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Re: Judge This Case by Charliiee(m): 6:04pm On May 06, 2015 |
If she over feeds she'll be called a 'longer-throat', if she eats little she'll be called a 'waster', she politely declines and that's still a problem. In life just do you, you owe nobody nothing. if d mother-in-law objects cos of dat singular act, fine, she n her son can go to hell, life goes on, nobody is irreplaceable. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Judge This Case by erumena(m): 6:05pm On May 06, 2015 |
osile2012: Honestly, the lady goofed. She watched the Mother-in-law to-be go to the kitchen, brought the food and asked her where she'll like to eat and she couldn't get up to help her out! She slept over and didn't taste anything till they left the next day. The woman has every right to reject her. The lady's action shows clearly that she does not accept the Mother-in-law, her going to see her was just to fulfil all righteousness, once the marriage is consummated, she'll show her real self. My Uncle failed to heed this same warning then, he never had a peaceful home. He keeps asking himself what changed his wife, not knowing that she's always been like that, she only succeeded in shielding her real self from him, but his mum saw it then. 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by nsiazu: 6:06pm On May 06, 2015 |
I will discuss with my fiance, then discuss privately with my mum and resolve with my mum first before telling my fiance to kneel down and appologise even she's not at fault but the kneeling down will show some respect. |
Re: Judge This Case by DinhoMVP: 6:06pm On May 06, 2015 |
D girl no try sincerely.......the last place to reject food na ur potential inlaw place...first of all she suppose join mama for kitchen sef den no matter how little just taste the food for goodness sake its been over 3hrs u last ate something why u de form...this not withstanding tho I think mama shoul flarabale #iHaveSpoken |
Re: Judge This Case by obowunmi(m): 6:07pm On May 06, 2015 |
this marriage business sha... |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:07pm On May 06, 2015 |
softysparky: I don't eat it o. I dey try eat am now, but then...it was a no go area. Nne the next time I went, she brought UKWA, inshort na the chaff of the ukwa I see for floor, start to announce that I am not eating ooo. My MIL was now teasing me, that what do I eat kwanu. I told her i eat FOOD...lolz Truetalk, the MIL is very petty. Y'know old age dey affect their reasoning sometimes. |
Re: Judge This Case by mekaboy(m): 6:08pm On May 06, 2015 |
RaeMystix: You dont have a second chance to make a first impression. |
Re: Judge This Case by freecocoa(f): 6:09pm On May 06, 2015 |
That can never be reason enough to call off the relationship. Granted,it would have been cooler if the lady ate but you don't force people to eat, what if she doesn't like nor even eat what was served? She was full for feck's sakes, I don't know any law that says you must eat a prospective MIL's food to be accepted. 2 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by tablu: 6:10pm On May 06, 2015 |
Except she is not a nigerian. It is uncourteous to refuse food from an african woman. She may feel slighted in away... 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by ijustdey: 6:11pm On May 06, 2015 |
Just here to read some funny comment |
Re: Judge This Case by pring: 6:11pm On May 06, 2015 |
The girl is not really intelligent. She should have joined the mother to prepare the food and eat it even if she is nt hungry. Even if she is cooking with charcoal or firewood. That is the place that the husband to be came out from. They say first impression matters. For d guy, please he should look for someone else. If ure mother and siblings does not love ure wife. that marriage is in doom. He will never enjoy it. thats my stake. |
Re: Judge This Case by Madcow(m): 6:12pm On May 06, 2015 |
you better run before it is too late... she failed to eat your mothers food probably because she thinks your mother will poison her... to have such a mindset is totally unacceptable... |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:12pm On May 06, 2015 |
fairygeh: You talk as if you are not a Nigerian, very baseless.. . Hungry or not, she as well knows that through out that day, she is out to please the guy's mother. But she failed... Whole fully for that matter.... I don't see why she can't at least taste the food... now you say wasting? She if had dared to waste the food, the relationship ends right there and I don't think any lady would show that kind of sheer stupidity.. . EricRichie |
Re: Judge This Case by Candybob(m): 6:13pm On May 06, 2015 |
Aiyekhuerihu!!! If you dont feel like eating dont, it is not by force... Maybe she was shy, or her spirit told her to reject the food! We should be careful how much you allow parents/in-laws or relatives dictate what happens in your relaionship! Next thing they will be causing problems in your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by Youngpo413: 6:13pm On May 06, 2015 |
Blackett:unbelievable |
Re: Judge This Case by demmy0325(m): 6:15pm On May 06, 2015 |
