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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by cdamsel(f): 11:40am On May 26, 2015 |
Unfortunately I'm just seeing this thread. 1st of all she isn't living in the house,if I were the younger brother won't mind doing the dish for a house guest. Secondly if the tables were turned we obviously would see comments like,it's a girls job to keep the house clean. I have seen it time & time again boys eat & just dump dishes & expect the girl to do it cos "it's a girl's job". Funny how it hurts when the tables turn Men see women as "housemaids" yet they still expect the women to bring in pay checks, take care of kids etc. That being said, whether man or woman any sensible person should do his/her dish after eating, who the hell are you hoping to clean up after you? It's annoying to Clean up after anybody let alone grown as.s adults it's fvcking nasty |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:41am On May 26, 2015 |
koyyes:If the society is careless abt values, it doesnt equate we shld throw it into bin at home. A home is different from society. 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:44am On May 26, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: I trust you mehn! I dey feel u big time. Go with them mercilessly. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:47am On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson: Too bad. Its just a fantasy. This is 2015. You will do well to wake up from your dream or else you will die single. Too late bro. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by cdamsel(f): 11:48am On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson:Even you are contradicting your own story. The story said she visited obviously she left that's why the brothers had the time to argue about the dishes. I'm beginning to think you are that younger brother cos you sound really pained & stating your grievances like it's personal. Might be wrong though # |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:52am On May 26, 2015 |
oloyede252: Nope. Its because you really feel insecure and inferior when ladies dnt do dishes for you. How petty! Your entire manhood and self esteem is tied to what a woman does for you. Shows you are a weakling and not so much as an alpha male some of you pose here! Nairaland, the fantasy world. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:53am On May 26, 2015 |
freecocoa:hehe history isn't fair to it subjects tho,sorry about your situation,I can't relate but I'd try to understand , so this is the thing,I can't sue my teachers cos they taught me history(I feel u educated enough to know what it means so I won't explain with "History means). Now I'm not the one who resents the system,you are ,so you should be doing the suing,sue NIGERIA or or get out of the system or sit your furry flat butt down and suck it all up. Capisce? 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by cdamsel(f): 11:54am On May 26, 2015 |
GbengaJimoh:O MY GOD And y'all say you came from stable homes? Is it wrong to treat others the way you would want to be treated irrespective of gender? It's not about independence or gender equality it's about mutual respect for a fellow human being 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by vega84(m): 11:55am On May 26, 2015 |
Uncultured gf, woman wrapper elder brother. #vegatalks 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:59am On May 26, 2015 |
freecocoa: Hope you havent forgotten i'm not the cause of your feminism? Go on and exhibit what best suits you. Only time shall tell. Wasted daughter who obviously lacks basic home training. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:10pm On May 26, 2015 |
cdamsel: Lol. Dont get it wrong. I'm right now very far from Nigeria and the story happened right in naija few days ago and got across to where i am. May be my choice of word "visited" misconceived the story (i should've used a more appropriate word), but let me believe someone who has been regularly visiting a place and up to the extent of being called "fiancee" as used in the write up is no longer regarded a visitor. Look at it and reason logically. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by cdamsel(f): 12:13pm On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson:Like I said any grown as.s man or woman should do his / her dish. My point is don't make it a man /woman thing. What is wrong is wrong #PERIOD |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by castro316: 12:13pm On May 26, 2015 |
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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:19pm On May 26, 2015 |
cdamsel: Then she was the cause of the war in the house. If she had reasonably done what a respectful women, a fiancee should do by washing the dishes, then this topic would've come up in the first place. But she failed and tried to turn the guy to her boi boi. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by castro316: 12:21pm On May 26, 2015 |
freecocoa: Say what u like. The thing is you will never change the truth and reality. That's why I don't pity women. Some of them like u are the architects of ur own catastrophe. Mtcheew! Ppl that dance naked in the market place and think it sane. No wahala. Anyway this is nairaland and everybody can say what they like here. 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by cdamsel(f): 12:28pm On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson:Again with the woman thing Obviously she doesn't know she stared up war. What exactly is your point? She should have done the dishes or her dish? Which one? If the younger brother can't talk to the elder brother explaining to him like a reasonable man should there wouldn't have been war in the 1st place. His brothers house,his brothers rules,he either suck it up to move to his father's house where he won't be treated like a boy boy |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by mencade5(m): 12:30pm On May 26, 2015 |
