My husband had a stroke a very long time ago and we have not had sex for nine years. We’re both in our early 50s and he doesn’t think I should settle for a sexless life.
We don’t want to split because we still love each other and our children are doing well. So my husband has suggested I need a sexual companion. He said I should just find sex where and when I could; only I should be discrete about it.

I wasn’t really keen at first, but the more we talked through the emotional complications of my not being sexually fulfilled, the more the idea appealed to me. I just don’t want to hurt his feelings.
Florence, by e-mail.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/05/my-sick-husband-wants-me-to-be-unfaithful/

The ones wey she don do never satisfy am, she sef be another , at her age she should av forget sex

Hmmmm what a world. Your good husband is healed ijn. Amen

selfless man. I know his kind. this are people who don't want to carry others along. they don't just like others to suffer for them.

Y wanting sex at 50? Oga oooo
But btw can she swear she hadn't had sex wt sm1 else during those 9yrs?
Anyway she can stick wt dat s3x device machine.........that husband thou! I no trust him, he may be playing plank on her oooo
Thou wt d information given she has stopped having s3e since she's 41yrs....body no be sugar cain na, she try ooo

^^^She shouldn't have an urge at 50?Hormones still flow in her body.

She shouldn't find a partner.What she needs to do is get a romance machine.Her husband can also participate in the show.He still has a functioning hand and a mouth to use.

Get urslf a bleeping f**k*n machine ur above 50 u no lönger nid intimacy all ya need is satisfaction tk my advice or *if u dnt like dz ringtone press2*

How easy is it to find no strings attached sex?
If she finds some guy elsewhere maybe that one will start catching feelings someday and try to ruin her marriage for her.

But do what you must. And most importantly, try not hurt your husband with your actions.

She should just get a romance mechine, Intimate relationships come with a lot of commitments and could go real bad.

sick wife u are

Her choice,but her love for him doesnt exist

All the sex you guys have been catching in every conceivable corner available when the vile of youth was dormant is still not enough

Truth be told your husband is testing your loyalty and any sign of betrayal will give him the ginger to give up. He's feeling guilty which is killing him slowly.

You need to reassure him and swore an oath of One body one heart and one soul and watch the magic of how your man will fight stroke to a standstill.*sings Sam Smith Stay With Me*

Where is the love? Is it not for better for worse again?? To all men outside there, May God never retire your Dickson while you are still alive ...

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Hmmm. Endtime tins.

So what should we do?

The man just want his wife to be sexually active even at 50?

sweet jesus


I feel like crying reading this


father lord plz heal d sick man in Jesus name

Am sure he has a reason for that and if it will make d both of u happy then do it.

I wonder ooh

DONT EVEN TRY IT OOO

IT MIGHT BE D LAST SEX U EVA HAD

BE WARNED,NO MATTER WHAT DONT TRY IT

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Lwkmd ....@50? This is serious..

BTW, are u sure he really meant what he said? I mean how can a man sincerely ask his wife to bleep outside just because he is sick. I thought d oath at d alter said in sickness and in health, till death separate u both? Heheheeh I don't trust that man, he must have something up his sleeve.

Its either he's suspecting his wife is cheating on him and wanna test her loyalty or something else that is deeper. Be wise, look before u leap! This might be a setup

Don't defile ur marriage for any reason, God is ur strenght and He will see him through the sickness in Jesus name.

His telling you to do what you already doing so whatz th is madam

she shouldnt do it.

Holatunde007:
Y wanting sex at 50? Oga oooo
But btw can she swear she hadn't had sex wt sm1 else during those 9yrs?

I doubt if she hasnt had sex with another man for that nine years, she needs to tell the truth first

Sex Sex Sex... na food?