One can understand when you are still both single and not sure if marriage will happen.

But after tieing the knot and become husband and wife, some women still expect their husband to beg for intimacy or uses sex as a bait to get something from the husband. Many women today still does not initiate sex even when they crave it.
Why then get married?

Over to the girls in the house.

even fiance does that too, she loves asking me the doables and the non-doables before having my way, I go just dey nod head like agama lizard to have my way.

Lmao.. My future wife knw say she no fit starve me of sex.... Rather na me go starve am...

I guess it turns them on

AfricanApple:
I guess it turns them on

what if he never begs or make advances?

cilifa:
One can understand when you are still both single and not sure if marriage will happen.

But after tieing the knot and become husband and wife, some women still expect their husband to beg for intimacy or uses se.x as a bait to get something from the husband. Many women today still does not initiate se.x even when they crave it.
Why then get married?

are you the husband or wife in question?

I think it's very ill bred and unnecessarily vulgar to monitor a couple's personal sex life in the manner we are seeing.

lord have mercy.

AfricanApple:
I guess it turns them on

American apple

cilifa:


what if he never begs or make advances?

ask him the same question. Why is he married?
Since u want to insinuate that sex is the beginning and end of marriage

Moana:
ask him the same question. Why is he married?
Since u want to insinuate that sex is the beginning and end of marriage

you seem not to get what he is saying
and you message sounds like you are angry with someone

muphasar11:


you seem not to get what he is saying
and you message sounds like you are angry with someone

and how exactly did i seem angry? Shebi he asked why woman who dont make the first move get married and now im asking him why men who dont make the first move get married. What was wrong with that?

Some of them are sadist, just the thrill of seeing the man beg for this one thing they have control over.

Moana:
and how exactly did i seem angry? Shebi he asked why woman who dont make the first move get married and now im asking him why men who dont make the first move get married. What was wrong with that?

you didnt answer the question thats whats wrong
you attacked the question and drew lines way off the intent of the message

muphasar11:


you didnt answer the question thats whats wrong
you attacked the question and drew lines way off the intent of the message

you read the part he asked "why then get married?"
Okay smarty pants you tell me the intent

Moana:
you read the part he asked "why then get married?"
Okay smarty pants you tell me the intent

Am sorry
thanks

It is the only time they get ANY attention from MEN!
Husband or not!
Muchechecheche
So we make THE BEGGING worth our time!
DYSFUNCTION JAM DYSFUNCTION KE!
Na wetin consine BLACK MAN/WOMAN witi LOFF?

cilifa:

what if he never begs or make advances?

I dont know go and ask them

muphasar11:

American apple

no ooo strictly African apple

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If u want me to beg, keep ur kitty-cat to yourself then.

reason I love my family.
We make them undeestand their position before we marry them.
We don't ask........we take.

1.) Some women have very low libido
2.) Some feel that's how it should be (I.e the husband should always be the one to ask for it)
3.) Some think it makes them more desirable ( the more they hide it the more the man needs it)

The truth though is that as women we have a duty to satisfy our spouse, if he needs it simply give it to him except of course you have a reasonable excuse (e.g your period, fatigue, illness etc). And also you should be able to ask your husband for it too...men also like to feel desired, don't think you're the only one who wants to feel attractive, your husband will feel attractive whenever you ask, so stroke his ego.

If you want to hoard... Prepare for your husband to start playing away match.

The wan their hubby to b begger, bt sharp men knws d solution

na waiting d man allow make e master ha b DAT na


and once u beg a lady

she go expect u to dey continue beg ha

Speechless becaue am still single let the marriage people provide answer for this qustion

Where are those Married Men n Women? This ajuju is for u guys


Mua I'm here to read comments

I personally won't beg my wife for sex,her body is mine and so is mine hers,if she thinks she won't give me sex,no biggie,I will simply get it outside, and I will still act the responsible man I am at home..I won't hide the fact that am cheating from her tho...she better shussh it since she can't give me

Am once here.

Why did i even book space in ds thread.....

Sure I'll do it