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Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by valkaka(m): 2:18am On May 05, 2015
Almost every adult once or twice has been rejected by women. The question most guy ask is, why they have been rejected. You’ll realize that some of the reasons are definitely beyond your control, but most of the them too are mistakes that you guys cause.

Check out the 5 major reasons why you men get rejected below:

#1. Lacking Confidence

Most men out there are too nervous when approaching women to the extend of even uttering a word. They think you men don’t have the guts to speak with them.

One thing that women value in most men is being self-confident more than your physical appearance, luxuries or a sense of humor. Over-coming shyness, self-doubt, nervousness, insecurities and other emotional weaknesses are a key to boost your confident, because those things sexually turned women off. They are sexually attracted to self-assured and confident men

#2. Being Too Pushy Or Cocky

We just talk about being confident in order not to get rejected, but stepping over the line can completely put her off and hence rejection.

Don’t delve too much in into a woman matter for any reason just to cover up your insecurities, nervousness or whatever. Being too pushy can mean that you lose your chance.

#3. Being Boring

In almost every conversation men do the talking while women do the listening, to indicate a man’s intellect you must be the conversational type. Women often do not respond well to guys who are boring or have nothing to say for themselves.

Attractive single women hate to be around a guy who is boring or have nothing to say, she wants to laugh and be happy. Boring and being predictable can limit your chance.

#4. Bad Appearance

Looking badly in your appearance and looks is one of the most common reason women reject men. That is the first impression when you approach her, so make sure that your hygiene is up to the max…Bad body odor, Foul breath, untidy looks or cloth are most common things that turned her off.

Fortunately, this is easy to prevent. Make sure to wash yourself, brush your teeth(keep breath mints), wear outfit stain-free, comb or shave your hair, choose neutral colors and pick cloth that fit well on you. Put on some light scented body spray or deodorant and there you go! You may be the most handsome and interesting man, but she will reject you if you don’t look good.

#5.Just Not Her Type

Let get this real, Everyone has some sort of preference when it comes to the type of person we find attractive, we can’t denied that. That is why sometimes you get rejected because you are just not the type she is looking for.

You can sort it out with the 4 reasons listed above but still to no avail. Maybe you’re don’t look attractive to her or the chemistry isn’t there.

Every woman has some certain personality traits and physical features that they find attractive. If you do not fall into their criteria then there is a likely rejection. In this situation there is little you can do other than accepting it.

Don’t forget to put your comment below, if you have something to add
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Nobody: 2:30am On May 05, 2015
*yawns*.. *sleepy eyes*

Op clap your hand for yourself.. . At least they are people who still make sensible posts
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Truckpusher(m): 2:39am On May 05, 2015
*Spreads mat*
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Nobody: 2:41am On May 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
*Spreads mat*

*Sits down next to him*
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Truckpusher(m): 2:44am On May 05, 2015
Chiam55:


*Sits down next to him*
*Hands her weed and lighter* grin
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Nobody: 2:50am On May 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
*Hands her weed and lighter* grin

*picks up the phone and calls NDLEA* wink
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Nobody: 2:52am On May 05, 2015
Chiam55:

*Sits down next to him*
go 2 bed little girl, "tommorow its sch time.
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Nobody: 2:53am On May 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
*Hands her weed and lighter* grin

*takes a looong puff an exhales den pass back*

So you smell good, you confident, you got weed so you ain't boring, I like cocky and you look good. Hmmmmm it's a shame you ain't my type grin
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Truckpusher(m): 2:54am On May 05, 2015
BUTCHCASSIDY:


*picks up the phone and calls NDLEA* wink
*Grabs him by the collar with jerk-knife pointed at his throat* Drop that phone and no one gets hurt. cool

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Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Truckpusher(m): 2:56am On May 05, 2015
Chiam55:


*takes a looong puff an exhales den pass back*

So you smell good, you confident, you got weed so you ain't boring, I like cocky and you look good. Hmmmmm it's a shame you ain't my type grin
Stop playing hard to get - Leave my mat,and now ........no time for puccy footing with any gurl. grin
I like them hot and adventurous wink

I like 'em crazy. cheesy
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Nobody: 2:59am On May 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
Stop playing hard to get - Leave my mat,and now ........no time for puccy footing with any gurl. grin
I like them hot and adventurous wink

I like 'em crazy. cheesy

Sha some ppl dnt take rejection well.