castro316:bro dont mind these nairaland biiitches. They are still biiitches, being fvcked by men daily. They can feign knowledge clamoring for fake feminism that doesnt exist. Yet their place must remain in the kitchen. The lady that didnt wash the dishes is very stuu.piid. I always blamed the pusssy fvcker of a brother for siding his biiiitch instead of his brother. Later them go dey complain say my wife doesnt respect me after giving her too much liberty. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:45pm On May 26, 2015 |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:53pm On May 26, 2015 |
Krystalxxx: Buhahahahahahaha. The bolded is damn too funny and shameful. While other countries are discussing how to develop themselves and move forward, Nigerians are busy soaking garri and arguing over washing mere dishes. And they say women are petty nt knowing men are the same. Buhahahahahaha. Shame. But seriously, black women are getting hooked to white men all over and their unions last longer than the rest. Dnt allow those studies fool you dear. If we have influx of whites in nigeria same way south africa has, you would notice our women branching off fast. 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by steppin: 1:06pm On May 26, 2015 |
freecocoa:Whatever advice or comment you give should also be exactly what you'd do, if you were in the same situation. As far that house is concerned, she's not a visitor. She's the fiancee for christ sake! She automatically claims ownership of that kitchen the moment she's there. The way I see it, that lady is lazy if not, why would she leave her plate for a grown up like her to wash? If the brother was a teenager or someone who's younger, it would have being a different thing. Whenever I eat at my cousin's place, I do my dishes even though I'm older than the wife. Most times the woman would ask me not to, but I still do it anyway. I can decide not to do it and nothing would happen....but I just do it out of courtesy. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 1:07pm On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson:Trash! Who's claiming to be a man or woman on this thread? I asked a simple question and you typed rubbish as a reply. Btw, if i'm not a man, that doesn't make a woman either. So, tell me a new gender you invented?. A true African man to you, has to be a misogynist. Nansense! 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by ireneony(f): 1:28pm On May 26, 2015 |
i so much love the comments on this thread. thank God women are standing up for what is right and i discovered that some nigerian men are standing up for their women. @redbenson nawa for u o "mere women" 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 1:29pm On May 26, 2015 |
cdamsel: You are beginning to sound uninteresting. So the young man who is well over 25yrs of age should've quietly gone and washed the plate that was solely used for eating by his bros' fiancee just cos he lives under his bros' roof? Whatever to woman's etiquette. And the information gathered further showed she was fun of doing same until that day the young got annoyed and i decided not to continue playing the role of a boi boi to a lady who's not even yet married. This is how some of these demons in the name of girls go about tearing people's families apart. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 1:32pm On May 26, 2015 |
ireneony: Does Seun describe you better way than that? Lol. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 1:36pm On May 26, 2015 |
FrancisTony: Francis, i said before and i'm repeating myself. I judge you by what you put up there. You are not a man, a real African man. Quote me anywhere. Forget the fact that a pipe is oscillating inbtween your legs. That doesnt make you a man. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by castro316: 1:41pm On May 26, 2015 |
mencade5: U the man. I honestly can't understand why some ppl shamelessly argue without content. Any our meeting remains in nairaland and ends in nairaland. I wish her well with her bad mouth 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by A1official(m): 1:46pm On May 26, 2015 |
amokeme:As you don't like doing dishes. you should also dislike eating. Daiz simple 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by amokeme(f): 1:48pm On May 26, 2015 |
A1official:we have loads of alternatives too "simple" |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 1:55pm On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson:Thanks. I don't even want to be an African man - who wants to be associated with cave-men mentality?. Oya, answer those my questions to expose your hypocrisy, further. 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by koyyess: 2:00pm On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson:Clusters of homes makes up the society. There is no truth or wisdom in double standards. That is not what 'values' are all about. The elder brother obviously knows this. Your 'neighbor' disrespected his elder brother and his host by his action. He has self esteem issues. If he wants the 'respect' he craves for, he should get his own place. Simple! 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by themanderon: 2:11pm On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson:You have not even seen anything, especially this idomie generation girls, very air headed individuals. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by cowgirl9090: 2:24pm On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson: my brother kulu kulu temper. it has nothing to do with education it is marriage that exposed our mothers and their daughters . you mustn't force others to agree with your terms,everybody mustn't agree with you that's part of growing up. you can always find the kind of woman you want,you can likewise go to the village and marry uneducated woman for a full time house wife,many men find the educated women you rebel feminist desirable. do not despair people always go for their kind of woman/man and you are no exception. |
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