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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Neplusultra(f): 5:04pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by seggzz(m): 5:05pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
@op, (1) Overcome the loneliness; you can practice a new act, make new many friends, join an internship programs and others. just make yourself busy to occupy your distress mind. (2) Mediation: meet any of his parents or mediation center to complain this to them. You can also ask him ways to provide solution to his problem directly or indirectly. Finally, I will advice that you put away your mind from him and face your children squarely. Just count him as one that needs help and pray for him. He maybe facing spiritual attacks since you observed he just develop this act recently. **** Avoid suicidal sin*** |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by smoothpapuzy(m): 5:05pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
My dear Such men don't change. If you want to dictate to him, he will turn cold towards you. All you need to do has a wise woman is to keep quiet, get a job, find every available means to connect to the society. Find every possible opportunity to collect your own share before he spends all he has on the girls. Pretend to love him very very well. Startup a company if possible and use his connection to make the company grow.become wealthy has your children grow. While you are doing all these things, you will eventually know what to do. Think like a Fulani man. Don't strike until you are well equipped. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by SAMBARRY: 5:05pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Eran iya Mrs scapegoat siddon dey look and pray and fast one day he will change from Mike tyson to the meek Jason durelo number 2 option take his picture to babalawo let them do love portion for you like your mate I saw here sometime ago who the babalawo said she should put faeces mixture inside food for him to chop here on nl option 3 let the babalawo do jazz that will make him become suegbe or dense Yeye dey boom. Na me be ajepako. So your parental background determines how thick or light your skin is MaziOmenuko: |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by ishiamu(m): 5:05pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Prettydiamond: U win |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by reboski: 5:05pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
nickibarb: Suicide is not an option my sister; I share in your pain but my sincere advice for you at this time is to take your eyes off this situation and look unto Jesus.He will not only heal you from this pain ,he will also restore your joy and peace of mind. Take time to listen to message and music that lift the soul. You will come out strong. |
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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by akankemi1(f): 5:05pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
I feel ur pain...buh suicide isn't jus an option. I wish I cud giv u a word of advise dat you wud find soothing. the bitter truth is ur hubby won't change, he wud only become smarter and he won't get caught next time. you either Choose to LEAVE or STAY. consider your children when u make dat decision |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by abbey621(m): 5:06pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
You've only been married for how long? 6 months or 2.6 years? You want to kill yourself because your spouse cheated on you? Let me tell you what will happen, after your death, he'll shed a few tears and marry another babe within 6 months to a year, they'll live happily ever after. The truth is bitter but you must hear it! You married a flirt and since you can't go back and fix that, the only option is for you to decide whether to move on with him or without him. I get tired of people claiming they have unconditional love for their partner but aren't willing to go through trials and challenges. The fact remains most marriages are tested mostly within the first couple of years, it's like the whole world is against the union but if both individuals involved are strong not only physically but emotionally and spiritually then maybe just maybe they might overcome those challenges! No one knows your spouse more than you, you know his good side now God has given you the opportunity to know his bad/ugly side, what you do next is completely up to you! 2 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade:... you are so in for it, today |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
"...was available to satisfy his sexual needs 24/7..." Almost nothing irks me more than women feeling having sex with their husbands is doing him a favor. It is mutual for goodness sake! |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by SAMBARRY: 5:07pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
ichidodo:enlighten me. Ok I see ichidodo that's your name no wonder your dodo is itching you abi? |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Acidosis(m): 5:08pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Op, are you a Christian? What were you doing at home on a Sunday morning? Did you marry a drunkard? All alcoholics cheat. Do you have a pastor? What's the role of your husband in the church? |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by bornmekus: 5:08pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
