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Re: Judge This Case by ernecy(m): 5:47pm On May 06, 2015 |
Interesting thread!! I need to comment, but first
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Re: Judge This Case by alaoeri: 5:47pm On May 06, 2015 |
Blackett:Fiancée that will run away when the chips are down, anyway we have different orientation. 2 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by yommys01(m): 5:48pm On May 06, 2015 |
mekaboy:You are just been idiotic. Did I say that? She died cos luth doctors made a mistake to which they admitted. Don't be too quick to judge. I am not one that gives in to those superstitious bullshiit but I am strongly against parents acting as though they are GOD. Even GOD allows us to make mistakes. 2 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 5:48pm On May 06, 2015 |
Koolking:I am one of the extraction team. |
Re: Judge This Case by innervoice(m): 5:48pm On May 06, 2015 |
adonismuller: If the mother thinks like this, then she has a serious problem. She is either stvpid or insane. 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by tellwisdom: 5:48pm On May 06, 2015 |
..And the movie title is?? ![]() |
Re: Judge This Case by smsdigito: 5:49pm On May 06, 2015 |
amokeme:my mother is very wonderful. how about that? ![]() |
Re: Judge This Case by yommys01(m): 5:51pm On May 06, 2015 |
alaoeri:And you are yet to see parents who turn their backs on their kids? |
Re: Judge This Case by mekaboy(m): 5:51pm On May 06, 2015 |
amokeme: Go ahead and repeat the same mistake she made, and you might end up marrying your mother. I hope nairaland ladies are learning, this might be the reason most girls these days end up single and some say the mans mother is a witch. Common sense is not common, u can bind and cast all the demons and witches out of Nigeria, but if u dont know how to win a mans mothers heart, then your a learner. Women of these days, azukwara unu azu (were you given home training at all). 4 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 5:52pm On May 06, 2015 |
Yes, the mother has the right to be angry. The girl eyes no reach ground, if not _ she would know better than rejecting the food. In igbo culture, I believe it's a sign of acceptance when you take food offered to you. Even if it's water - you try drink. The first time I went to my inlaws place ehn, the devil was on matter. Everything that innocent woman prepared, I don't eat. Starting from the appetiser (pawpaw) to the main dish (egusi and garri) then dessert (goat meat peppersoup). Chai, I just dey swallow everything- dey smile...lols. When I got home, by 12am...I started vomiting, my mum was so scared ehn, she just asked me 'did you eat goat meat?' hahahaha. I said yes, admist tears... she had to call my hubby (then fiance), na him carry me go hospital. After all na im mama give me food chop ![]() So, I no blame the girl too. She should have clearly stated it, 'mama i'm allergic to this', trust me- the woman would definitely hustle something else for her to eat. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Judge This Case by propet(m): 5:53pm On May 06, 2015 |
Celexboy:for me i would not tell her any thing..do she reason with her anus? 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by itsMrIke(m): 5:53pm On May 06, 2015 |
When you plan to visit someone with the intention of spending the night, it is expected that you will have to eat there. The only time you can spend the night in a person's house without having to eat is if you got there late on an emergency. This trip was planned, the mother was informed and she prepared to receive them. For the lady to refuse the mother's food speaks more of who she is as a person than the mother-in-law to be. It is obvious that she just followed the guy to his mother's place to fulfill all righteousness, that is no wife. The man is a slowpoke as well. So he is going to spend the night with his mom and he still allowed his fiancee to cook and then proceeded to eat?? What kind of people are these? Don't they know how simple social meetings are done? I do not support the mother's stance on asking the son to choose between she and the fiancee. I will instead have the mother talk to the son about the type of woman he plans to marry, if he insists then she should allow him go ahead and live his life. But please, people, do not ask the mother not to get angry, do not force her to forgive the girl and do not dismiss her stance, for I see too that this wife to be is far more than she is letting-on 4 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 5:53pm On May 06, 2015 |
EricRichie: Take it easy, I dislike ladies with pepper-body. She was a guest, she just got to the house few minutes before food was served, and you expect her to jump into the kitchen? Which kind over familiarity be that. I think she should have eaten something tho, but even as she didn't, it should not become an issue. Dear mama is over reacting. 2 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by UIA04(f): 5:53pm On May 06, 2015 |
Nonsense So what If the girl didn't know that her actions would be seen as rude by the mom. Not everyone has the same upbringing. What may be viewed as rude by one culture or family you were brought up in may not be seen as anything by another. Why couldn't the mother correct the girl as an elder. Like say it is easy to find wife this day and age for you to lose one cause of some dumb test. Mtchewww If the girl was dangotes daughter will the mama react in that way I suspect the women has something she isn't telling her son and is hiding behind the food issue. 4 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by WackyJ1(m): 5:54pm On May 06, 2015 |
So the girl went to the mother's place, she didn't even bother to help the woman in the kitchen or at least go and gist with the mother in law. Furthermore, the girl refused to eat the food being offered to her future husband! That if not anything is a sign of disunity. Did they not come together, if she is not hungry, why is the man hungry? So imagine the scene when the husband will be eating the scrumptious meal and the girl will just be sitting there looking and moping not even taking one bite from it. If they both arrived at around 2pm from a 3hr Journey and they left around 9am the next day, it means that the girl did not eat food from whenever she ate before they traveled till whenever they arrived or she ate snacks and preferred to her mother in law's food. Yes Looking at all these things the mother in Law is not being malicious in this case but scared for her son. That girl is strong! Strong witch, strong wickedness. The only excuse she had is an alarming level of Naiveté and I don't think you reading this are convinced that a girl of marriage able age is that naive. 6 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by Tolubory(m): 5:54pm On May 06, 2015 |
shey na Nollywood !
