RedBenson:


Civilization! Civilization!! Civilization!!! Every girl talking about civilization and seem to throw our valuable cultures to the bin. Well, i'm so glad my wife wont come from nairaland and i will love her the more if she doesnt make use of any social media platform. The nature of feminism displayed on this thread has enough potentials to corrupt even the good girls out there.

freecocoa:
What makes you think every woman is interested in having a husband or that every man is a misogynist? Do you people live in this century at all?

RedBenson:


Civilization! Civilization!! Civilization!!! Every girl talking about civilization and seem to throw our valuable cultures to the bin. Well, i'm so glad my wife wont come from nairaland and i will love her the more if she doesnt make use of any social media platform. The nature of feminism displayed on this thread has enough potentials to corrupt even the good girls out there.

Relax while I take the hallucinating homo sapiens to the cleaners like I always do. I particularly like to take on the ultras and expose their ingrained foolhardiness.

TheSonOfMark:

And they wonder why they are 'used' and dumped. It's just one of the issues raised in Tosynê2much's thread which is currently on the front page.

mizzochocinco:
you ignored my entire post thats why i had to repeat myself before saying anything else to you.

Being a child born with common sense with a good upbringing i would pick the shirt up and when you come back i would ask you to like a civilized human being. I will not die from picking a shirt up and putting in were it belongs.

It is only a fool who thinks its more logical to argue over it as opposed to just getting it over and done with without being difficult for no reason.

Krystalxxx:


Well please do forgive me for the misconception here.....my mistake . Hope you're not very annoyed. Nice siggy though, it made me laugh a bit

khia:


I wasn't taught common sense in school but in my home.
My parents taught me that I could be whatever I wanted to be in this world, along with my brothers and sisters.
My sisters and I were taught to cook and clean and so were my brothers.
We were taught to be self sufficient, to take care of ourselves because our parents didn't want us to totaly rely on a mate because people will mistreat you when they know that you are depended on them financially or domestically.

I love and want a man in my life but I can take care of myself financially.

Kingsleyinfo:


No it's rather very foolish not to pick up a shirt on the floor and then call me to come and pick it.

It's your house, so if you like talk to your husband to stop litering the floor with his shirts, or simply pick it up yourself.

My elder brother can't even try that nonsense the guy in the story did, I trust that guy gan... e go teach that girl proper manners.

Some my house come eat, come dey leave your plate for my sink, wetin guy nor fit try, na u wan come mis waka

Park well oh.....

Sophyrocks:


Since you are lamenting so much about females going to school, then you should not send your daughters to school. How about that? Lets start with you. For you to say this means your parents wasted money on your sisters, in case you have any. If a mother is not fully educated she wont get a good job to cater for her kids and help financially. You cant demand for women not to go to school yet you want the benefits of civilisation. Not possible. Its too late to lament. Once you go for civilisation, there is no turning back. If we truly are to stick to our old ways then we shuldnt be on nairaland and using electronic gadgets and you also shouldnt be educated but should be in the farm. so choose one.

tempel:
For me if he's not the sponsor of the[b] younger brothers education[/b] I'll pack now.

castro316:


Then let others learn. because u don't want to get married u shldn't bring ur shitty opinion here. Ppl are watching and when u put that kind of xter out there could be used against u one day.it really wrong to leave ur dirty plates in anybody's house whether visitor or not. That younger bro could be the cause of she not getting married when his parent hear of it. That is real bad manners whether lady or guy.

Sophyrocks:


Now you are confused. why did you quote me in the first place? It is you who has a problem with me. You quoted me 1st remember?

RedBenson:


Education and exposure should strictly be meant for men folks. Women should get all their lives spent in the kitchen and keep the home while birthing children.

TheSonOfMark:
Actually I already have a reputation here which is examining the idiocy of nitwits like yourself beneath my searchlight, making mincemeat of your shallow submissions and sending you on your way with your tail between your wobbly lower limbs like a scalded female dog after being cowered to halt the belligerence of your insolence.

mizzochocinco:
you didnt read that properly obviously because only intend on arguing with me whether or not its necessary. I said i would pick it up and when u come back i will ask to do the same, next time it happens again, like a civilized human being.

thats usually what civilised people do

like i said it requires common sense and a good upbringing to handle it in a civilised manner

this is the difference between a well-mannered man and a village champion.

izzieman:



What is wrong with a man doing dishes for his brother's wife or fiancée? Will doing the dishes shorten his penis or make him impotent?