*moves away and spreads her own mat*

Shi he has the weed angry
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Nobody: 2:59am On May 05, 2015
Chiam55:


*takes a looong puff an exhales den pass back*

So you smell good, you confident, you got weed so you ain't boring, I like cocky and you look good. Hmmmmm it's a shame you ain't my type grin

Loool grin grin
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by kilokeys(m): 3:00am On May 05, 2015
lol.. confidence is a sure win..

my new gf (19) invited me (uncle kilokeys) over to meet her mum..

afraid catch me small.. but i braced up and the Mum told her she loved my confidence.. haba.. we don go interview plenty times na.. so it comes easy. grin
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Nobody: 3:00am On May 05, 2015
EricRichie:


Loool grin grin

grin grin grin
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Truckpusher(m): 3:02am On May 05, 2015
Chiam55:


Sha some ppl dnt take rejection well.

*moves away and spreads her own mat*

Shi he has the weed angry
I told ya ,you gon miss me tongue grin


*Drags a long puff ,exhales like James Bond with face showing no expression*

Take the bait, biitch! grin
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Nobody: 3:08am On May 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
I told ya ,you gon miss me tongue grin


*Drags a long puff ,exhales like James Bond with face showing no expression*

Take the bait, biitch! grin

Punk ass, big belly, fool let me just use him until Orijin101 wakes up and gives me weed.

*turns and smiles, pushs her hair out her eyes drags her tongue across the length an width of her lips*

You like them them crazy you say well I'm straight off the mental health list.
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Truckpusher(m): 3:09am On May 05, 2015
kilokeys:
lol.. confidence is a sure win..

my new gf (19) invited me (uncle kilokeys) over to meet her mum..

afraid catch me small.. but i braced up and the Mum told her she loved my confidence.. haba.. we don go interview plenty times na.. so it comes easy. grin
Maybe your girl has been hyping you - Don't we do the same when we want to bring a new girlfriend home? grin

You'll hype until your sis and Mom would be like, we can't to see this person that has turned you to a praise singer. grin
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Truckpusher(m): 3:11am On May 05, 2015
Chiam55:


Punk ass, big belly, fool let me just use him until Orijin101 wakes up and gives me weed.

*turns and smiles, pushs her hair out her eyes drags her tongue across the length an width of her lips*

You like them them crazy you say well I'm straight off the mental health list.
grin grin grin

You've got mouth

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Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by kilokeys(m): 3:14am On May 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
Maybe your girl has been hyping you - Don't we do the same when we want to bring a new girlfriend home? grin

You'll hype until your sis and Mom would be like, we can't to see this person that has turned you to a praise singer. grin

kinda.. but the main ish i see here is, they are an enlightened family fairly in d upper class.

tell an average mother in naija that ur uncle(bf) is coming to visit u (a teen) ... hot water go don dey fire.
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by Truckpusher(m): 3:16am On May 05, 2015
kilokeys:


kinda.. but the main ish i see here is, they are an enlightened family fairly in d upper class.

tell an average mother in naija that ur uncle(bf) is coming to visit u (a teen) ... hot water go don dey fire.
It depends on the family.

The guys that my sisters dated and got married to came through me and once I'm in, my mom is 100% in and my Dad will naturally key in. wink grin
Re: Reasons Men Get Rejected By Women by kilokeys(m): 3:20am On May 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
It depends on the family.

The guys that my sisters dated and got married to came through me and once I'm in, my mom is 100% in and my Dad will naturally key in. wink grin
hmm yeah.. some undeground works saved d day. and i didn't dissapoint. when pple ask me why i went that far i laugh... never had it better.
but plenty grammar fall that day. sotey sotey sotey na me come dey ask my questions.

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