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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by proxillin(m): 4:33pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Read your story. I felt sorry for you. Just be strong and take life as vanity. Are u sure you have not dated a married man? Cuz that thing is like a curse. It will come back hunt you. You see many house wifes crying public about how their husbands cheated with girls outside. They suddenly become saints when they marry and all men become dogs. They will forget about their past. As for me. I will cheat my woman cuz I know 99% of them date married men. All single ladies in my company date oga at the top/married men. I will do it. Let the cycle continue. Except she is a virgin sha. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by oluwafemi113(m): 4:33pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Aminat508(f): 4:33pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Sorry dear don't kill yourself o. Chai okunrin!! I fear una! |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by asids55: 4:34pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
SexyCeline: and women too...AMEN! ! |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by sladimeji(m): 4:36pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Always pray about it n tell him about it too....n u should try to entice him sexually..know wat he likes ... possess ur possession |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by tonychristopher: 4:37pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
I JUST CANT IMAGINE WOMEN SAY YOUR HUSBAND SINE ANOTHER KONGO U WAN KILL URSELF INSTEAD OF ASKING YOURSELF HOW COME YOU ALLOWED HIM DO IT YOU CAN COMIT SUICIDE BUT PLS DONT KILL YOURSELF |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by mekstaniac(m): 4:37pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Confront him abt it. Don't raise ur voice....try to be reasonable with him. Cry for him and beg him to change for you and ur kids. I'm sure the Lord will change him for you. Never stop praying for him 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Jaydeebaba(m): 4:37pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade: I disagree with you as the op only want to overcome her emotional trauma. Getting back at him the way you suggested, to me, is not the best way to achieve that. Obviously, you are not married yet, so you equate boyfriends and husbands. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by goshen26: 4:37pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Dear Sis, calm down. Killing itself is never a solution, but a pure way to hell, and the opportunity for ur hubby. Try to c God fearing counsellor to share ur prob with, let it be a woman who is child of God. See her often, before u know it u will get over it. Shalom |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by jeje123(m): 4:37pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade:what an advice? |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade: You mean she should also cheat? Are you sane? 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Anyi3(m): 4:37pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
kweenkong: Really? Reasons for cheating OP I commiserate with you. Suicide is definitely not the way. Cry, be depressed, get fat but not suicide. First go for a vacation maybe two weeks and just be on your own. You'd know what's best after that. Keep your family out of it for now, they will certainly escalate the issues. After the vacation, trust me you'd know who and how to involve your family and other steps. 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Rounakid(m): 4:37pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Then qo on dear...
Am sure d devil will qive u resoundinq... Slap... Wen u reached hell... 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Stories like this makes one to wonder WTF Seriously OP, Most men will cheat if they have the opportunity. Especially if they got a comfortable lifestyle going for them. As for the pain, well it will pass, it always does. One thing u must know is that, this experience will change you forever. How it does is up to you. A cheating man/woman is not a reward for anything done in the past. It is just a function of the selfish human nature. Cheating on him will not solve the problem, it will only justify why he cheated. You have a legal and biblical ground to divorce him, and if you can brace up to the challenges then leave him, but make sure it's your decision to leave not because your family wants you to. If you decide to stay, then you must also decide to forgive him whole heartedly, and keep loving him, otherwise from here forward that home will not know peace. So my candid opinion is FORGIVE him or LEAVE him. I know they are both difficult choices but welcome to REALITY. 10 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by kay29000(m): 4:38pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
I typed someting before I read the whole text, and someone already quoted me before I went around to change it. What I have to say is that, girls should stop nosing around their husband's phones, it always reveals what they can't handle. The bitter truth is, it is very hard for a man to stay faithful all through his married life...but most times, it is just for sexual satisfaction, nothing more...And it is sometimes just a phase that passes. To you OP, just take it easy. Occupy yourself with romance movies with happy endings, and just try and convince yourself that everything is okay. It will be hard at first, but it will get better. Trust me, it will get better. 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by MaziOmenuko: 4:38pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Divert all that negative energy into something worthwhile: starting work will be a very good place to start. Abstain from sex right now and get tested 4 months later to be sure you're free from any STI. Stop acting like a spoon-fed baby! Brace up and face the hard facts of life; its never rosy, anywhere. Protect yourself, be alive for your children, they should be the only thing keeping you going for now. YOU NEED TO BE STRONG FOR THEM! 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by hos4x(m): 4:38pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade:Stupidity at its peak |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Commit sucide he will re marry, you think he will mourn for you or he will feel guilty, that's wishful thinking oh! live your life 3 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by ayusco85(m): 4:40pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