Kingsleyinfo:


It's common sense. cleaning up after eating is not being civilized.

I clean up after eating, so what stops you from doing the same huh?

Did you read the first part of the very first post you quoted or you have a problem with comprehension?

My dear, I agree, am a village champion, city champion leave us villagers alone to wallow in what we know to be right.

See as she dey shout civilized like say she know wetin the word mean sef
Dirtiness is now being given a new name "Civilization"

Since it's civilized to eat and leave your plates unwashed then you can continue in that civilization. I want no part in it. Am perfectly satisfied with my 'clean' village.

TheSonOfMark:

I disagree with you sir. Women should be educated but each gender should know its traditional roles.
I wouldn't even date an uneducated female.

freecocoa:
You are daft beyond belief. How you think every Nigerian adheres to cultures is actually startling, get some education you buffoon.

Ilekeh:

" lady who should be respecting men".......

And vise versa.

Respect is earned, not demanded by any given gender or age group.

Twaci:
The older brother was totally wrong. She ate with the plates, she should av washed them not lay back and wait for the younger bro to wash em.

Infact it should be that whenever she visits, the younger bro should be on a "kitchen vacation"....she's a woman for chrissake!

Next thing you'll hear her say is that her husband-to-be family don't like her. What does she expect if she can't maintain a common ground and relationship with her guy's younger ones?

RedBenson:


Being educated is not bad but what do you do when the said education is giving them extra ego to flex around with men? I think they need to be ripped off the education to get them back to their normal senses.

freecocoa:
Don't kid yourself mister, your perceived reputation only exist in your mind, I didn't know you even existed till you quoted me, history will do well to explain better to you, you won't be able to last a day if I'm interested in actually engaging you in a war of words.

Like I already said, you are a newbie, you don't come close.

So opines the dimwitted hag who I have so continually floored with my typo-eloquence all through the night that she's resorted to using error-punctuated one-liners.

You are just one of my many 'victims'.

Or maybe you'd retreat like a coward? That would be predictable too.

Gaidenk:

Outcasts don't tho , I do have some education in history you should read sometime,you nincompoop

FrancisTony:
Okay, assuming the dude visited his fiancee's place and she served him.

After eating, fiancee's junior sister requests he wash the plate, how would you all feel? or comments on this thread be?

Nairaland men and hypocrisy goes hand in hand.

TheSonOfMark:

So opines the dimwitted hag who I have so continually floored with my typo-eloquence all through the night that she's resorted to using error-punctuated one-liners.

You are just one of my many 'victims'.

Or maybe you'd retreat like a coward? That would be predictable too.

Krystalxxx:
Some studies point to the fact that the black woman is regarded as the most undesirable race of women in the world. But some suggest that this is because no other race degrades or openly disgraces their women more than the black race. I think this is true, judging by the posts on nairaland. It is a pity that we do not realize, especially the men, that at the end of the day we are stuck together. No other race would make us one of theirs. The insults heaped on the African woman by African men themselves have given us the title of the least respected women in the world, and what better excuse for other races to disrespect us.

When our men treat our women like rags, outsiders will come to laugh at us as a whole, that's men included. While other countries move to dishwashers and other amenities which enable them to do more useful things in their lives while still taking care of the chores, African men prefer that our women spend the lion's share of their time proving their worth scratching and scrubbing, when we could have a more powerful force of both men and women, powered up educationally and moving the world with their intelligence.

Too bad. Other countries be discussing their next powerful moves and celebrating gargantuan victories.......but Nigerian men and women are still huddled up in their little huts arguing about who will wash the plates

luciangelymail:
If this fiance is just a visitor, not yet a family member, then d younger bro is wrong. Dont tell me that he had the time to sort out dishes used by certain people in d Houz before choosing d ones he deemed fit to wash! So he washed some and left some just because it was f brother's fiancé that used dem, no no, treat ur brother's fiancé like ur own sister, except if she has been married and that's her kitchen! Then u live all dishes for her there, not wen she visited..... I stand to be corrected though