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How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 4:01pm On May 02, 2015
If you know that your girlfriend is
wrong for you, then it is time to end
the relationship. That can sound easy
at first, but can be very difficult to
execute, especially if you are afraid of
breaking her heart. However, the
worst thing that you can possibly do is
drag on a relationship if you are
unhappy. Learn how to break up with
someone with decency, tact, maturity
and caring.

STEP 1

Explain your reason for wanting to
break up with clarity. Breaking up
with a girlfriend with vague and
convoluted reasoning can just leave
her upset, paranoid and more
confused. Before breaking up with
her, take a long hard look at your
thought process and examine your
true reasons. Make sure your
decision is truly how you feel.
Whether you feel you are taking
different paths in life or fight too
much, be honest and open with her
about your reason to terminate the
relationship for good.

STEP 2

Firmly close the door on the
relationship. One mistake people
often make when breaking up is
leaving hope that the relationship
might have a future again someday,
even when it doesn't. Avoid giving
your girlfriend false hope about the
future if you intend on breaking up
permanently. This will only lead to
hurt feelings and more heartache for
her in the end.

STEP 3

Avoid breaking up on the phone.
Break up with your girlfriend face-to-
face, in person. Breaking up through a
phone call can come across as
heartless, impersonal and just plain
rude. Make the effort and take the
time to do so in person. This will
show her that you value your former
relationship enough to speak to her in
person.

STEP 4

End the relationship as soon as you
realize it is over. As soon as you
determine that the relationship has
no future and is going nowhere, break
up with your girlfriend. Remaining in a
relationship you want to flee is
unhealthy and can leave you with
feelings of resentment and
suffocation. Stringing your girlfriend
along is also selfish. Avoid wasting
your time and hers. Break up with
her as soon as you come to your
realization.

STEP 5

Break up with your girlfriend
privately. Breakups can be very
emotional situations. Provide your
girlfriend with the dignity of a quiet
and private location when you break
up with her, whether it is at your
house or in a quiet nook of a park.
Avoid taking her to a romantic spot
(such as a favorite restaurant),
however, as that could mislead her
into thinking that everything is fine
between the two of you.

The rate at which girls suffer heartbreak is alarming so add yours to the list

CAP
Re: How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 4:03pm On May 02, 2015
U be heartbreaker, badt guy cheesy grin bad player
Re: How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 4:09pm On May 02, 2015
Op, always post your source.
Don't make it look like you are the one that came up with all this.
We all know you aren't that smart.

http://datingtips.match.com/dump-girlfriend-hurting-her-feelings-13197186.html

Say no to plagiarism.
Re: How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 4:17pm On May 02, 2015
missclasssy:
Op, always post your source. Don't make it look like you are the one that came up with all this. We all know you aren't that smart.
http://datingtips.match.com/dump-girlfriend-hurting-her-feelings-13197186.html
Say no to plagiarism.
U hit him too hard, I presume. It could be damaging to Op's ego.
Re: How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 4:20pm On May 02, 2015
missclasssy:
Op, always post your source.
Don't make it look like you are the one that came up with all this.
We all know you aren't that smart.

http://datingtips.match.com/dump-girlfriend-hurting-her-feelings-13197186.html

Say no to plagiarism.
Its not copyrighted.... I copyright my writings..and as you can see it's CAP meaning Copy And Pasted.

So Try hard next time girl.
Re: How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 4:23pm On May 02, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Its not copyrighted.... I copyright my writings..and as you can see it's CAP meaning Copy And Pasted.

So Try hard next time girl.

Shut up, you just added "CAP" to your original post.
Lying plagiarist.

Nonsense!
Re: How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 4:24pm On May 02, 2015
StealthIdeals:
U hit him too hard, I presume. It could be damaging to Op's ego.
Not at all bro my writings on Relationship are well known by Romamcelanders....The girl is just trying hard to be relevant... she got a couple of bashing from me lately so she is just trying retaliate but ended up disgracing herself again.
Re: How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 4:27pm On May 02, 2015
missclasssy:


Shut up, you just added "CAP" to your original post.
Lying plagiarist.

Nonsense!
You see your intelligence cannot match mine ...... You give the evidence of me just adding the CAP less you keep disgracing yourself
Re: How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 4:36pm On May 02, 2015
starlingslimnet:
You see your intelligence cannot match mine ...... You give the evidence of me just adding the CAP less you keep disgracing yourself

Keep on deceiving yourself.
Re: How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 4:40pm On May 02, 2015
missclasssy:

Keep on deceiving yourself.
I have an idea
Re: How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by prettyjo(f): 4:47pm On May 02, 2015
seen
Re: How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by ronald4lif(m): 4:59pm On May 02, 2015
I doubt if this works. Unless if they weren't in love with the person almost every break up hurts.
Re: How To Breakup With Her Without Hurting Her by bioduneberry(m): 5:48pm On May 02, 2015
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