Abi Reality? |
Re: Judge This Case by alaoeri: 5:54pm On May 06, 2015 |
yommys01:No smoke without fire, no right thinking parents will ever turn their backs against their wards, the question should be what actions such wards carried out that required their parents doing such things? |
Re: Judge This Case by yommys01(m): 5:54pm On May 06, 2015 |
johnydon22:Not everyone knows every African unwritten laws. I didn't even know such a law exist and I am sure so many others knows. The mother ought to be a mother. It could well be her daughter and who says she would not have come up with another excuse if the girl had accepted the food? A mother that behaves in such a way should be put in her way. It is either she gains a daughter or lose a son. Simple. 3 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by yommys01(m): 5:55pm On May 06, 2015 |
alaoeri:Okay. I won't say more than OKAY. |
Re: Judge This Case by alreadyknowsam: 5:57pm On May 06, 2015 |
Maybe you forgot the role a parent. To train up a child until he/she is able to make right choices. It is obvious the so-called man is still a child if for whatever reason his mother does not accept the lady. And that of course means the mother has equally failed in her responsibility.. 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 5:57pm On May 06, 2015 |
alaoeri:I'm guessing mama will be around forever as well. . . 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by HizMissy(f): 5:58pm On May 06, 2015 |
Why didn't d mother-in-law insist, and d son too? 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by yommys01(m): 5:58pm On May 06, 2015 |
WackyJ1:She is a witch cos she made a mistake. I wonder how much of a saint she was when marrying the guys father. I hate when people behave like they have no sin. We all are sinners. What happens to lecturing the girl? Assuming the girl is the woman's daughter? And the son has too sin too? 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by Sekooni(m): 5:58pm On May 06, 2015 |
See quick conclusion. Cus she refused to eat? make IFA slap any mama wey follow me try dat. Mehn dat was too quick for d mother in law. Complete crap. On this, me wunt listen to her tho... "I no sure say u get mother! U are so disrespectful and ignorant!!" |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:01pm On May 06, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:Hahahahahahh but what happened to goat meat? I love goat meat oo. @topic she has the right to get angry but not opposing the marriage to the extent of saying over her dead body. I can actually get mama a very bad wife that can finish everything she cooked at first meeting. 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by yommys01(m): 6:01pm On May 06, 2015 |
Blackett:Spot on bro. I can't forget in a hurry how my own relationship got ruined just because I tried to please people who can not be pleased. The bible says we should honour our parents, but the bible also says we should use discretion. Mothers need to know they are not GOD. They are just custodians to guide their wards aright and not be impostors. I am sure even if the girl has passed the so called test, she would have had an excuse or how can simple thing as not eating food make her impose her WILL on the son? 2 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:01pm On May 06, 2015 |
osile2012: I'm sorry but the man's mother is too petty and a trouble MIL in waiting That should be a reason for the girl to flee from that family Doesn't the girl have a choice in this matter? 3 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by alaoeri: 6:02pm On May 06, 2015 |
Blackett:That's why i said we have different orientation & the way we are brought up, as for me my immediate family first before any other thing, i didn't get serious with my fiancée not until my mama rubber stamped it. |
Re: Judge This Case by kristen12(f): 6:02pm On May 06, 2015 |
I've learnt a lot here, I never knew it was wrong not to collect food from someone like a "potential in-law". Guys here dey vex wella. |
Re: Judge This Case by RaeMystix: 6:03pm On May 06, 2015 |
EricRichie: So you mean to tell me that the girl has no right to refuse to eat her so called future inlaw's food?. The mother inlaw does need to take the stick out off her behind, cos it seems like she does not like the girl a bit, but just happened to have found one silly excuse to find Now this is something that has happened just once, not twice, nor thrice...I call it bull $hit....He needs to speak with his mom and ask her if there is/are any other reason/s, why she does not find the girl suitable for him.....Then, he'll get the answer. Perhaps he shouldn't Marry the girl, cos she might be the one dogging the bullet from the future -Monster inlaw, cos mama is insecure after seeing him in love he is with his girl, and might be that she is afraid that she wouldn't be ablegs to wrap her around her fingers?. .Some Nigerian mom's are like that. How do you know she didn't give the mama an helping hand in preparing the meal ?. 3 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by timilehing(m): 6:03pm On May 06, 2015 |
The 1st time I visited my fiancée's mum I didn't taste anything. I told them next time & when next time arrived, I ate like it's my mother's food. Some mothers can be so irrational 4 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:04pm On May 06, 2015 |
alaoeri:Ok. 1 Like |
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