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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by 9jatatafo(m): 4:42pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Don't consider suicide at all. If I were you I will try act as if I am cheating on him too and see his reaction. You can chat with a guy in a flirting way but in reality don't cheat. Just to find out how your husband will swallow the pill of cheating. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by MrBasketball: 4:42pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade:You don't have any single sense. 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by MaziOmenuko: 4:43pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: C'mon SAM, what's up with you? Why so mean? |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by cnwokike(m): 4:43pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Please dont do what you will regret. The only way you can show him that you are superior, is to show him more love and act as if this never happen. he will be forced to have a rethink. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by proxillin(m): 4:43pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Setaje: Yes prostitute and runs girl had it in mind that they will get that grace of God. Thats what encourages them to fck about. Thats God's grace. I dont have that grace. I will fck too. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by dalaman: 4:43pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
is there any middle class man that doesn't cheat on his wife in this world? I think women should always accept the reality that men will always cheat at one time or the other during the course of the marriage. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by rottenegg: 4:44pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Kill yourself! Next..... 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by DICKtator: 4:44pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Been going through her post and I don't know what to say!!! She kept vouching for and defending her man ,she didn't know that a friend to a politician can never be clean, not to now talk of a relation!!! I want to laugh but I don't just know I guess some men are Wike!!! |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Larryjay4u: 4:44pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
I actually feel for you. Men sometimes find it difficult to explain why they engage in extramarital affairs even when they have a gorgeous wife like yourself. May God help all the men (myself included). I believe you will benefit greatly from checking out the link below and check out the topics that will be of help; http://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/family/couples-parents/ nickibarb: |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by tonychristopher: 4:45pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
lol i think u did not get the sarcasm or joke about that ... she can commit suicide but she is not allowed to kill herself lol its like saying you can abort the child but dont commit infanticide Jaydeebaba: |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:45pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chokolee12:God will punish u |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade:OP, YOU SEE THIS ANIMAL I QUOTE? YES THIS ANIMAL NAME CHOWLADE, FOLLOW HER FOOTSTEP AND DIE LIKE AN ANIMAL WHILE THIS ANIMAL(CHOWLADE) MAYBE ONE OF THE PERSON YOUR HUSBAND FVCK, IF YOU DIE, THIS ANIMAL(CHOWLADE) GO TAKE OVER YOUR POSITION. COS THIS ANIMAL(CHOWLADE) DEY LOOK FOR HUSBAND. 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Dewze(m): 4:46pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
The day the modern woman will start understanding men for what they are is the day they will stop worrying about cheating husbands/boyfriends. The problem with you op is that you are idle, get something doing as soon as possible (trade if you must) and you will start worrying less about your husband. He sees to much you and so is probably bored with you already. Most men are naturally adventurous and no amount of loving and good wifeing will change that in them. Understand your man and deal with him as such. Ignore such articles and advice that says "10 ways to know a good husband", they destroy relationships more than they keep them. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by ichidodo: 4:46pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
[b] Men are polygamous by nature and it will only take the Grace of God for this primal urgency to be curbed...why? Because we like a reward system where we indulge our fantasies or enjoyable vices after gruelling phasal episodes,when we were kids it was about stuffs like food,snacks,video games,material things etc.Now as adults,sh**t got serious like hard drugs,alcohol,women or just sheer love for the good life....Some do get used to it,others may change but unfortunately your husband is addicted to his version of the good life which unfortunately you have become an insignificant part of.....The best you can do right now is to "dry out" become hardened,surround yourself with friends, if possible you can also get your groove back with male acquaintances to substitute your husband's lack of attention.That's how it is.......You live your life through your kids now because right now you have become a kept woman....A trophy wife......... The background feature of your husband fantasies which we may is every 'uninhibited' man's fantasies us included.Show us a man who doesn't like a trophy wife or two and a bevy of mistresses, we will show u an effeminate castrated wimp.[/b] 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by SAMBARRY: 4:47pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
