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Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by prissyluv(f): 7:22am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Op,I asked my man and he said that that was the belief and traditon before and he thinks it is still in existence. He further said that when the wife brings in money from such act and cooks with it that it will kill the man even if it does kill him it will bring badluck to him and their children. In my own thoughts now. The assertion why there are more landladies in benin than landlord...hmmmmm Once I had a discussion with my man and he said if he founds out that i cheat on him when married that it's over ooo,even if he forgives me becos of the children,we wont live in the same house and he wont eat whatever I cook before I kill him. OMG,this should be the reason why his parents were emphasing more on faithfulness. All these are summing up now I am not from Edo,but my man said if I am married to an edo man and cheats,the same thing happens. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Nobody: 7:50am On Apr 19, 2015 |
I wonder why some adults would swallow, 'hook, line and sinker', what some smart kids would find impossible to believe. The superstitious belief doesn't even make any sense. What the silly belief is saying in effect is that any man married to an Edo lady, should hold her responsible for any death that occurs in his family. Does that make sense? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by prissyluv(f): 8:14am On Apr 19, 2015 |
striktlymi: It is hard to believe but I think this belief/tradition is real. In Nsukka,once the wife cheats she goes mad. Dont you believe this too? 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Nobody: 8:18am On Apr 19, 2015 |
prissyluv: I do not believe! It is not true! 3 Likes |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by jadelyn007(f): 8:34am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Its a tale told to scare their women, it doesn't happen. Only the uneducated ones believe that bulllshiiit, the educated ones knows its not real so they'll go right ahead to do want they want to do if they have to 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by ofpeaceandroyal: 11:59am On Apr 19, 2015 |
These things do exist till date, even some families who gets exposed out of culture and traditions still feel the effect unknowingly. It just differs from tribe to tribe and events to events. Why do you think happy and faithful couples always climb the ladder easier? Why do you think sometimes when a woman/man starts to cheat on the partner, things go wrong for them? |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by mamaprince(f): 9:23pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
you don't have to believe everything you hear Ewuro4: |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Ewuro4: 9:24pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
mamaprince: Exactly |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by hidee20(m): 12:29am On Apr 20, 2015 |
Daniyemi: sharp guy!!! u dey use style run away from what might happen abi?,kontinue der is God. btw-who go now marry all this edo sister now? |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Dheartless: 12:48am On Apr 20, 2015 |
you're dead!! |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by KanwuliaJara: 4:59am On Apr 20, 2015 |
Go and ask M.A.G. Mercy Aigbe-Gentry! [img]http://2.bp..com/-cvC_4KNMfCw/U_6-exXrZII/AAAAAAABHcY/hhGG3DuWK9A/s1600/Mercy%2BAigbe%2B1.jpg[/img] |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Nobody: 5:12am On Apr 20, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:. Muchecheche |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Jorussia(m): 7:14am On Apr 20, 2015 |
I am a Bini man,i haven't heard of this traditional law before,may be its practised in ESAN/EDO NORTH(AFEMAI).Adultery definitely have its consequences,and it will affect someone whether you are in Christ or not.I don't usually advise a guy to marry a girl for OWAN AND AKOKO-EDO,because their ladies normally have serious spiritual problems, they are very good at worshipping and dedicating themselves and their subjects to community shrine/gods.I just confirmed it from my mother, she said such traditional law still exists in bini.She said as fara as you are not a Bini man, if your Edo wife goes to commit adultery,it won't affect you. |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Zee10(f): 7:41am On Apr 20, 2015 |
Jorussia: So is the binis that does not have spiritual problems? After dedicating themselves to different deities and gods. When an average christian bini family still worship idols.. Pls pack well jor and say something else. |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Jorussia(m): 8:04am On Apr 20, 2015 |
[quote author=Zee10 post=32908375] So is the binis that does not have spiritual problems? After dedicating themselves to different deities and gods. When an average christian bini family still worship idols.. Pls pack well jor and say something else. [/quote)That's not true,an average Bini Christian family doesn't worship idols.I know that just as it is found in all tribes in Nigeria, there are Christian families in Bini who still worship idols, but,to generalise it as an average bini Christian family is an obvious lie.Don't be annoyed if may be your are either from owan/akoko Edo, but what i said earlier is not but the absolute truth.I know that every tribe in Nigeria has spiritual problems, but i can say with my sense still in tact, that in terms of marriage that owan /akoko Edo girls have the worst case of very serious spiritual problems. As for me,i don't advise guys to search for wives from there, esp when they are not strong spiritually. |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Zee10(f): 8:52am On Apr 20, 2015 |