nickibarb: Ur husband is an End time husband. 10 girls? And he is not sure if he used condom all the times The thunder that will fire that ur husband eh, is in Sango's shrine receiving tutorials 8 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by MaziOmenuko: 4:40pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
kay29000: You're the one going around nairaland advertising drugs for penn!s enlargement and prolonged sex baa? No wonder, are all your clients cheating husbands? Your comment is pathetic, VERY PATHETIC! 4 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by pretty050(f): 4:40pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Op you need to talk to someone / family, especially your mum. Don't suffer in silence all depressed. Talk to your mum because your are not stable right now to take any decision. You need to Consider your children and those that love you next time before hurting yourself. I hope things get better no one is indispensable 4 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by solreb: 4:40pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
bellong:I am sorry for your pain and travail. Pls do not commit suisuicide. Are you a Christian? If yes, pls see your pastor (with your husband if possible) for a counselling session. You will be surprised how God will heal your wound. First step though is to forgive your husband and continue to be the good wife and mother that you are. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Ayietim(m): 4:40pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
I wish I could play a musical instrument, I would have made you some jazzy tunes, I wish I knew words that could move you to love me more, I would have made you the best rythmn and blue, I wish I was a poet who could write words Angels can only imagine, I would have written words with wings to fly you to the land of your fantasy: i am not a singer but with your powerful voice, we can do a timeless duet, I don't need musical instruments, your laughter is all it takes to make my day, and why should I be poet, when with simple words I can tell you the truth, the whole truth, that with you, life is paradise on earth. http://ayietim. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Setaje(f): 4:40pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
proxillin: I no of virgins who their husband's are chronic cheats and the ones that cannot give birth. What sin are they paying for? The grace of God is sufficient for everybody. That grace is what makes a prostitute marry a pastor. We all have different level of grace. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Ephemmm: 4:40pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
SexyCeline: and irresponsible women too cos those irresponsible men cannot necessarily be gay. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Jaydeebaba(m): 4:41pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
[s][/s] tonychristopher: F9 for you if you are in secondary school, F for you if you are in higher institution and below average rating for you in other categories. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Zedomi(m): 4:41pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
i will advice you to be calm, take a deep breath and ask God for direction, Mean while, keep praying for him. Marriage is for better for worst. No man is perfect. Keep loving him for the sake of your kids so they wont sence the problem going on. He will realise and change. In as much as you try changing him with all the action and reaction, no one can change human only God can change and touch ones mind and heart for a better change within a seconds. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Lexusgs430: 4:41pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Suicide is not an option. You need to have a 1-2-1 with your husband, have yourself checked out medically and after the heart 2 heart, you would know the direction and where his heart stays. Goodluck and remain sane. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by solreb: 4:41pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
I am sorry for your pain and travail. Pls do not commit suisuicide. Are you a Christian? If yes, pls see your pastor (with your husband if possible) for a counselling session. You will be surprised how God will heal your wound. First step though is to forgive your husband and continue to be the good wife and mother that you are. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by anonimi: 4:41pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Before I even opened this thread, I checked your profile and saw your other thread: https://www.nairaland.com/2309230/ive-been-combing-consciencewas-wrong The signs were there. All the best. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Ligxy(f): 4:42pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
I guess you except him to be exactly what you are to him. But unfortunately dear, not all men are like that. Train yourself not to expect too much from any man. Know that all those fantasies happens only in your head, but in real life, nothing is ever that sweet or rosy. Comfort yourself with the fact that he's even making an effort to deceive you, some don't, especially after two kids. And forgive him everyday because of cos, he's a complete i.diot! 2 Likes |
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