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7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 12:46am On May 14, 2015 |
Wanna know why you haven’t met the man of your dreams? Find out now! 1. Cause You Act Like A B**CH!!! Yeah I said it, and what! Now I’m not trying to use that term in a general and disrespectful way. I am using it in a very specific and factual way. You have so many women that walk around with this nasty, stuck up attitude and they have the nerve to wonder why they struggle with finding the right man. Some of them have the audacity to cover it up by proclaiming to be a “diva”, too “classy”, or that they are just speaking their mind. In reality you just act like a b**ch. Some people might say, well I see plenty of women like that married or in relationships. Don’t be fooled, she wasn’t completely showing that side in the beginning, why? Because she is a smart b**ch : ). Either way, being a negative person isn’t going to help you find love. Most of the men may still go after you for séx, but if you learn to fix that attitude then you will start to attract the right kind of man in your life. 2.You Blame Men For Everything That is why your a*s is still single. You refuse to make yourself accountable for your actions. Everything is a man’s fault, and according to you, once they “act right” then you will have no problem falling in line. First off, I agree that men have contributed so much to the issues in relationships and women in general. We as men do have a responsibility to step up and do better. The thing is, if you aren’t willing to “step up” as well, then we will continue to have an issue, and you will continue to find yourself by yourself. At the end of the day, you control how you handle things. If you are not prepared to look in the mirror then you will never realize the flaws you have and that need improvement. So next time you want to put it all on men, check yourself, and accept that you have a choice to do better and truly be one of the “good women” out there. 3. You Think Your Looks Will Carry You Through Life Ok so you’re beautiful and have a nice body, great! Problem is, if a man talks to you and finds out that there is nothing else to you then why would he bother wanting to make you his woman. He will still want séx (séx is always an option for men) but that’s it. Men may be more superficial than women, but most of us still want a woman who has some kind of personality. Make yourself a more well-rounded fun individual and more men will want to make you their own. 4. You Are A Gold Digger ok maybe you aren’t exactly on that level, but you have made how much he makes your top priority. You are so caught up in naira signs that you overlook the things that are truly important to having and maintaining a relationship. Realize that most men are not rich, so right there you immediately make it harder for yourself to find the right guy. Even if a guy has money, if he sees that’s what you are mainly about he won’t take you seriously. I’m not saying date broke men, but I am saying that money should not be your main motivator. Have better priorities and you will find yourself in better relationships. 5. You Don’t Keep Yourself Up Not that you have to get your nails and hair done every 2 weeks (though some of us do like that) but you can’t always look raggedy either. I mean damn, some of you ladies just put no real effort into how you look. Not everyone has the same style, but good hygiene and health should be a goal for all. Most of us want our woman to look good. As I stated earlier we men are a bit more superficial than women, so to grab and keep our attention you need to be mindful of how you present yourself. You know where you can improve your look, so get started on it if you want to increase your chances of going from being one of the single “good women” to one of the taken “good women”. 6. Your s*x Is Weak! It is best to wait but the reality is that most of us have or will engage in séx before we are married. As a woman if you chose to do that, then understand that your “skills” or lack thereof will impact a man’s willingness to make you his woman. Unfortunately a lot of women think they are good but really the experience was nothing to talk about. Women are quick to talk about a man’s performance while neglecting the fact that they could use a lot of improvement as well. It doesn’t take as much to please most men séxually, so be more open to ways you can improve if you choose to take that route. 7. Your too busy enjoying the “Single Life” you’re just having too much fun living it up. Maybe you like to come and go as you please. Maybe you enjoy the free meals, outings, and for some, the bills that get paid from your “guy friends”. If those are your reasons, I get it, but just make sure that you aren’t using that as a front. Many women claim to love the “single life” but in a heartbeat they would trade it in for a genuine relationship. Yes, you should enjoy yourself while you’re single, but that does not mean you have to act like you enjoy being single. I hope you understand the difference. If your attitude or words say “I love being single” then understand that this will impact a man’s willingness to come at you with something more serious. Have fun, but be true to yourself and what you really desire. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 12:53am On May 14, 2015 |
Go and sleep joo |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 12:56am On May 14, 2015 |
oyin17:Truth hurts. 9 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 12:59am On May 14, 2015 |
gregzone: Ignored |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by excellentmomma(f): 1:00am On May 14, 2015 |
And when has being single turned a crime, dey there dey complain when one serious Osho Baba go come snatch am now, u go begin shout Gold digger! 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by adewaletb3(m): 1:00am On May 14, 2015 |
So that's what you think right? |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 1:02am On May 14, 2015 |
oyin17:U need to read point1 |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 1:05am On May 14, 2015 |
oyin17: 1 Like
