I'm typing this from my mobile phone and I am in a hurry as I have a bucket of water I need to go get, I'm hoping to get a reasonable objective advice soon.

Due to whatever reason, we had not had power supply for over a week now and our water tank has run out of water, fuel is also too expensive in my area to use the generator as I will have to turn off everything to make sure only the borehole gets electricity.

With no option at hand I had to take jerrycan and buckets to the next building where water is being sold, on getting there I found this 16-17yrs old girl as the attendant, I noticed she kept looking at me awkwardly, after filling my buckets she refused taking money from me, I insisted as I would need to fetch a lot of water. Unknown to me she has been subsidizing the amount I spend, meaning if I had fetched N100 worth she only takes N50.

Now each time I go there, she keeps looking directly into my eyes, smiling unnecessarily, and it is making me feel uncomfortable.

I don't know if I should be angry or feel sorry for her, I can't possibly go inside and report her to her parents, I have been looking for a way to caution her but each time I go to get water there are also other people there and I don't want to be unreasonably rude.

Relocate to another borehole.

Has she walked up to you?

If no, then ignore her and pray power supply is restored on time so you won't have to buy.

Reporting to her parents is most likely not going to change anything .

Then call her inside a dark room, and speak senses into her forking head.........btw be kiaful some teenage. Can be more dangerous than adult self

Hehehehehe, OP you should knwow she's got a crush on you.

Just ignore her.

Holatunde007:
Then call inside a dark room, and speak senses into her forking head.........btw use protection join while talking senses into her head oooo!

Smh for ur destiny

...Just ignore her and she'll get the message.

Teenagers of these days dey fear me Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo.

Just avoid her, and talk to her as ur youger sister or duauther

Just avoid her, and talk to her as ur youger sister or ur child

If you look as matured and cool as one of the guys on your profile picture,then I doubt you could ever ask a question as elementary as this.
Be the man your picture makes us believe you are(even if the picture isn't you), ignore her firmly. Ball with bigger babes and never get tempted to consider kids. The consequence of messing around such girls is horrible, you can't handle it.

kelvine:
If you look as matured and cool as one of the guys on your profile picture,then I doubt you could ever ask a question as elementary as this.
Be the man your picture makes us believe you are(even if the picture isn't you), ignore her firmly. Ball with bigger babes and never get tempted to consider kids. The consequence of messing around such girls is horrible, you can't handle it.

Smh

Don't be tempted bro, it's good u are resisting her .. Sometime u need to avoid any future embarrassment

Just act as if everything is cool, call her aburo(young sis).

why cause Mayhem out of situation that happens day-to-day in our society. You could have just ignore it like it never happened.. and if you're interested, you take your own calculative risk. Why bother yourself about a less complicated matter out of all other complicated complication of life?

What are you gonna be telling her parents? "your daughter keeps looking straight into my eyes" lol.

Just ignore her, it might not be what you 're thinking.

martyns303:

Smh

That's a good advice there bro don't push it away. Don't mess with kids. Treat her as a kid sister.

dinachi:
That's a good advice there bro don't push it away. Don't mess with kids. Treat her as a kid sister.

I think some NL's are just unreasonably illogical, I am disappointed and disgusted by this kid's attitude and am looking for the best means of cautioning her and for someone to even insinuate me accommodating thoughts of being with a kid makes me sick beyond measures.

There are some really sick people up here.

Someone else meant think am making a fuss but really the manner in which this kid is conducting herself is to say the least unimaginable, I am the one seeing what is happening.

Holatunde007:
Then call inside a dark room, and speak senses into her forking head.........btw use protection join while talking senses into her head oooo!

i hope you give the same advice to any man your daughter does this to

Wait up! A little girl gives you wierd glances and all of a sudden the next best thing you thought of was to open a thread and report her to Nairalanders? Seriously?

SisterCaro:
i hope you give the same advice to any man your daughter does this to

Young lady get urself far frm dat opinion, my daughter wouldn't ever be so immoral, u shud tell us if u would like bring ur daughter up in such manner

martyns303:

I think some NL's are just unreasonably illogical, I am disappointed and disgusted by this kid's attitude and am looking for the best means of cautioning her and for someone to even insinuate me accommodating thoughts of being with a kid makes me sick beyond measures.
There are some really sick people up here.
Someone else meant think am making a fuss but really the manner in which this kid is conducting herself is to say the least unimaginable, I am the one seeing what is happening.

Take it easy. No one is condemning you yet. No one can. My advice? Chat her up. Ask her name. Her age.Her school.Her grades in school. Ask her what would she like to do when she grows up. Treat her like a kid sister. Many girls at that age in portharcourt are rotten stiff. They are either lesbians or bisexuals due to all girls boarding schools and peer pressure. Be friendly but firm. If she is still shameless and dares to come out open and profess her love then you can report to her parents. They will always respect you

idk why u would be angry at her or rude to her . she hasn't done anything wrong . this isn't harrassment either , smdh. she smiles at u and acts awkwardly around u because she has a crush on u. she's only 16 , she can't help it. even older pple get crushes. her actions are innocent n cute. she even decreases ur money so u won't be spending a lot, awww. talk to her , ask her abt school , what she wants to be when she grows up , her family , etc . be friendly but professional , lol. here's ur chance to make something good out of this : u can be like a big brother or a mentor . she's obviously too intimidated to talk to you n you aren't smart enuff to know that she just has a crush on u and isn't trying to disturb u or make u feel uncomfortable in any way ! u only see her when u get water anyway . ur short encounter will be less awkward if u break the ice and talk to her. if u can't be bothered then just ignore her but there's no reason to be rude or mean to her

martyns303:
Am typing this from my mobile phone and I am in a hurry as I have a bucket of water I need to go get, am hoping to get a reasonable objective soon.

Due to whatever reason, we had not had power supply for over a week now and our water tank has run out of water, fuel is also too expensive in my area to use the generator as I will have to turn off everything to make sure only the borehole gets electricity.

With no option at hand I had to take jerrycan and buckets to the next building where water is being sold, on getting there I found this 16-17yrs old girl as the attendant, I noticed she kept looking at me awkwardly, after filling my buckets she refused taking money from me, I insisted as I would need to fetch a lot of water. Unknown to me she has been subsidizing the amount I spend, meaning if I had fetched N100 worth she only takes N50.

Now each time I go there, she keeps looking directly into my eyes, smiling unnecessarily, and it is making me feel uncomfortable.

I don't know if I should be angry or feel sorry for her, I can't possibly go inside and report her to her parents, I have been looking for a way to caution her but each time I go to get water there are also other people there and I don't want to be unreasonably rude.

This is sexual harrassment














You lucky son of a gun

Op I think you have a dirty mind

She smiles at you and give you discount price and so?

She does all that just to show you that she feels your pain because am sure you are not the type that goes out to fetch water from the street but because of the present situation in the country

Someone's first love is here complaining. Don't know why guys don't love girls that love them.








Nobody should come after me..


Ignore the young girl, she is probably awestruck by you and maybe infatuated to what she saw.

Draw her closer, turn her buttock to you and give her two slap.

Then tell her fiercely

I have 12 inch dick and am sure you can't survive a round.
Oya go find your mate.

Tank me later

so u are seeking our permission whether to go ahead or not? God is watching u in 3D.



FLEE, i say FLEE b4 u go JAIL.

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She wants to ride your dick [/size]

Guy Bleep the hell out of her tight pussy. I love sweet sixteen had it been it is me

I hav something to say b4 but Those above as already space booked so thunder fire them upstares

When next u meet her nd she gazes @ u. Beat ur chest like d 3 indian fools and say.......

All iz well