1. Tell him your feelings were hurt:
If
your #boyfriend hurts your feelings,
then you need to tell him that. If you
don’t, he probably won’t realize it.
This’s one of those times you need to
just be honest. Tell him he hurt your
feelings and how he did. This is one of
the first #things to do when your
boyfriend hurts your feeling

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2)Give him the chance to apologise:
. Before
you take any other steps in handling the
situation, give your boyfriend a #chance to
apologize. If he feels badly and apologizes
then you may not need to do anything else.
You can forgive him and enjoy the rest of
your day together. Sometimes other steps are
needed to fix the situation. That’s something
only you can decide.
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3)Give him benefit of the doubt:
.
If you’re
dating a guy who has a good heart and is
caring, then he probably didn’t mean to hurt
your feelings. It was most likely completely
unintentional. In this situation, you still want
to tell him your feelings are hurt but you also
want to give him the benefit of the doubt.
Remember he’s a good #guy who just said or
did something inconsiderate. In this situation,
#things can easily be cleared up.
.
4)Give him sometime to think: There are
times when your #boyfriend may hurt your
feelings but not be willing to understand or
apologize. If this is the case then you may
want to give him some time to think. Pull
back from him a little and let him have some
#time to hash out the situation in his mind.
This may mean you don’t immediately
answer his texts or that you make other
plans for a day or so. If he truly cares for
you, he’ll think #things over and see your
point.
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5)Listen to his side: It’s good to remember
there are are two sides to #everything. It
may be that you completely misunderstood
him. Give him a #chance to explain what he
meant. He could have been directing a
comment toward someone else or a different
situation. In this scenario, #things can easily
be worked out.
.
6)Evaluate your relationship: If you’re dating
someone who hurts your feelings often or
purposefully, then it may be #time to
evaluate your relationship. Any #guy could
hurt your feelings on occasion but if it’s
beyond the norm that can be a red flag. No
one deserves someone who purposefully says
or does hurtful #things. It’s best to be honest
with yourself about the state of your
#relationship. Don’t settle for someone that
doesn’t cherish you for the special person
you are.
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7)dont hide anything

Just 7? For crying out loud ma feelings jst got hurt..... 7 aint enoff!

Ashkormissy:
Just 7? For crying out loud ma feelings jst got hurt..... 7 aint enoff!

dis ur feelings sef... Make I put am for freezer make e cool...

Bla bla bla and more bla bla bla

Rubbish!!! , the first thing should be smoke it off with weed and second is hug transformer orkiss ur toilet seat.
Lemmme think I will come back and give u the rest.

Romance section always lead in the most ridiculous topics on nairaland

8. Don't give him the chance to hurt yhu the second time

Smoke 8wraps of WeeD,ll help for somedays sha

you suppose to be telling us about husband not biyfriend

who boyfriend don help

TheSonOfMark:


Doctors Without Bothers (BWB) are stationed in Lagos. I heard there is a neurosurgeon amongst them. I'll help negotiate a brain surgery for you. Hold on, Imbless, help is on the way.

calm your nerves bro

Orijin101:

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