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Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by activefibre1(m): 12:54am On May 16, 2015 |
u married her becos of her father's wealth...they spoilt their daughter....now you cant control your home....pity. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by REMMEI(m): 12:59am On May 16, 2015 |
creepsyme: ![]() Chei!.. God why?... |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by JesusDWay(m): 1:01am On May 16, 2015 |
I think you should be careful with the woman. I would have expected her to chide the daughter seriously and should have even been the one to volunteer reporting the matter to her husband but it doesn't appear she did. Infact, for her to make an attempt at covering the whole thing should be somewhat worrisome. Besides, if everything is the way you have said it, I won't be surprised if your wife runs away with another man tomorrow. For her to be cheating after 2 children and 6years of marriage, and with a younger man for that matter shows there's likely a discontent somewhere and it doesn't appear you have addressed it. I will say you question her very well and know where the problem lies and see what you can do about it. It's a great thing you did with the forgiveness, it's Christlike but be watchful as well. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by poseidon12: 1:07am On May 16, 2015 |
Kulas: I think what he meant is that the wife is older than her lover by 5 years. 1 Like |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Ossaifamous(m): 1:09am On May 16, 2015 |
the issue here is you cave in too quickly well only you know whats best for the family but ur wife got off too easy |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Ossaifamous(m): 1:10am On May 16, 2015 |
poseidon12:thats what he meant older than 5 yrs pls make una nor insult the man |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by OROSUNBOLB(m): 1:37am On May 16, 2015 |
Guy what are you saying? You caught your wife cheating on you and you are here seeking our opinions whether or not you are being rude to your MIL ? And you equally allowed that adulterous woman back into your house because you respect her father ! I think you're a special breed ! I strongly doubt if you will ever enjoy your marriage to your so-called wife again;don't forget you told us that the boy lives in your neighbourhood ! You honestly need to re-caption your story because I personally consider your MIL's issue quite irrelevant. Good luck to you! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Nobody: 1:54am On May 16, 2015 |
dinachi: Cococandy you see how love is killing this boy A thread I haven't even showed up at Na wa o Di di Nna contact i nu m privately yom ayiyo si m na suga na gu gi Lovu ga ha agbapu kwa gi ara |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by cococandy(f): 2:25am On May 16, 2015 |
babyosisi: ![]() |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Silasthegreat(m): 2:29am On May 16, 2015 |
Ralphlauren: Maybe he's also a player,,,,, just saying! For me, that would end the union!!! |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by nkem123(m): 2:46am On May 16, 2015 |
de2oye:brother, thank God for d grace upon u to be able to accept her back. I dnt think I can do same if I were in ur shoe, even cheating girlfriends dnt have it back with me nt to talk of wife.I will take my kids and push her out without a pin including her phones and Sims I hail u. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by nkem123(m): 2:49am On May 16, 2015 |
de2oye:brother, thank God for d grace upon u to be able to accept her back. I dnt think I can do same if I were in ur shoe, even cheating girlfriends dnt have it back with me nt to talk of wife.I will take my kids and push her out without a pin including her phones and Sims I wount even consult her parents, nt talk my mother inlaw having d temerity to be harsh to me after all her adulterous daughter did.I will treat her fuckup without remorse. I hail u oooh. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Jonwesley(m): 2:56am On May 16, 2015 |
andromida: Well spoken, Keep your marriage, avoid third party influences. Your wife ought to come out of this stronger. The mother has a hand in this. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by showafrica(m): 2:56am On May 16, 2015 |
Phema: tru talk, op go check dna of ur children oo |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by chaz007(f): 3:00am On May 16, 2015 |
focus7: You must be a kid for saying this. First of all, are u old enough to tell him he's acting like a kid? Second of all, do u know how it feels to catch ur partner cheating on u? U think it is that easy to let go or forgive and forget immediately? The fact the mother conversed with her daughter in discreet, it's clear she's the fault-covering kind of mother. Her daughter must have taken after her. I'll like to see ur reaction when u catch ur wife in bed with a younger guy and ur MIL tells u u shldnt be angry that it's one of those things ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Curvinus(m): 3:03am On May 16, 2015 |
The culprit has already confessed to the crime and has gone a step further to beg for mercy. Her parents have also joined her in begging for forgiveness and our man in the house with a magnanimous spirit has forgiven her. But for some people to come here and want to hang on to a non-existent alibi or try to seek loopholes in a matter that is as clear as daylight is a tad irresponsible. Anyway, since the OP's objective is for peace to reign, I'd advise you make peace with all the parties concerned and let the rest blow away. I've come to understand in life that the more you hang on to hurtful vibes, the harder it becomes for you to live a normal life. But I hope you tried to find out why your wife cheated because this is very essential in trying to ensure that it doesn't happen again. Nevertheless, I must praise you for braving the odds to walk the path you chose, at least for the benefit of your innocent kids. The way I see it, this was a choice between ego/esteem and common sense and in the end, common sense prevailed. Hopefully, you'd get around to finding total reconciliation and happiness in your family. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Nobody: 3:07am On May 16, 2015 |
