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Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by chibic(m): 10:20pm On May 15, 2015 |
stonecoldcafe:why are you people intentionally twisting the story? He didn't say call history, he said CHAT HISTORY!!!!...you can see call history but won't know what they discussed but in chat history, you'll see everything they texted to each other. Mind you, people who have been seeing eachother for 5yrs without suspicion will feel free in exchanging explicit texts. And the woman never deleted them cause she wasn't expecting the husband to come there at that time. 7 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by creepsyme(f): 10:21pm On May 15, 2015 |
de2oye:sincerely no hard feelings but @op wat were u tinking to have married from that tribe? am yet to see anyone from them to prove me wrong. 6 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Nobody: 10:21pm On May 15, 2015 |
What nonsense! This is why I always like to deal with men on certain issues. Bros, your mistake was even talking to your MIL about it. If it were me, I won't utter a word until I see her father. Meanwhile she will be in my house until then but under serious excommunication. Maybe you are from planet Mars b'cos God knows that if I'm you, their daughter would have been assigned a permanent room in their house by now. I didn't cheat on my wife when we were courting and have never cheated on her since we got married. So the moment she thinks of it, she should be sure to have a wedding card with the man on standby 7 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by blessnija: 10:22pm On May 15, 2015 |
hello. u must know that half of the advice here are craps. some maybe coming from people that cheat as well. if you are strong enough to forgive ur wife so be it. but you must be very sure she is fully repentant of her act.at times problems from infidelity can come and hunt the innocent person...in this case you.for example she might go and date some dangerous person that can organise to harm you. as for your mother inlaw please ignore her the more you try to pleaese her the more she thinks she is right. concentrate on ur family. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by M4gunners: 10:22pm On May 15, 2015 |
Blackberry girls keep giving their husband and boyfriend heartache since introduction of GSM.You really tried to forgive her i can't do that. As of your motherin law don't bother yourself going to their house when the husband is not around such woman can do on do,expecially after this incident am talking from experience. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by eazisky(m): 10:22pm On May 15, 2015 |
aflyingbird: Baby, i wanted to modify my post to u but i changed my mind, i knew i went to far by insulting u, pls forgive me, i fixed my self into the op's shoes and it was so hurting and that prompted me into insulting u, forgive me, but u knw how cunning ladies cn be, even when caught red handed, they still want to xplain 1 Like |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by REMMEI(m): 10:23pm On May 15, 2015 |
Some girls opinion here are just pathetic.. Damn!.. bunch of hypocritical comments. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Nobody: 10:23pm On May 15, 2015 |
U forgive that harlot Shame on you. Let me laugh in kwapampa You don give am mind She'll still cheat on you Roger that alaye mi Unless you tell her to swear for you with gods of thunder any day/time she try cheat on you again make thunder strike her down. And if u need shrine to do that contact me here in pakistan lol |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by 1stola: 10:24pm On May 15, 2015 |
de2oye:Smh for you. The last thing I will ever do in this life is to forgive an adulterous woman. How are you coping? When having sex with her? The thought that my wife (that I am spending my life with and on) has recently allowed one boy to fùck and sweat on her?? What da fùck God forbid 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Kulas: 10:25pm On May 15, 2015 |
Are u telling me that a guy is bleeping ur wife for five years? Or are u just joking and not sure of what you are saying,may be u just see them chatting romantically?.Hmm,anyway if u are sure that ur fellow man had been sleeping with ur wife for 5 years and u acted d way u did,then truly GMB administration suppose to give u national honor..Summit your name to Seun and let's follow it up. 6 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by danlaw: 10:25pm On May 15, 2015 |
I cannot take it.Marriage finished and anybody can have the kids.The worst thing is for a married woman to start cheating when she already gotten kids. oP, YOU BE MUMU.Marriage my asssssssssssss. 1 Like |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by dinachi(m): 10:26pm On May 15, 2015 |
Dollyak:The only frank genuine advice from a good woman here! As for supporters of evil like babyosisi and co whose stock in trade is evil and malicious advice, learn from a real woman here. @Op the first mistake you made was allowing your wife back to the house. That LovePeddler of a wife should have been sent parking immediately. Then undertake a DNA test on your kids.Take custody of your kids and start looking for a new life. If you have done all this, then the mother in law would have learnt to respect you but since she feels that you are not man enough to take the tough decisions, she can now afford to even bear malice. Listen you are the one that is supposed to bear malice and show your anger. Don't let those witches dominate you. Since you have made the mistake of taking your wife back, pls totally ignore that insolent babyosisi kind of MIL and have your peace. I can assure you though that your adulterous wife will cheat again. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Nobody: 10:27pm On May 15, 2015 |
babyosisi:She has to be sleeping with the boy for it to be called cheating? ? 7 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by AfroBlue(m): 10:27pm On May 15, 2015 |
REMMEI: i agree, got quite a few revealing their nature like |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Nobody: 10:28pm On May 15, 2015 |
aflyingbird:You're not getting it. He read her chat history means he read their chats maybe on whatsapp or bbm. He definitely wasn't referring to call history. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by gidjah(m): 10:30pm On May 15, 2015 |
Wendy80:of course be, why should u be keeping a cheat as a wife, it's pretty dangerous you know! , she may some day poison your food I, that's is one of d reasons it us evil for. A wife to go on a cheating spree. One of the reason you forgave and got caught in the Web us because you live close to ur inlaws,bro you beta vampire from their territory, before you get poisoned, So sorry to tell you this, that tribe will not rest until they get another same tribe for marriage o!! ( am speaking from deep and long time experience sir),God bless you for giving her a second chance,but pls relocate and rebuild your home. If she born pikin again pls don't even invite get, your mum should show up, or your wife should have mastered those rearing acts by now.Ebira People na wa, but God go help you, 2 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by AnneMomoh: 10:34pm On May 15, 2015 |
