AfricanApple:
why you dey desperate

ApexTitan:


Many a man have "wifed" a woman because of sex alone. While that is not the best reason to enter into a monogamous r/ship it goes to show how important sex is for men.

Look at it this way, even if a woman is as well behaved, respectful and virtuous as though she was angel Micheal's sister but offered no possibility of sex with her forever, she will most certainly never be "wifed" by any man.

LFJ:
The reason is because most men are selfish. Before you wake up in the money, your wife is already up taking care of the children, you go out together to work, you come back from work, you busy yourself with TV from one channels to the other, why your wife is busy in the kitchen preparing food and getting your kids ready for the following day. Now imagine a woman that wakes up 5am in the morning and engaged till 10/11pm is the same woman you want to be a supper woman in the bed.
The question is how much do you assist your wife? If you want an evergreen and energetic woman, don't over labor your wife so that see can have enough energy to take you to the moon on the bed.

millionboi:
i dnt wnt 2hurt her

AfricanApple:
I wouldn't know. I said maybe

cilifa:
One can understand when you are still both single and not sure if marriage will happen.

But after tieing the knot and become husband and wife, some women still expect their husband to beg for intimacy or uses sex as a bait to get something from the husband. Many women today still does not initiate sex even when they crave it.
Why then get married?

ekiloui:
1.) Some women have very low libido
2.) Some feel that's how it should be (I.e the husband should always be the one to ask for it)
3.) Some think it makes them more desirable ( the more they hide it the more the man needs it)

The truth though is that as women we have a duty to satisfy our spouse, if he needs it simply give it to him except of course you have a reasonable excuse (e.g your period, fatigue, illness etc). And also you should be able to ask your husband for it too...men also like to feel desired, don't think you're the only one who wants to feel attractive, your husband will feel attractive whenever you ask, so stroke his ego.

If you want to hoard... Prepare for your husband to start playing away match.

tpiadotcom:
couple of days ago a male poster insisted he would die if he does not locate a brothel that very night.

so, if lack of sex can kill somebody, its a problem common to all men then.

don't blame women for not having the same problems as you.

Moana:
i asked about you personally i didnt ask you to continue shifting from the goal post.

Yomieluv:
even fiance does that too, she loves asking me the doables and the non-doables before having my way, I go just dey nod head like agama lizard to have my way.

pcguru1:


It's the truth, I know people here are saying have a side chic she will come to her senses. But that actually gives room for diseases and will destroy both parties.

millionboi:
wat abt a girlfrnd

ApexTitan:


Lol. Why is it a personal question? I won't marry any woman for sex alone, but if she takes sex out of the equation I won't marry her either.

BaebieHot:
When they will be asking for sex morning afternoon and night as if it is food.

Give the woman's thing time to recuperate, NO. They just want to have bf, lunch and dinner on the woman

ebonflex:
When a woman knows she has no other value and knows that she brings nothing to a relationship besides the hatchet wound between her legs, she will try to ration it or make it seem more expensive than it really is and make it seem like a big deal.

I actually pity these calibre of women. Imagine how empty they must feel inside knowing fully well that they are so useless.
. A person needs more validations of the Point of their existence than just having something that EVERYONE with your gender has....more so something that deteriorates very quickly too with time. This is also why they have such terribly low self esteem.

AfricanApple:
do you know the real me? beside you were complaining of whats on my head, which one should I listen to now, I guess none

trouble

tpiadotcom:



are you the husband or wife in question?

I think it's very ill bred and unnecessarily vulgar to monitor a couple's personal sex life in the manner we are seeing.

lord have mercy.

Moana:
like i have said love and loyalty are the most important then comes sex and everything else comes after those 2.

Anyone can have sex without love and loyalty, but a marriage cannot live long where sex is put before love and loyalty.

Texcoco:
We believe tis a primal trait stemming from the avaricious courtship behaviours of our ancestors millions of years ago.These ancestor species,Homo habilis,Homo erectus and Homo ergastus exhibited some poignant trait of courtship rituals where the male begs and solves his need for intimacy albeit in a crude croo-man form like chasing down the female folk before clubbing one down-some into unconsciousness- and carrying her off to "matrimonial" caves for copulatiion and a life of bliss...In much more refined culture as you find in this current civilisation as ours,a married man can 'club' his wife down into submission,copulatione and a short time of bliss by dominating or possessing her in every way imaginable...Begging is a massive turn off..If our ancestors begged in those hard dangerous years, our species would had died off long before the Chicxculub meteor event or in a lesser extent before the last Ice-age..Heck even Megalodonts would be laughing at them.

tpiaT:
when male birds and animals in the wild, display their brightest colours during courtship, is that not begging females to mate with them?

kayciano:
Ah Ah This one na Talk...?

When PROSTITUTES are UBIQUITOUS....
Even these days we have HOME- DELIVERY SERVICES from single LADIES....who are willing to HELP these married WOMEN satisfy their husbands

themodernman:


I disagree with you on this. A woman who rations sex has simply not been made to feel attraction for the man. We all have sexual feelings which once ignited gives no damn about your first statement. Once a woman feels it for you, she will do it with you whether its d only thing she got or not...and even if she brings more to the relationship dan sex, if she feels no attraction for you she'll not be aroused & thus deny you of sex.

Self esteem has little to do with a babe dat has been seduced properly. Dont get things twisted bro. I know of women that use the only thing they bring into a relationship which is the "thing" between their legs to keep their man by having him well satisfied- My Akwaibom parole babe comes to mind...she finished me off & she knew she did a good job.

NobleG1:


Because most Nigerian men still have st*upid barbaric mentality. Nigerian women don't want to be called sl*uts for initiating sex!

If you let your woman know it's ok for her to initiate sex when she is h*orny, she'll gladly do so! Also tell her to be free to tell you what she would want you to do in bed to make her enjoy sex better. She will love this conversation.

Women like and want sex like men. But conservative society made it hard for them to be open about it to the opposit sex.

Just like men, women do fantasize about some nasty sh*its they want to experience in bed. To enjoy sex with your partner, both of you need to explore sexually to know what you guys enjoy most. I promise you, there many nasty sh*its to explore. Enjoy!!