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Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 1:06am On May 14, 2015 |
gregzone: Rubbish |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Enegod(m): 1:09am On May 14, 2015 |
very brutal indeed! ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by izuch(m): 1:11am On May 14, 2015 |
Discombobulated analysis |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by oieda: 1:19am On May 14, 2015 |
6. not agreeable. Sex before marriage is a no no. Whether the whole world does it. 4 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 1:23am On May 14, 2015 |
izuch:Huh? |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 1:27am On May 14, 2015 |
oieda:The reality is dat most folks will engage in sex before marriage. If u gonna get married as a virgin dats great, but if you've tasted the forbidden fruit you've gotta up your game before marriage! |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 1:30am On May 14, 2015 |
mention me after u properly space your points so I can come nd read… I only come here to display my signature for the SHY GUYS and to make awareness of my PROFILE PICTURE for dudes with small PENNILE (manhood) and Novice in BEDMATICS… 1 Like
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Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by MrBasketball: 1:37am On May 14, 2015 |
adewaletb3:That's what he think, it's what most people think. So he's right in every point. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by ibkgab001: 1:51am On May 14, 2015 |
Op is high on cheap sk |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Twaci(f): 5:56am On May 14, 2015 |
7. Maybe its not God's time yet. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 6:05am On May 14, 2015 |
Twaci:Do u really believe dat? Its a known fact that Heaven helps those that help themselves. Some ladies need to cut down on some excesses and show character of someone who's ready to get married and maybe they might get married. Haven't u heard dat God's time is now? |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Twaci(f): 6:15am On May 14, 2015 |
gregzone:Nah! The only thing I have heard is that most girls who rush into marriage (even ones who do not do those things u listed above) sometimes fall right back out of it. Why not wait till its time? ![]() Oh well, its my opinion tho, can't force it on u ![]() |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 6:18am On May 14, 2015 |
Twaci:Morning Miss Tracy |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 6:19am On May 14, 2015 |
Not every lady is meant for marriage |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Twaci(f): 6:21am On May 14, 2015 |
Lamispaco:Bonum Vesper Lammy! ![]() ![]() How's ur night? |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by jaybee3(m): 6:27am On May 14, 2015 |
Dumbbbbbbbb The single most important reason is the siesmic shift in the reasoning for getting married. Historically, most women see marriages as a source of guarantee to financial freedom. Women are now being empowered and equally capable hence the dwindling effect of availabe desirable men in the open market 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 6:37am On May 14, 2015 |
Twaci:Lol... Bonum means Good. Vespera means Evening, Mane means Morning,better I don't confuse you with the language. Watched movie all night through,this series "The Flash" nice movie,still on season 1 |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by dlux: 6:44am On May 14, 2015 |
Hmmmm! This analysis harsh oh! But very correct for most of it. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Purplehisbiscus(f): 6:46am On May 14, 2015 |
bla bla bla..Brutality indeed,in your warped mind you just made a 7star thread. Everything you wrote up there is bullshiit,so many ladies dont do any of the aforementioned. yet they are unmarried,while some do worse but got married. Life isnt about all these list y'all pull outta ur asses, its more than that. The earlier you guys realise it the better for you.. The one the annoys me most is the issue of gold digging i keep reading, is it hypocrisy or y'all just plain dumb not to notice so many ladies nowadays are now independent.. Brutality my cute asss 4 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by ireneony(f): 6:54am On May 14, 2015 |
what abt men, most of them are asshole |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Nobody: 7:21am On May 14, 2015 |
PLEASE why are these LADIES being treated as OUTDATED vehicles..... which probably may have served you well in its time. In as much I detest LADIES who say "ALL MEN ARE THEY SAME", Yet they end up praying to marry from the same MEN COMMUNITY.... Is like eating your cake and requesting for it. PLEASE Let's allow these LADIES some break. After all, at some point in time THEY WERE ALL VIRGINS.. -some were RAPED by men of the underworld like u. -some were DECEIVED.... BY same men, like u. -some were COERCED.... BY same men like u. -some were even DISVIRGINED by their FATHER and BROTHER . MY QUESTIONs are.... Now that you have OPENED them, please who asked u and were u compelled d as well....? whom do u think will CLOSE them up for u.? Rather let's ENCOURAGE them and see how many we shall take to the ALTAR this year. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Oahray: 8:12am On May 14, 2015 |
This is crap, from the first word to the last.. If being single is a crime and most women are thus criminals, but not men, that would mean most guys are married. No? If most guys are already married, who are you expecting to marry the 'most ladies' remaining? If most guys aren't married either, why are you are stupidly trying to make a general case against women? 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by Hila12(m): 8:27am On May 14, 2015 |
Not a question of lady losing virginity but a question of how much dignity she's preserved. Face fact, life fuuucks us all. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Most Nigerian Ladies Are Unmarried. Brutally Honest Facts. by basille(m): 8:31am On May 14, 2015 |
Unnecessary but true. ![]() |
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