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Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by Braaad: 9:08pm On May 11, 2015 |
...are you sure she is not the second girl op is talking about?? greggng: |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by spanzed(m): 9:09pm On May 11, 2015 |
oyin17:I couldn't help but laff when I saw ur comment.... |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by Nobody: 9:11pm On May 11, 2015 |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by menxer: 9:12pm On May 11, 2015 |
Pastor, did u not pray about it, before u started teleguiding ur virgin girl? what did ur Holy Spirit tell u when u brought a single mother into the mix? Bros, take a step back and reevaluate ur values. 2 Likes |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by koyyess: 9:12pm On May 11, 2015 |
greggng:When you slept with her, she was a good girl abi? But yet, you denied being responsible for her pregnancy. Now that you've seen the after math of the situation you put her in, you are condemning her. You need counseling because your wickedness and hypocrisy knows no bounds. The only reason why you want to have the child back is because your folks are pressuring you to do it. But you are not responsible enough to be a good father. Have you even thought of contacting the girl's parents for a start Mchteeew!!! |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by yhemsy62(m): 9:14pm On May 11, 2015 |
make d pastor go for d first gurl abeg . Imagine a whole pastor believing an online dating. |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by Nazgul45(m): 9:15pm On May 11, 2015 |
Hmmm in this case, the pastor should forget the two ladies and move on its as simple as that afterall ministers of God are called to the holy order, serve God and God alone 2 Likes |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by teemy(m): 9:15pm On May 11, 2015 |
Irregardless of whatever investment pastor has made in either woman or sentiments as they may be it is all better for him to seek the face of God as He know the end of the union from the beginning. Virgin/Baby mama can be Go's choice or none of the above. Above all it is pastor's life to live and thus his decision. If he is a man of God this issue shoulc not be alien to God in his dealings. Let him pray and heed to the decision. |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by darlenese(f): 9:16pm On May 11, 2015 |
Op u said the pastor does not need an advise, so what the Heck is this post doing here, As for the pastor doing online runs smh He is such a mo.ron, he is so daft to hv fallen for a nursing mother, Dumbass pastor 1 Like |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by Stoglins(m): 9:16pm On May 11, 2015 |
#Lolzzz.... I can't stop laughing, is ds suppose to b a prob for d Pastor? where is d place of prayer? Funny story, it wud've bn better if u didn't mention Pastor in ds write up of urz. 2 Likes |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by spanzed(m): 9:17pm On May 11, 2015 |
oyin17:probably he was called my mami water... |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by eliwa47(m): 9:20pm On May 11, 2015 |
both have advantages and disadvantages, nevertheless the choice is yours |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by paschu: 9:23pm On May 11, 2015 |
kpolli: Thank you @Kpolli I really appreciate your MATURE views. Please on a side note I'd be glad to know the best section to move this topic to. I actually posted here thinking that I was following the rules of the forum not knowing that the section is infested with children. Anyways as I said in the story the first girl wants to get back with the pastor right now with marriage in view however the pastor is leaning towards the second girl and wasn't giving the first girl enough audience. Secondly, (I presumed that ALL the COMMENTATORS would infer this from the story but it seems most were too immature to even understand the premise) the pastor is convinced to move on with the second girl WHICH AM NOT COMFORTABLE WITH. He did not ask me to seek for advice anywhere for him. I'm only doing this to get his attention and hopefully make him have a rethink before it's too late, yes even though it is at the risk of loosing his friendship if he eventually find my little post here unacceptable. I've not even told him about this post yet. I'm waiting for the accumulation of REASONABLE and ACTIONABLE advice but unfortunately the NL kids seem to be beclouding those with their empty rants. But thanks again for your gem |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by tellwisdom: 9:27pm On May 11, 2015 |
Op, give me their number let me confirm from the gurls. Who among the gurls has big yansh so I cld know the one to attend to first?? |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by ecnuel: 9:30pm On May 11, 2015 |
OP, this forum is not the best place to get answer if your friend is really a pastor. 1 Like |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by dayodare49o: 9:30pm On May 11, 2015 |
paschu:Let the pastor ask angel Gabriel or angel jelili. If both of them are not around as I was informed that they are travelling to Sambisa to negociate with boko-haram to let go of our chibok girls he can ask angel luku or memudu. And if he can not ask let him die silent. |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by jaskoko: 9:30pm On May 11, 2015 |
