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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
So sorry for your experience but what can I say. We men don't know why we cheat, I've asked myself so many times why do we cheat and am yet to get that answer. Love can't stop us from cheating. Please if you know why men cheat, do tell me. @op, instead of killing yourself, please leave him. Your death will cause problems for your kids. So suicide is not an option, divorce is if you can't forgive him. But if you ask me, I would advise you forgive and let go, take solace in God, remain the good girl you are. And as for the ladies of generation, they don't even care if you are married, as far as you give them small cash, they open leg for you. Is that bad. Alright, having read through the OP's last topic, I could only reach one conclusion. DIVORCE HIM. He gat no respect for your mom in other words, he gat no respect for you and he is fukin cheating. DIVORCE HIM. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by freecocoa(f): 6:44pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
lovat:Reply to what? |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Cyriloha(m): 6:45pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade:come you de church at all ? |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Lightening: 6:45pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
This is the same lady that.posted this link about same husband.on May 12. https://www.nairaland.com/2309230/ive-been-combing-consciencewas-wrong Peruse through peoples comments. Indeed, the OP has a very low self esteem and is living for the unappreciating husband. If you do not work on yourself, you will continue to come here monthly to report your husband. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nicepoker(m): 6:46pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade:but u know ur advice can drive her crazy |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 6:46pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Prettydiamond: See ehn, baby, if u gree for me, I will neva cheat on you, infact anything that will make me look at another woman ehn, let thunder strike my eyes...ahn ahn, biko nu My nickname in school was mr faithful...and my middle name is steadfast |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by lovat(m): 6:46pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
freecocoa:my pm |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
iPopAlomo: husband is 13 years older than me. sorry if not disclosing that makes it look like i'm hiding something. i was 22 when we met and he was 35. Thanks everyone for your input so far. i'm feeling better already. looks like talking to strangers as a form of therapy really works. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
cc: mizmycoli |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by iPopAlomo(m): 6:48pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
fellis: Are you finished...? Are you done...? If I ended up with you... I would cheat... very well... 2 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by tyosty: 6:49pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Op "A man who will cheatwill cheat" Kindly accept this nd learn to live with it. You have tried .Keep on, don't give up on ur marriage. Ur husband will adjust over time. Many older women have gone thru ur experience but patience nd perseverance preserved them Ur husband, from his reaction, apparently loves you. Young men in his status(brother to a guvnor) are prone to such excesses only ur commitment nd doggedness to the success of ur marriage will bring this phase to pass. Pls do these: 1)Pray, Pray nd pray for him to come back home, for him to appreciate nd feel ur current pains and for grace to forgive him. 2)Genuinely forgive him from your heart. This is the only way to heal the pains that are ravaging your life. Verbalise your forgiveness by fondly calling him by name and affirming to yourself that "I forgive you" Hard as it is think kindly of him |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by linnyx: 6:49pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
netizenbuzz: I didn't write "stay" but "live" like - dont commit suicide. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Prettydiamond(f): 6:52pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
oseod:lolz. Smh |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 6:52pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
oseod:that's d point! the man d cause of d problem, must be acted upon on firstly then the woman will be totally fine. if not then d woman might commit suicide she's contemplating. Thanks u r assiduously diligent fella. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by iPopAlomo(m): 6:54pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
nickibarb: Don't talk to me ooO... lmao... I'm a chronic cheat too... |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
fellis: U're right but u're blowing too much steam nau We all know that there's no excuse like 'naturally polygamous' Adultery is adultery But what I advice ppl that can't stay with one woman is to change to a religion that allows for polygamy, that way you can't marry as many wives without contradicting your doctrine |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