The best way to handle this situation is by removing ur mind it.stop thinking about the issue.Learn n make reading a culture.B highly involve in religious activities. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by nickyvil: 5:09pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Sorry for going all through this, If i said is not hurting and heartbreaking then I must be a joker. I understand you perfectly but honestly the truths hurt sometimes, but i don't have a choice than to tell you. Most of the men in this world cheat and still most don't know why or how;.. I bet you that man you have is a good man and He really loves you so so much but It's not easy for a man moving out with influential personal and not cheat, the most important things is that you have his love and heart, He cared for you so much and take good care of you. I read about your other post, For him to said He can take care of your kids while your away shows the love he had for his family. A hard rock cheating husband will want you to go give your kids to his mom or yours so that he can have all the time he wanted to cheat on you. Remember, He came in time to save you, It shows both of you have some bonds that bind you together. As a woman, I love the way you you think and reason but no matter the solution you seek for, we can only give you advice at long run you will be the one to decide, and any decision you make will either affect you positively or negatively but if i were you, I will just go inside my room cry out all the pains this cost me so i could be relief of the heartbreak then you will be able to forgive him and moved on in life with him cos your kids really need both of you together as team to give them the proper care and training they need to succeed in this life. Note: Always put this at the back of your mind,... We are not made perfect so we shouldn't be deceived that we can have perfect life or marriage, we have our trials, ups and down, your in yours now and what you both need is to work as team towards perfection to make your marriage work. be a fighter not a looser this man loves you, talk to him about this, let him know how much he hurts you, let him know you forgiven him, ask him if he's happy when he sees you hurting or heartbroken and tell him how much you love him and willing He could change. May God help you and your family to succeed this trying times and just try to over looked things if you can do this All will be well for you. Cheers 3 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by prizelezz11(m): 5:10pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
It is a natural normal phenomena for all nigerian men my dear. U are lucky he still cares 4 u Prayer is ur only key now sweetheart Forget all dose adv telling u to revenge Else u will b called a prostitute adulterer And d sweet names u will hear him answering are Play boy etc 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by MaziOmenuko: 5:11pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
kay29000: You are selling viagra that forces blood down to the d1cck by increasing rapidly the heart function so more blood is squeezed through dilated arteries...in other words, you are the cause of 21% of High Blood Pressure resulting in stroke. No dear, you don't solve problems in marriages, you turn women to widows. And no, I'm enlightened and know how to keep my cyylinders firing even at old age...i would never need your viagra. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Joy1706(f): 5:12pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Gguy4real:My friend shut up. You sound like someone who was born without brains. What's that trash you typed? Don't worry eh, your wife will cheat on you and I'm sure as long as she doesn't bring them home you'll not mind ba? Note: women get tempted too 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by SAMBARRY: 5:12pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chimkaire:then what do they call people that behave like her. Shey because Mr I cannot keep it in my boxers never dash am syphilis. Ok o . They said you should sidan there and be hoping he changes. I've kuku given you numerous options so choose the one that's beneficial to you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by ichidodo: 5:12pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Like we said,you have nooo idea. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Dbrainiac1(m): 5:12pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Wat da sh! t are u waiting for? kill am na |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
kay29000: I don't feel its ok for a woman to just sit back and drink cofee while her husband is riding horse in bar beach....truth be told, a woman need not be insecure if her husband can give her assurance, by not been secretive and overly flirty and stuff like that... The fact that a man or many men cheat over the course of their married life doesn't make it right even its just for the cause of sexual satisfaction.. I believe its right for a woman to confront her husband if she feels he hasn't Been totally truthful with her But then , I must admit like you said she should just focus on healing now I can't even come close to imagining what she's going through. But I know painful doesn't describe it at all 2 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by rhymaholic: 5:14pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Take things easy. This things do happen. Human wants are insatiable. Call your husband, have a heart to heart talk with him. Learn to trust him again, it'd be hard but you just have to try at least for what you both share. You'd fine. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by adconline(m): 5:14pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
5minsmadness:I spotted his job as a politrickian.. Asking if a politician is going cheat is like asking if he's going to spill blood to win. He's already having meeting with a newly elected governor-maybe to arrange girls?? 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by LaRoyalHighness(f): 5:17pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Most of them cheat and expects the woman to take it... If your ex calls now, they start fuming. Breath @op! 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by DeeMain(m): 5:17pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Your post reeks of an ugly kind of meanness and callousness! The OP's emotional state may be too fragile for this kind of dart. Check yourself young lady too. 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by SAMBARRY: 5:18pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
