Burningstar:


Because you see it as a joke doesn't make it a joke.

elijah2u:
hate? wicked advice b dat na if she should hate him and replace everything about him with hate, don't you think she might as well developed hatred for every other guy that comes Her way?

Burningstar:


I'm an introvert so your point 2 is somewhat not that easy as for 4 there only one source of communication and its in my head even when I don't.want to send a message, after a long while I just do it.

Burningstar:


Why do you guys like taking everything for a joke?

Burningstar:
Well it turned out that I fell totally in love with the wrong person and though he claims to love me more but for reason best known to him we can't date and the distance between us (continents apart) which I don't even care about. The problem now is we hardly communicate, we used to but he just stopped when he found out I fell for him and its been month but still I can't purge him out of my system, trying to has been the most difficult job I've ever done.


Please I need ideas on how to forget about him before something else happens

missbehave247:
Is He your first love?

Obinovictor:


It's not that easy to get rid of someone you love dearly. If he does not feel same for you, the both of you are probably not meant to be. Just give it time, you'll meet a better person. Do not get angry at him nor hate him. Remember this...nobody is worth your happiness, always be happy no matter what.

Burningstar:


No his not, I've never had any problem forgetting anyone like this.

missbehave247:
Then I guess he must have shown u love beyond ur imagination eg buying you expensive items. That is still in ur prosession and each time ur wear them u think of him. It onces happen to during my uni ᵈays, one rich dude just came from nowhere and snatch my bbe levish over 1.4million in 2months on her before travelling out, guess what she came begging after that buh I did the needful. Which refer her to Missclasssy number1 advice

MzNelly:
You could err....fry your brains, for a start.

Burningstar:


Nope not a dine and I don't even need anything from him and surprisingly we've not even met

W3irDo:

Jelosi

missbehave247:
Sorry to say, you need JESUS

MzNelly:

Burningstar:


I have Jesus


Honestly speaking , this is the strangest thing that has ever happened to me, that's the reason why I had to come here, anyone I tell either feels I'm joking or just being ridiculous

rogerdat:

Eyaaa
Let me help you ease your pain

rogerdat:

Eyaaa
Let me help you ease your pain

W3irDo:

Wayayu looken at me? How kud yu advise yur fellow gal 2 fry her brain?

Burningstar:



How?

rogerdat:

You need to book a therapy section with me. pm things

Burningstar:


Seriously?


Can't it be done here?

Burningstar:


I have Jesus


Honestly speaking , this is the strangest thing that has ever happened to me, that's the reason why I had to come here, anyone I tell either feels I'm joking or just being ridiculous

rogerdat:

Yes, I am serious..
No it can't.. It's a continuous process.

Burningstar:


Thanks .

1. I've tried it except the sex part but it didn't work , Had to end it just after two weeks even though the guy tried everything to make it work.

2. That's going to be a very long process because I don't think I can ever hate him.

Burningstar:


That's really serious .

missbehave247:
Imagine that u are my sister now, and I told you that "am in love with somebody I have never met" won't u say that am possess. Have u every dated any guy apart from online dating? If yes what ur experience like?

Daseed4:
Hmmm. So, we can find women that truly love their men? This comment shows you truly love him. The problem we hav is that you women don't reveal your longing for us while we are dying to have you.

Burningstar:


This is the very first time I'm considering online dating and its even something I frown at and used to consider as fake.


My first relationship was with my best friend then, I just said yes to him not to let him down and along the line we got really fond of each other , our relationship slacked when I got admission and he didn't and after few months he confessed he cheated and that was it.

missdebs:
massive success is always the best revenge