Should a man take a second wife if the first is infertile


I need your candid opinion!!!

Constructive argument is allowed!!!

Is his main reason for marriage to have kids?

If the answer is in the affirmative, he has been defrauded. You can have kids without being married..

mistabiola:
Should a man take a second wife if the first is infertile


I need your candid opinion!!!

Constructive argument is allowed!!!

Should a woman take a second husband if the first is infertile?

Orisirisi.

What's "for better for worse" "in sickness and in health" for?

EfemenaXY:


Should a woman take a second husband if the first is infertile?

help me ask ooo

cococandy:
Orisirisi.

What's "for better for worse" "in sickness and in health" for?

I wonder

If u wan born kids... YES

It all depends.

i think there is no probs with that. Buh i prefer they adopt. Two women in one home, not okay by me.

Should a woman leave a man if he's impotent, has a match stick phenese or has no money for someone else who is not bereft of any of the above?





Answer to that will answer your own question





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SAMBARRY:
Should a woman leave a man if he's impotent, has a match stick phenese or has no money for someone else who is not bereft of any of the above?





Answer to that will answer your own question





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..Right on the money

Should a woman take a second husband if her husband is impotent ?

Should a woman take a second husband if her husband is broke ?

You see, these are questions people ask when they totally ignore the first reason for marriage - COMPANIONSHIP and concentrate solely on reproduction.

What happened to adoption, IVF raising someone else child or even stay that way?

If she was your sister, will you give this advice to her husband?

@op definately yes..

Jamean:
Should a woman take a second husband if her husband is impotent ?
Should a woman take a second husband if her husband is broke

RECIEVE



SENSE

and answer that question again

The first step is to find out the reason behind their childlessness and find solution.

But the husband has right to marry second wife when he wishes and can take care of them.

EfemenaXY:


Should a woman take a second husband if the first is infertile?

This is a family matter and I think you should understand that the parents of the husband will keep pressurizing the man after like 5years of infertility.

Sometimes a woman will conceive after adopting a child.

And sometimes not.

cococandy:
Orisirisi.

What's "for better for worse" "in sickness and in health" for?

Let's assume the man is your son and after 6 years of marriage they are yet to have a baby and all the test and effort shows that the wife of your son is infertile, will you still advise your son not to take another wife Because of for better for worse

mistabiola:


This is a family matter and I think you should understand that the parents of the husband will keep pressurizing the man after like 5years of infertility.

you don't think the parents of the girl can pressurize the man after a few year too? Because you're assuming it has to be woman at fault. What if that's not the case?

mistabiola:


Let's assume the man is your son and after 6 years of marriage they are yet to have a baby and all the test and effort shows that the wife of your son is infertile, will you still advise your son not to take another wife Because of for better for worse

Is that what you would do?

mistabiola:


Let's assume the man is your son and after 6 years of marriage they are yet to have a baby and all the test and effort shows that the wife of your son is infertile, will you still advise your son not to take another wife Because of for better for worse

absolutely.
They can adopt.

That will be the same way I would advice my daughter not to desert her husband after a few years of marriage and it is discovered that he's impotent.
Anything can happen to anyone.

The only exception is if one of them knows that he or she is sterile and still goes ahead to deceive the other into marriage without first coming clean.
In that case the marriage can be considered null and void because one person entered it blind.

DuchessLily:


I wonder

Let's be realistic, here in Yoruba land our parents do say "Omo ni ere igbeyawo which means bearing children is the essence/benefit of marriage" If the guy sperm is wattery or infertile after like 7 years with all efforts in vain, will you be happy in such marriage ,be sincere

cococandy:
you don't think the parents of the girl can pressurize the man after a few year too? Because you're assuming it has to be woman at fault. What if that's not the case?

After running several test and all the test have been showing that the woman is infertile, I'm very sure both party won't be happy with the union even if they really love eachother very much.

mistabiola:


After running several test and all the test have been showing that the woman is infertile, I'm very sure both party won't be happy with the union even if they really love eachother very much.

they certainly won't be happy with the situation. That's when it is important to remember the vows.

You still manage to dance around the possible case of the man's impotence.

Pls for clarity's sake, What if after several tests, and it confirmed that the man is not able to father a child, would you advise his wife to dump him and marry another man?
Yes? No? No vague answers pls

tpiadotcom:




Is that what you would do?

I have seen a situation whereby the wife was the one telling his husband to marry another wife but the man refused. The wife is trying to be rational and not emotional. In my own case, I will be rational as well if I am the one with same issue.

cococandy:
they certainly won't be happy with the situation. That's when it is important to remember the vows.

You still manage to dance around the possible case of the man's impotence.

Pls for clarity's sake, What if after several tests, and it confirmed that the man is not able to father a child, would you advise his wife to dump him and marry another man?
Yes? No? No vague answers pls

I have answered that already

I have seen a situation whereby the wife was the one telling his husband to marry another wife but the man refused. The wife is trying to be rational and not emotional. In my own case, I will be rational as well if I am the one with same issue.

mistabiola:



I have answered that already

oh ok.

mistabiola:


Let's be realistic, here in Yoruba land our parents do say "Omo ni ere igbeyawo which means bearing children is the essence/benefit of marriage" If the guy sperm is wattery or infertile after like 7 years with all efforts in vain, will you be happy in such marriage ,be sincere

So what do you suggest?

tpiadotcom:


So what do you suggest?

I have already answered that in my previous post sir. Good morning to you.

Its afternoon now.

You did not answer the question of what should the wife do when the husband is infertile.

If you did, kindly repost.