IdiAmin1: hmmmm, Idi Amin Dada 1 Like |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by gidjah(m): 10:34pm On May 15, 2015 |
Good knowledge bros,pls keep good eyes on your wife, fence out your mil,there is likely hood your wife might continue with that nonsense particularly if the guy in question is from her state, it's always like that with few I have had deals with Phema: 1 Like |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Emdee590(m): 10:34pm On May 15, 2015 |
Ralphlauren:Na to strangle the MIL to death naa , afterall this kind issue , somebody must die naa |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Nobody: 10:38pm On May 15, 2015 |
that's sweet. it's cool. eazisky: 1 Like |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Certifiedboss: 10:39pm On May 15, 2015 |
aflyingbird: He saw the chat and she didn't deny she was cheating . what other explanation is she going to give . my dear there's no excuse for cheating 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by publicenemy(m): 10:40pm On May 15, 2015 |
de2oye: Bro...off the record, allowing that woman u call ur wife back into ur house was a mistake... I just had to say that. And as for ur mother in-law, if she cannot appreciate the fact that you forgave her daughter who is probably her kind,then she doesn't deserve ur respect. You are doing the right thing bro... You are a man,ur business should be with ur father in law. Just continue. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by gidjah(m): 10:43pm On May 15, 2015 |
pomporiking:In fact from Kabba, Ebira?? Odijw Very risky o my dear! This one na one chance!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by chigoizie7(m): 10:44pm On May 15, 2015 |
The moment we start telling our selves the truth, the better for all of us, some one said, he never gave the wife chance to explain,because he is too hasty to jump into conclusions. *why would she ask for forgiveness in the 1st place if she was not cheating? Haven said this, for every action or anything we don on earth, their is always a reason for such act be it negatively or positively. with that, the wife have absolutely nothing to explain. ( Imagine u walked in on ur bf fuvcking anoda girl, then u shouted,only for him to tell u "baby please I can explain" what is there to explain if not to tell u that it is the devils hands work. It is very obvious the op wouldn't hear such in such situation. ) I know the scenerio aint the same, I just want u to learn smthing from that. *on the issue of mother in law. There is no way she could ve supported her daughter for such act. But keeping faces with the SIL is totally wrong and unacceptable. The way she handled the whole issue made so glaring to the young man of her being nonchalant with the whole thing, U called ur SIL to make peace, u ignored him and started speaking a dialect he does not understand. what impression is she making? There are certain cases u don't handle with kid gloves. Mr OP, u are totally right for being very angry with your MIL.(You are human) I don't blame you for any actions u took, the only thing I can tell u now, is to please forgive her,we are all human, and @times we er. * for people who said that since u can forgive your cheating wife that u can as well forgive her mother, u are all wrong. *your brother messed up big time, and then u counted on your mum to settle the whole issue, then your mum u tot should be cautioning your brother turned out to be nonchalant.(Will you be happy with her? NO) u cn forgive your brother, but it will take you time to totally forgive your mother for that singular act. Let's forget sentiments here. If u want to beg someone for forgiveness, 1st of all accept that u are wrong, den u proceed with the begging. But if u refuse to accept that you are wrong, then he might just forgive u for forgiving sake,and not deep down him. My point is this, it is better we agree with OP that they are wrong, and then persuade him to forgive them, and not castigating him into forceful acceptance of the forgiveness, that is absolutely wrong. The more u tell him that he is wrong, the more he still looks into the whole thing to see how he is wrong and thus opening old wounds. So, OP in all honesty and probity, u re not wrong for ur actions, but please forgive them. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Nobody: 10:45pm On May 15, 2015 |
andromida: @de2oye The MIL is a witch, if he is not careful his wife might end up killing him. A bad wife and a bad MIL are a recipe for disaster, it should be evident to you that the daughter is merely following her mother's footsteps. If I were you I would stop my children from visiting them and BAN the MIL from ever coming to my house again and if she were to refuses, I will arrest her when she comes visiting. 5 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by REMMEI(m): 10:47pm On May 15, 2015 |
AfroBlue: And these are future wives and mothers.. God SOS.. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by freecocoa(f): 10:48pm On May 15, 2015 |
But why the double standards though? I don't get why some guys here are angry about OP forgiving/taking back his wife, like that's not what's expected of a woman whose hubby cheats. Make una repent o. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by eazisky(m): 10:48pm On May 15, 2015 |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by cutelover19(m): 10:49pm On May 15, 2015 |
aflyingbird: Look at you! Trying to defend the indefensible, what else is there to explain? For the husband to have come to the conclusion that she was cheating means he'd seen some incriminating evidence. SMH for you, that's how you know future oloshos, finding a way of twisting issues and making it seem like they're witch-hunted. You need Jesus my dear, Iranu oshi. PS: do not quote me if you don't want sango to visit you tonight. Tenks 2 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Nobody: 10:50pm On May 15, 2015 |
1stola: Ermmm....but it is okay for you to cheat on your wife, no? 1 Like |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by REMMEI(m): 10:50pm On May 15, 2015 |
creepsyme: Sorry, are you serious about this assertion?.. please, tell me your experience..safe a brother please.. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Missmossy(f): 10:51pm On May 15, 2015 |
Wow the MIL didn't try at all. I really can't support such. For the sake of your kids you have to forgive both. 2 Likes |
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