[quote author=Jorussia post=32908975][/quote] @ Jorussia forget it.there is no basis to this your baseless saying...mtcheew |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Nobody: 1:34pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
Shebi na for the same edo wey I school? It happens to them who have strong traditional ties. There are lots that still cheats and don't hide it! |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Skoopy(m): 3:51pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
So you mean any day your wife wants you death, all she needs is to ride a dick with pleasure, very mundane tradition |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by EfemenaXY: 7:27pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
bennyrazz: You and your never ending romance with juju. You nor dey ever tire ni? 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by EfemenaXY: 7:34pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
tbanj07: No need to wet yourself. Just be 100% absolutely sure before you tie the knot with her that you would be forever faithful till your last breath and will never cheat on her. She should also let you know that the day you break that promise, you put your life in grave danger because she too will be at liberty to pay you back with your own coin - and based on your soon to be adopted tradition (via marriage), you and your unborn kids will pay an early visit to your maker. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by armyofone(m): 8:01pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
Lol, Efe this is really funny I wonder what will dissolve the yolk of superstition in Nigeria. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by bennyrazz: 9:01pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:me romance juju? taaaaahhhh God forbid. These things exists that's why I talk about them and on a personal. note, I don't give a damn if no one cares. Google osun festival etc you will see their man made idols. |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by EfemenaXY: 10:15pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
bennyrazz: So you do have juju-istic tendencies. I knew it! Your juju classes must be paying off, afterall. So how personal is personal for you? And what's wrong with man-made idols for the Osun festival? Shouldn't you be proud of your heritage? Or are you the sort of character that chooses to disassociate himself from his culture in favour of the Jewish culture? |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by EfemenaXY: 10:18pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
armyofone: Donkey years. Especially for folks like Bennyrazz who believe in witches and covens and owls on trees + human-bird-human transformations at the stroke of midnight. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by cococandy(f): 1:44am On Apr 21, 2015 |
armyofone:Nothing |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by ekolina(m): 10:02am On Apr 21, 2015 |
At op it only work when the man is from ESA. since you are Yoruba nothing will happen, the tradition of a wife has no effect when she marries an outsider |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by ekolina(m): 10:05am On Apr 21, 2015 |
Babes the tradition only works when the man is Edo (Esa) not the other way I wonder why some adults would swallow, 'hook, line and sinker', what some smart kids would find impossible to believe. |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by Nobody: 11:51am On Apr 21, 2015 |
tbanj07:it doesn't work On men that are not from edo state once she marries you ur culture will be her own so fear not 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by pretty050(f): 1:14pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Daniyemi:Are u sure about the idoma part, ask around again. From what I know it's the husband and children that are affected. But who believe in these things anyway, superstitious stuffs 'alaiku' in idoma |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by armyofone(m): 6:25pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
lol for real Bennyrazz EfemenaXY : |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by armyofone(m): 6:31pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
lol for real Bennyrazz EfemenaXY : I think the guy is scared. Imagine a lady enjoying from every corner while Mr. Man pays a visit to heaven This juju should be applicable every where in naija Biko jor 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Effects Of A Married Cheating Edo Woman On The Husband by bennyrazz: 6:44pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
when I saw my mentions, I thought it was serious people that quoted me but lo & behold I came here to see that trolls are behind the mentions. I no get una time |
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