Blackett:.... Ode ni e.. Na ur type woman dey collect saturday ontop him hand giv am sunday.. So when the now girl nw jilt U or do smtin worse... Dah is wen u wil go bk 2 ur mum and rmba she is right.. Mothers r nt 2b taken for granted.. Listen to dem... 3 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by mekaboy(m): 6:16pm On May 06, 2015 |
Candybob: She should marry that her spirit as her spiritual husband. 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:17pm On May 06, 2015 |
RaeMystix: Let's be realistic... Try that with your mother in law to be and see what happens next. .. You'll be so single by the end of that day EricRichie |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:18pm On May 06, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:Goat meat is one of my favourite. Yes the MIL is very petty and pretended as if all was well. What happened to persuading her or since they're sleeping over, allow her to rest or tell her to go dish for herself whenever hungry. I feel for the girl shaa I wonder what will happen if the girl offends her in future. 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by obinoral1179(m): 6:18pm On May 06, 2015 |
Blackett:if she has wasted you,you won't be saying this trash you are saying.... My mother my mother.... Nobody fit b like her. |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:18pm On May 06, 2015 |
demmy0325:You're a bird brained dumb fvcking _idiot. Why don't you marry your mother then? Son of a thousand fathers! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Judge This Case by Mariojane(f): 6:19pm On May 06, 2015 |
EricRichie:guy cul done first. D problem is dt d girl reject her food not that she refuse to join her in the kitchen. Maybe she offer to join her nd she told her not to worry. Back to the topic D girl did it innocently and its possible she was shy. The first time I visit my fiancé family, the sister told me not to bother joining her in the kitchen when the food was done my fiancé went outside to greet some people cos I was shy d mother ask me to eat I told her I will wait for him. From d first day till the day I left no matter how hungry I am I don't eat alone. Mayb she was shy |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:20pm On May 06, 2015 |
Blackett: Hahaha ![]() |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:21pm On May 06, 2015 |
obinoral1179:Stop being so sentimental. If no one can be like your mother, marry your mother and shut the fvck up! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Judge This Case by BCharlie: 6:21pm On May 06, 2015 |
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Re: Judge This Case by emmatok(m): 6:22pm On May 06, 2015 |
Blackett: Bros, it's an introduction and not an ordinary visit. Even if she's full, she should at least eat with her boyfriend. 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by breadplanets(f): 6:23pm On May 06, 2015 |
The guy's mother should have made her displeasure known right there and then na. Instead of laughing and gisting with the girl like all was well and then saying what she said after they had gone. I remember when i went with my fiance to his uncles house for the first time, his wife brought out garri and correct oha soup and i said no o that i have eaten. The uncle's wife there and then said that i have failed her own test o by refusing her food. Nna na so i swallow 2 balls of garri o just to please her. So here now the babe might not have thought about the implications of her action. Anyway mothers in law should just take it easy abeg. Their own daughters will also go to another woman's house and probably make 1 or 2 mistakes. Its not the end of the world. 2 Likes |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:23pm On May 06, 2015 |
emmatok:Yes I agree. Is that enough for his mother to ask him to "choose" between two of them? |
Re: Judge This Case by mekaboy(m): 6:25pm On May 06, 2015 |
Mariojane: she will join him is different from and better than im not hungry. |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:25pm On May 06, 2015 |
You got it right, eye service!....that is what women like this end up with. Such ladies endure and are the very best wives at the beginning...when they begin to reveal their true character,the mother in law will know she is just a learner in trouble making. And maybe the poor girl must have helped to wash the dishes not knowing her bigger crime was not eating. I have a friend that will never taste pounded yam even if given millions. By the way,pounded yam is one of my best........ softysparky: 1 Like |
Re: Judge This Case by yommys01(m): 6:26pm On May 06, 2015 |
manny4life:Rejected it because she is not hungry oo and the OP didn't say she rejected it rudely! That so called mother is simply so called. |
Re: Judge This Case by Nobody: 6:26pm On May 06, 2015 |
Mariojane: Am sure the mother knows the difference between innocence and arrogance.. You weren't there so you can't possibly support the lady or know her facial expression .. Imagine you as a mother and your son presents who he wants to marry.. . Certainly you're not wicked nor you're your son's enemy of progress... Am sure the mother must have seen this act as disrespectful. .. Different cultures are also to blame for this... Also the girl's character is at a loose end and must be corrected... EricRichie |
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