story to d gods, no fe my dongoyaro first comment later |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by shiki(m): 9:32pm On May 11, 2015 |
tchidi: Am waiting for ur wedding invitation oooooooo |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by koyyess: 9:35pm On May 11, 2015 |
Let the so called pastor first of all give his life to christ for real because its obvious he's one confused person. I wonder what a man in his 30's will be doing with an 18 abi 19yr old girl who isn't mature enough yet to have marriage on her mind when she has her education to pursue (as at then). I say this because he is now in his mid 30's and hasn't even made up his mind yet whether because he is a vampire that loves to see virgin blood or he doesn't want to pay school fees on another man's child after proposing to the mother on line. 1 Like |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by thecommunist(m): 9:44pm On May 11, 2015 |
my observation is that 1. the pastor is either physically challenged. 2. emotionally disabled 3.does not have confidence in himself as a man or 4.is under a spell if not, he would not give up easily on the first girl and would definitely not price himself so low as to propose and even plan a wedding to/with a lady whom he has never met in real life and who also has a child already. that combo is serious! my advice is for him to accept back the first lady and marry her, in the event that the first lady does a u turn again and leaves him, let him find a real woman in real life (with or without a baby already-it may not matter-but at least he should not be online fiance or fiancee) and try to build a relationship that will lead to marriage. |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by kenoz(m): 9:46pm On May 11, 2015 |
He should go for the second lady...
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Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by kpolli(m): 9:46pm On May 11, 2015 |
paschu: If he thinks he can handle the 2nd lady then he should go ahead but let him remember he is throwing away 8 years of hard work.... As a pastor his wife is meant to be active in church; is he sure he can make number 2 active? This is a woman he hasn't met that might end up being a prankster in the end |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by Godwinfriz(m): 9:48pm On May 11, 2015 |
terible i only commented bcus of d warning terible pastor u dnt even kn wat u want |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by Nobody: 9:49pm On May 11, 2015 |
greggng:ok. What u'll do now is for u to get more closer to her. Try findin out what she does for a living and from their u can dertemine whether u can change her to a good girl u've known before "remember no body is perfect" lastly, let she lead u to her family menbers by herself for u people to determine the fate of the child. 1 Like |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by Nobody: 9:52pm On May 11, 2015 |
Blackett:i too like you...plain & simple. 2 Likes |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by Nobody: 9:54pm On May 11, 2015 |
which kain pastor be dat? 1 Like |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by Nobody: 9:57pm On May 11, 2015 |
shebi dey said pastor dey see vision for who to marry....so what happened to this pastor,is he visionless? 1 Like |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by Nobody: 9:58pm On May 11, 2015 |
Craps! Only an idiot will venture to compare a virgin lady with an after-one mum. It's like death and sleep. Whatever fucking e-wedding plan this so called pastor has for this wayward after-one mum,he had better changed his mind before he regretted it. |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by muut2: 9:59pm On May 11, 2015 |
Well though its not a sin to marry a single mother but with this situation on ground if the pastor is rally strong in faith he should know that even Jesus Christ was tempted so this could be a temptation. To me he should NOT consider the second girl a WIFE at all as she had already had her own husband. I understand that you said the second girl's guy ran at the point of marriage but remember that he can still come back to accept the baby and may want to right the wrongs by telling her "I will marry you now," what will the pastor do then? Let the pastor advise the second girl to wait and pray as there is nothing prayer can't do.My opinion: He should accept the first girl back without delay as what happened earlier is normal in marriages parents disagree to agree after due consultations "prayers and .... so wise step is to grab her wife the FIRST GIRL. |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by Braaad: 10:00pm On May 11, 2015 |
I now understand your situation bro...take the kid and leave her alone. If something happened and it took her abt 2weeks to tell you means she gave her consent. (you understand what i mean) greggng: |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by Nobody: 10:05pm On May 11, 2015 |
Midehi: |
Re: Urgently: Some Strategic Advice Needed As A Matter Of Destiny by forkinsonlolo(m): 10:09pm On May 11, 2015 |
single mother should never be trusted, she's full with baggage already . which kinda pastor is this tho |
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