E no dey hard to know the women that have been highly battered and mentally abused by their husbands that they don't know what is normal again. You go fear consolation advice "you're lucky he still cares for you" Tufiaaaaaaaaakwa KanwuliaJara come and see the normal every day stories again o prizelezz11: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by nwakaibeya1: 5:19pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
the challenge you have in your marriage is a serious spiritual problem promoted by evil marine spirits and this could be a problem caused by you unknowingly to you and this also could be a problem from your husband directly unknowingly to him and caused by him because many humanbeigns belong to this hidden nations and do not know and they are the people contending with Jesus christ and promoting evil in marriages and divorce and family evil wickedness and evil bondages in humanbeings and failures in businesses except you belong to their evil kingdom and know your way of appeal then you can escape and this are usually done in the night and thats why we call them night people,chameleons .now let us explain to you what this means :so many people are married to spiritual wives and husbands and the spiritual wife in the case of the husband is very jealous and will not give peace to the marriage of that husband in the physical world because she doesnt want to share her husband with a physical wife even though the man has children in the physical world and vice versa and same as the woman who has a spiritual husband but because those involved are usually blindfolded in the spirit they will never know or understand except in very rare cases and so many of these people mostly are in various churches and claiming to be born again and the pastors with them have no power to deal with the evil powers and hence they will be preaching and telling them God hates divorce when the woman is dead in silence and cannot be saved from this evil powers who are more powerful than the pastors and prophets who only appeal to those involved in some cases for relief creating the impression that there is no solution and they remain under heavy evil spiritual bondage and they cannot sleep at night nor have the commonest thing that real Jesuschrist promised to give to those who come to him which is peace and that's why they have no choice but to always dwell on prosperity and cage them with fasting and night vigil with so many message, sermons, topics that mean the same thing and interpretation spiritually but for how long will this deceit continue while they use the name of Jesuschrist to make merchandise of their bellies ? but behold we have the solution to deal silence finally the evil bondage with the light ,the mantle,the power that be which is available to us but highly unbelievable to humans of the world because we told them kingdom of God of justice has come and they will never believe because many humanbeings are bound to loss even the woman in question here will not agree to the solution if it is offered to her because so many humanbeigns are not market but watchout judgement has come upon the earth to expose and disgrace them finally and turn their honours to disgrace just now watch out if you don't see it physically you will see it spiritually but all will take place mainly spiritually because God is a spirit.Romans 11,21-22, Jeremiah 5.21,22, Mathew 13.13-14 dont forget ?those who are not bornagain are also in this and moslems and secular as well so do not be decieved you human beigns 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by VANENON(f): 5:20pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
So sorry for your pain. It will be well, you will look back and actually wonder what was wrong with you. There nothing so important in life thats worth your life. There is nothing you cant get past. Its only a matter of time. Look to God the only one who never fails nor disappoints you. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:...please I don't want laff anymore.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Prettydiamond:Ah!!...i'm God fearing ooooo!! |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by andyanders: 5:22pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Op, very sad you are experiencing this act and having the feeling of taking your life. Listen my sister, nothing beneath this entire earth that is new. Note also that there is no two perfect people on the face of this entire world. Having said that, your husband's weakness is what you have experienced/discovered now which is the other side of him which you do not know. Since he is involved in politics or politicians, you have to understand that even if he does not want it, those into the profession, are all involved in this act. Note that you cannot deal with this alone and yes, counselling could help but I will tell you, in a marriage like this, ONLY GOD can help you solve this. Cry to him for He has the answer to this problem. Many women are facing similar problems and even worse problems you can imagine. Note also that between two of you, you will die separately and as such killing yourself translates that you are a very weak person and cannot face life. If this man dies, life must go on and if you kill yourself, he would end up getting another woman and continue with his life style. Devil has crawled into your home and you should try to hold on to God. Do not fight him.Since he has accepted for you guys to go for medical check up, follow him and do that and too, you should repeat the check up till the end of this yr in order to know your status. Please, DO NOT COMMIT suicide as you will end up achieving nothing, rather killing yourself for nothing. And for this, try to note that you can only trust yourself and your God and not any man. |
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