): 6:36pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
coogar: Why blame uncle Paul, Christains both men and women believe the bible was written under the influence of the holy spirit. Oh wait the spirit is sexist too |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by TV01(m): 6:36pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
cococandy:Au contrairé Coco - thanks to Christianity. And I want fundamental human rights for all. TV 1 Like |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 6:38pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Pdizzle: they said apostle paul added his own bit. in a nutshell, any chapter starting from the acts of apostle to revelation has been doctored by apostle paul according to feminists. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 6:38pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
bukatyne:Lol, why does it matter if you use KJV or not? 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by BABE3: 6:44pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Vickybee: Who was as important to jesus as the 12 disciples? So a man has to say "woman are useless or half-useless" before he can be considered sexist? Pdizzle: |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by TV01(m): 6:47pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
crackhaus:KJV can give people headache and it's not as amenable to sophistry as some of the more recent translations . We all all equally heirs of grace, equal in a creational sense, but men are charged with leadership in the home and church - this should by some readings extend to civil leadership, but I'll leave that - feminism cannot abide any sense of being led by men. Indeed they consider marriage oppressive to women and many would like it dismantled. It's clearly stated within the first few paragraphs of the wiki definition. TV 4 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by crackhaus: 6:48pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Stillfire:Love your neighbor as yourself is not equality, it's equity. Equality aims to promote fairness and justice, but it can only work if everyone starts from the same place and needs the same things. Equity aims to promote fairness and justice, despite our obvious differences and needs. 3 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 6:48pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
BABE3: permit me to explain this..... there might have been a chapter for female disciples but there's also a compelling evidence that paul was a lover of red wine. in one or his binge-drinking, he forgot to add the chapters that included women. writing under the influence can make one forget important things. 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 6:48pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Pdizzle:Why did Apollo and Priscilla head the church? Luke1:48 For he has looked on the humble state of his servant. For behold, all generation shall call me blessed. Why should all generation including men call her blessed. Isn't that an adulation? 1 Like |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by cococandy(f): 6:52pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1:And A true feminist is who? According to who? (Don't bother answering) that's where we disagree. You give feminism your own definition because you want us to believe it has nothing to do with female empowerment/equality for reasons best known to you. And such reasons lack facts and reeks of sensationalism. No need restating them. (It smacks of an underhanded attempt to sabotage the progress women have made over the years against oppressive cultures. #my opinion.) I could be wrong. Maybe your agenda is not to sabotage female social progress. maybe you're truly afraid some people out there are out to rob men of their manhood. (the sensationalism and conspiracy theorist things I'm talking about) As always we get to the point where we don't agree and have to part ways so that you can concentrate on work and I on whatever it is I am doing right now. Ciao 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 6:54pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
crackhaus:Then, why are you judging feminists? Which woman in the bible was submissive with the way 21st century men wants us to be. I need an example of submissive biblical wife. |
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by TV01(m): 6:54pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
crackhaus:Equality is used to force outcomes and make different things the same. Case in point is SSM. An opposite sex couple can never be equal to a same sex couple. But forcing the narrative to make them equal means they have to have marriage. And then they have to have children. So wombs for rents, forced separation of children from mothers (children rights out of the window) all has to be legitimised to ensure equality. Equality is treating things that are situational alike in the same way. It should never mean compromising the rights of one set (children) to indulge the desires of another (gays). It should not require huge amounts of social re-engineering or come at great cost. TV |
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