netizenbuzz: Which kain stay for the children? What nonsense. Will staying for children save her from having STDs? Even the children she is staying for, who will stay to take care of them if she god forbid dies from a deadly disease gotten from her philandering husband? Stay for children my foot. Useless men everywhere that want to eat their cake and have it. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by DUNKA(m): 6:54pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Lady who told u 2 check his phone? Trouble sleep yanga go wake am na wetin hin dey find? |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by whoisuche: 6:55pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Read the bible and get courage from there. Committing suicide will be worse to you. God says no man/woman should take a life that he/she cannot replace. God is your strength. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by uppa(m): 6:57pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade:are you for real?.....she sleeping wit anoda man wont solve a thing...it will rather destroy her the more |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 6:59pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
fellis: 1 Like
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Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by uppa(m): 7:00pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
elantraceey:I respect your judgement, dis is a real woman talking not like some girls like chowlade |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by iPopAlomo(m): 7:01pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
gboss4sure: What sort of fucking question is this...?! You've a d!ck that's working... why won't you use it...? Cut it off and see if you would still cheat... Some really dumb question you're asking yourself... and I've just answered it... smh... @OP... don't go to jail ooO... is not fun in there... make you no go comot Oga blokos... |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 7:03pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
nickibarb: This was one of my posts at the other thread where this same man who doesn't allow your kids near your mom,pushed you and you hurt your head babyosisi: That same advise holds true here You need to wake up You have sold your soul in this marriage No wonder you can't tell your family,you chose your husband and this marriage over them so much so that a man forbids your children from staying with your own mother and you accepted it. You have made your bed Go on worshiping this man and bowing before his mom When you end up with HIV it will be a good payment u got for your faithfulness Lay on that bed Let him buy you some more Italian clothes to soothe your pain as usual 2 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
iPopAlomo: Nigga, what you say? Why do men cheat is a dump question? Having a blokos is not the license to cheat. If it is, then ladies are also right to cheat because they got a fuckin pussy 2 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Toks2008(m): 7:09pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade: How old are you? Are you married? No insults intended buy you must be a teenager to spit this poo as an advice on a social media. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by ishiamu(m): 7:12pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Prettydiamond: Oloshi. I go shoot u |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Lightening: Thanks for this reminder I knew I had seen her moniker somewhere but couldn't pinpoint what it was Everyone on this thread ought to read that thread first to understand the situation at this household I am surprised people like dinachi that told her she she had a perfect marriage is not hear to help 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Once upon a time, there was a married man,kind,loving and generous to his kids. But he was a chronic cheat. Then suddenly, he contracted Aids and passed on hiv to his wife. He is dead now leaving his kids fatherless and his underweight widow battling for her life. The same people who told her to pray and look the other way now avoid her like a plague. This is a true life story. I'm not trying to scare you. I'm just trying to let you know that your life and happiness does not revolve around your husband. Be healthy, be happy,get a job and face your kids. If countless,peaceful confrontation does not change your greedy husband that you no longer can tolerate, Then take a bow and leave that marriage. It's your call. 1 Like |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by notoriousbabe: 7:16pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
chowlade:seconded. |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Toks2008(m): 7:17pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
fellis: [b]I remember writing on a previous thread that 99% of men will cheat on their wives no matter what and some people were asking for my head. I am not a philanderer and i had never cheated on my lady of 12 years when we were still together but please please every lady should get this fact clear,men are polygamous by nature and there is nothing any lady can do about this. What you should concern yourself with are: 1. Are you the main lady or the side lady? 2.Does he love you and if asked to choose one lady will he choose you? 3.Is he using protection with the other ladies? Look here ladies, only a foolish woman leaves her hubby because he cheats on her and i repeat ONLY A BLATANT FOOL OF A LADY LEAVES HER MAN BECAUSE HE CHEATS ON HER. There is no guaranty that the next 100 men you will be with will not cheat on you so live with the hard fact and concern yourself with more important aspects of life like giving your life a meaning and if you have children just divert all your love on them and se that hubby of yours as a sex partner then and only then you will have happiness in your marriage. [/b] 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Save Me From Myself, My Husband Cheated On Me, I Tried To Kill Myself by Prettydiamond(f): 7:19pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
ishiamu:nutcase! |
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