BarryX:
Will do just that, if that will make you -happy

Deal?

Kingsleyinfo:

Young lady advice yourself before I reposition your thinking.
How am I supposed to be a woman?
Your argument lacks basis. What is wrong is wrong, there is no common sense in encouraging bad behaviour. A stitch in time saves nine. Get things in the right perspective please.

freecocoa:
No I don't and don't need 1.

Do you have a Vagin@?

Gaidenk:

Guess your parents are from that same "small minded" culture and you are a product of it too. Awesome

CFCfan:

I don't have issues doing chores. However, I would expect my fiancee (not girl friend) to help me out on some occasions. Ditto, if I visit her, I can still help her out with some chores. Or if she comes to my place, and cooks for both of us, we can both wash the dishes, or I do them myself.
In the same vein, I would expect her to drive us, sometimes, to any place too.

amokeme:
I don't like doing dishes .. She might be like me

TheSonOfMark:

Doing the used dishes equates "belittling the role of a woman"?
Pray tell, miss, what is belittling about it and what is a woman's role?

Sophyrocks:


Better. Good boy!

izzieman:



What is wrong with a man doing dishes for his brother's wife or fiancée? Will doing the dishes shorten his penis or make him impotent?

Gaidenk:

Guess your parents are from that same "small minded" culture and you are a product of it too. Awesome

lolly2pops:
In my opinion she was a visitor and one can not expect a visitor to clean after themselves. Secondly was she the only one who ate from those plates or did everyone enjoy the meal together? If everyone enjoyed the same meal together it should not be a problem for anyone of them to wash the dishes. If I were the lady though I would have actually washed the dishes, that's all. Culturally at least where I'm coming from men are supposed to provide for their families but nowadays we find that some men rather sit at home and wait for her cheque meanwhile they still refuse to do any house chores because they find it to be a taboo but not collecting money from a woman..

Moana:
calling it a duty only reserved for a woman is belittling her role, lets not get it twisted

And working his head off to fund the family's activities and ventures isn't slave-like? It isn't belittling his role?
Somethings are just cast in stone. Attempting to alter them might ruin them.

A woman is a helper but that doesn't make her less human than the man she's assisting.

Before most of use the "white women" analogy, you should understand that they are even more submissive than our women not minding what HollyWood tells you.
Do your research; the average white woman rarely argues about chores and there are more white housewives than even blacks. I do not support women being idle though.

TheSonOfMark:


You've been repeating your earlier comments which has made this a boring cliché. Is your lexicograph stock that depleted or are you a programmed gyno-form who's been given access to the internet to spew hogwash and regurgitate your idiocy?

About tutoring you in the English Language: The highlighted word in your comment should have been started with an uppercase letter 'cause a fullstop (and not a comma) should have proceeded "...is an excuse" since it's a complete sentence.

You see why I termed you a 'neo-dyslexic' ?

MzNelly:


I stated I like his diary, not his persona.

He's more reasonable when he's not looking for meaningless fights all over the place like his life depended on it.

GbengaJimoh:
Some girls come here just to make silly comments. How can a guy you've been f.ucking for a long time to the point of marriage strange to u? You're not a gf, ur a fiancee, and that means ur expected to start behaving like a wife! Leaving her plate unwashed just shows she's a dumb oaf impregnated with stupidity. So much for civilization!

emperorchedda:
You'll make freecocoa deactivate ooo.

I plead with you to overlook the imb'ecile

Silly people should have their folly pointed out to them.

emperorchedda:
You'll make freecocoa deactivate ooo.

I plead with you to overlook the imb'ecile

FrancisTony:
Okay, assuming the dude visited his fiancee's place and she served him.

After eating, fiancee's junior sister requests he wash the plate, how would you all feel? or comments on this thread be?

Nairaland men and hypocrisy goes hand in hand.

TheSonOfMark:

And working his head off to fund the family's activities and ventures isn't slave-like? It isn't belittling his role?
Somethings are just cast in stone. Attempting to alter them might ruin them.

A woman is a helper but that doesn't make her less human than the man she's assisting.

Before most of use the "white women" analogy, you should understand that they are even more submissive than our women not minding what HollyWood tells you.

Do your research; the average white woman rarely argues about chores and there are more white housewives than even blacks. I do not support women being idle though.

TheSonOfMark:

Silly people should have their folly pointed out to them.

freecocoa:
If I were to be that lady, I'd seriously reconsider being married into such a family, good thing her hubby to be is sensible sha.

What's the big deal in doing a dish? Why does it have to come down to who ate with the plate? the said fiancee is a guest if I'm correct, so why should she being doing dishes in a house she's visiting for starters?(not that it's bad anyways), just that, it's not proper etiquette to demand your guests do chores(well except there are rules, which you must let them know about) then again, it just isn't normal.

TheSonOfMark:

Silly people should have their folly pointed out to them.

mizzochocinco:
Just give a simple answer to the question. Which one is more sensible arguing over who will pick a shirt up and place it in the washing basket or simply picking it up and placing it in the washing basket without a quarrel?

castro316:


Yes na! You are those type of ladies who get old looking for husband and keep asking themselves "what is wrong with me. I am beautiful, why am I not married". Simple things like this take ppl to another level.

koyyes:
Op, i'm very disappointed that you still have a bad orientation about women in this 21st century. You use words like 'mere' to identify a woman as if you were not born by one. You say as a woman the girlfriend should respect the men around her. Do you view women as slaves that even when they come visiting, they must wash the plates of their host because he is a male- her future partner for that matter. Whatever arguement both had should not make you insult the lady you hear? Better receive sense and start behaving like a civilized individual and not some proud bush hunter.

Kingsleyinfo:


Why did you quote part of my statement, and ignore the other half.

Why don't I give you a better option?
How about I wear my shirt and stroll out so you can come pick the shirt when you like.

Nor be who dem see dem dey argue with

Yeye dey smell. Selective reasoning.

freecocoa:
The thing with you is that, you are like really really low on the pole, you think you got something going here but you fail to realize that you don't even come near, you are just a newbie trying too hard to earn a reputation.

You should take several seats back because the annoying thing about you is that, you are a dunce, an empty m0ron hiding behind trading insulting words, you are totally devoid of logical discourse and that's quite pitiable.

Tah! You no near, you are several years late, this place is now filled with kids like yourself, I just really laugh at you and your notice me attitude.

Go look for people like sexkillz, Shymex, coogar, etc(atleast those ones have something upstairs) and ask them for tips, you are trying way way too hard, anumanu.

Actually I already have a reputation here which is examining the idiocy of nitwits like yourself beneath my searchlight, making mincemeat of your shallow submissions and sending you on your way with your tail between your wobbly lower limbs like a scalded female dog after being cowered to halt the belligerence of your insolence.