MaziOmenuko:I hate hearing stories of abokokus.its as if when these abokokus marry they leave their brains in their fathers house. Doesn't she have brain to think or does the beating turn her on 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by kay29000(m): 4:47pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
MaziOmenuko: And you are the jobless guy that is always on NAIRALAND. Please, get a life. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by onadana: 4:47pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade:[color=#006600][/color] You are so irresponsible....you should be ashamed of yourself |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Seawhy(m): 4:47pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
My dear, there is nothing impossible in the sight of the almighty God. Hand your all to him, trust in him and solutions will come. Killing your self is never the best option, what will you tell God when you get to heaven. Pray for your husband to change and surely God will intervene. I wish you the best. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Marchman: 4:47pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
What's the big deal that he cheated? All men cheat. Take your eyes off his phone and you will be fine! |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by gbengus17: 4:48pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
I DONT LISTEN TO ONE SIDE OF A STORY. UR HUSBAND WILL HAVE HIS OWN STORY AND REASONS, BUT IF YOU WANT TO KILL YOURSELF, PLS GO AHEAD. NIGERIA HAS A POPULATION OF OVER 120M PEOPLE. NO BODY WILL EVEN KNOW YOU ARE IN YOUR GRAVE. 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by MrBasketball: 4:49pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Aminat508:Women are feared most. 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
nickibarb: Eyah! I sympathize with you. Its difficult to accept but the deed is done. I would have recommended one book 4 you but i forgot the name of the author. Its titled how to let go of deep hurt. You can look for books online and read them with an open heart. Be ready to forgive. Marriage is for better for worse. Your marriage is doing far far better than some people's. Just b strong for your kids. They deserve a mother's love. Everybody does. I'm glad u're still alive. I pray God gives u d strength u need to overcome this one. Happy married life 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by ikombe: 4:50pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade:
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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
From your story it seems that your husband is a politician which brings me to ask this,"Why did you marry a politician? Don't you know that they are notorious womanizers. Learn to leave with them committing suicide is not the best option please |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Prettydiamond(f): 4:50pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Its a pity;touching story... Pls dnt die o, sucide itself is a sin just pray that he changes o nne. Its well. As fragile as I am,may I never experience such,AMEN! |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Abduletudaye(m): 4:50pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Oh Sowie dearie... ...i know you have a deep cut now...but commiting suicide isnt the answer because you will only cause more agony. Why not try to look at the brighter side of life ...think of those things that make you happy..be alive for their sake....and as for you husband, well...he was wrong.. For the fact that you gave him your all..infact, he is a bad man. ... But please, am begging, do not over hurt yourself. ... Leave the house, go see a comedy show...goto instagram...check out some funny videos..when you laugh, you will realise that being happy is way better than being sad. .... If your husband asks for forgiveness, please forgive him(but do shakara first ) not because he needs forgiveness but because you need peace of mind... Please dear...be safe...dont hurt yourself...regards to the kids.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by jieta: 4:50pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade:and what will she gain if she do it back to him, that is why u are not married at this ur age |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by SAMBARRY: 4:50pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
At the expense of your family and future. It's alright. Jim Cryer in the movie haves and haves not is an example, David's son that r@ped his sister is another example, samson to and so on and so forth that I'm beginning to think whether the dheek is more powerful than the brain ichidodo: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
elohorayodele: Ahn ahn...this his not a jolkin stuvs |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by milvet(f): 4:51pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Dearie dont try that again if not for anytin for d sake of ur kids..imo what u need 2 do is take some time(like 2weeks) off from ur husband, let ur kids stay wit ur parents or whoeva..go 2 a place where u can concentrate, meditate n pray for God's guidance thru out ur stay there¤ go back 2ur hubby, visit a hospital together wit ur hubby of course n check una selves of every yama yama¤get a job asap..em. u no d rest¤ i no get strent again 2type.. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by MaziOmenuko: 4:52pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
kay29000: I don't sell viagra, I have a life. Can you repeat the statement above^^ for yourself? |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Lilimax(f): 4:52pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
@ OP, suicide is not the best option. I can only give you a suggestion which may not make sense but it works Just employ the battle of the knees and you'll see wonders in your marriage. It does wonders in marriage! |
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