de2oye: I SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH THE MOM. I COULD DO SAME. I HAVE TO HEAR FROM MY DAUGHTER FIRST B4 MAKING CONCLUSIONS..... I WOULD REQUEST SECRET CONVERSATION WITH HER FIRST, THEN BOTH. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Vikfarad(m): 3:26am On May 16, 2015 |
stonecoldcafe:Tell me why she was relunctant to release her phone |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Nobody: 3:45am On May 16, 2015 |
You are a monster. You precepitated it. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Tinkybabe(f): 3:46am On May 16, 2015 |
lovaleenny: True! |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by italo: 4:07am On May 16, 2015 |
focus7: ^^^ This up here, is why nairaland needs a "dislike" button. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Mavor: 4:13am On May 16, 2015 |
She cheated on you and life goes on??!! Stupid weak man. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by italo: 4:15am On May 16, 2015 |
Jonwesley: Clear as daylight. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by adorable29(f): 4:18am On May 16, 2015 |
Am imagining if the gender was reversed and it was a wife that wrote this. The comments am reading here would have been complete opposites! Nigerian women are really suffering in the hands of their men. OP, your mother-in-law is not your priority. Your wife is and I must say thumps up for forgiving your wife. If every married spouse decides not to forgive their cheating partner in this country, then 90percent of present marriages will NOT EXIST! But again, (in a rather sarcastic tone) maybe there is something she is not getting at home that's making her go outside. PRAY for her. Love her more and try and be wearing neat and sexy boxers. Give it to her like 3 rounds everynight! I bet you she will never go out. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Homguy(m): 5:34am On May 16, 2015 |
aflyingbird:op never said anything about content? When he said contents of the chat revealed she was cheating, and she didn't even attempt to reute it later on? Whats her business calling a single, guy so much? Look you are either in support of cheating, or you do it yourself as you have deliberately decided to ignore Ops points. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Ahmeduana(m): 5:36am On May 16, 2015 |
aflyingbird:UNA DEY SEE BIRD OF THE SAME FEATHER, WATING THE WOMAN WAN TALK? HER HUSBNE CUT HER RED HANDED! |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by Ahmeduana(m): 5:36am On May 16, 2015 |
aflyingbird:UNA DEY SEE BIRD OF THE SAME FEATHER, WATING THE WOMAN WAN TALK? HER HUSBNE CUT HER RED HANDED. 1 Like |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by chibic(m): 6:23am On May 16, 2015 |
adorable29:they are suffering and yet they are the only women in the world too desperate to get married. Nigerian men are always scared of getting married because our women makes life unbearable once you bring them into ur home. activefibre1:this is exactly my thought. He called the FIL to hear his opinion and accepted the sl.ut back because he asked him to do so. This shows that the FIL made him who he is now. Maybe he works in their company. If not, I don't see why the MIL will be feeling fly even when her daughter have been adulterous. Plus it seems OP does not have his own familly. He's supposed to discuss it with his mom and dad and hear from them too. He needs support from his familly because he come across as a weak man. As for the ssluty wife, I'm sure this may not be the first guy she's cheating with. And the fact that they have been doing this for five years (one year into her marriage) smh shows how much of a wwhore she is, and might have been sleeping with the guy even before she met her hubby. You know these typical nigerian girls that will leave their BF to marry a ready man. They'll continue sleeping with him even after traditional wedding. They may sleep with him a day to their wedding or a week to their wedding as a way of saying goodbye. But after a few yrs into their marriage, they'll start having the hunger to ffuck their ex again. This is the reason why naija women are mostly guilty of cheating on their husbands with their exes. Recently my friends ex visited him and initiated a sex between them. After the sex, she surprised him with an invitation card of her wedding which will take place in two weeks time. If you are the husband to be and you find out, how will you feel? She's already cheating on him, and it won't stop after marriage. This is nigerian women for you. 1 Like |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by todayguest(m): 6:35am On May 16, 2015 |
RELEASEUS:to him a chat can only be by voice{audio}. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by redcliff: 6:40am On May 16, 2015 |
aflyingbird: You are very very silly 1 Like |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by lizzygrace(f): 6:42am On May 16, 2015 |
andromida:shut up! Are you not a woman? Maybe you will flirt or you are a flirt sef. |
Re: I'm I being rude to my mother Inlaw. by pak: 6:57am On May 16, 2015 |
freecocoa: God bless freecocoa..... Just love your objectivity |
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