sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

If you allow her father catch you I would not be there to rescue you ooooo

Sorry, I don't want to say anything jare !

I don cancel am jare. Enjoy while your love last.

Your cell for kirikiri no go get toilet

Op, pls keep your distance till she matures... she is still quite impressionable, so give her space for a bit. In some years time if you both still feel the same, then you could pursue a relationship but for now, keep your distance.

Child abuse

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

If you have intention of marriage, I think is a good development. Having canal knowledge of her will not land you to any trouble because 16 years for girls is their official year of adulthood internationally. Thus I see nothing wrong with you falling in Love with her. But what Am imagining, can You really go out openly with her without shame? moreover you said She looks like 20 year old. Then I see nothing wrong with that. I once have strong feelings for a just 14 year old girl when I was 27. But I let it go with difficulties

opeyemisteph:
Before you finish this guy all ya...Know that we have people who are 12, 13 years older than their wives, this might be one of those in the making. He doesnt want to sleep with her. With his experience he could guide and guard her. Abeg let the poor girl enjoy the love from an experienced dude who doesn't wanna see her pant rather thn those riff raffs who would nyansh her at the slightest opportunity. And besides, a sixteen year old of the 21st century is like a 30 year of the 19th century, those kids know a lot.

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Lol so you broke the guys heart... wicked girl

Kentrasso:
I can't blame you. When I was sixteen I had older guys confessing their love to me as well. I actually liked one back. But trust me it doesn't last. At your age, what you need is a stable relationship. This girl will get bored at some point and want to mix with other guys. You may end up getting heartbroken

Aaliyah and Aru Kierry in Anambra tone. If you can escape the law, which is simple in Nigeria, you can even start having babies. But if the parents are strict, you've already cancelled your own future. I pity those that pity you. I pity your brain that fails to guide you well. Obituary bro

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

Bros to be honest wif u,I think ur not crazy dis kind of thing happens.Personally my dad is older dan my mom wif 11yrs.They hv a wonderful life full of love nd understanding.But dats becus d love is guniune.If wat u hv said is true,I really don't see any wrong,but I advise caution in handling her,knowing fully well she is still a minor nd still has a childish way of thinking.

opeyemisteph:
Before you finish this guy all ya...Know that we have people who are 12, 13 years older than their wives, this might be one of those in the making. He doesnt want to sleep with her. With his experience he could guide and guard her. Abeg let the poor girl enjoy the love from an experienced dude who doesn't wanna see her pant rather thn those riff raffs who would nyansh her at the slightest opportunity. And besides, a sixteen year old of the 21st century is like a 30 year of the 19th century, those kids know a lot.

I wish everyone will view this situation from your point of View. You made the best comment so far

I Must Say This Shouldnt Be An Issuea..

She Loves You And You Do,I Think There Is Nothing Like forcible love in this...


Since You Are Thinking Of Having Nothing Like Sexual Act With Her,You Can Be Dating Her And Things Might Be More Pleasure In Hearing When You Are 32 And Shes 20..


Live On Perfectng

midolian:
28-16..12..when you were 11, she was still in her mother's womb.

You are crazy!

dey there dey talk, if him leave her another oshiomole go come and she go agree and nairaland girls go come dEy defend her.
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Dey said oshiomole and iara is true love but they have over about 30years or more age difference but 11years difference is now an abomination..

opeyemisteph:
Before you finish this guy all ya...Know that we have people who are 12, 13 years older than their wives, this might be one of those in the making. He doesnt want to sleep with her. With his experience he could guide and guard her. Abeg let the poor girl enjoy the love from an experienced dude who doesn't wanna see her pant rather thn those riff raffs who would nyansh her at the slightest opportunity. And besides, a sixteen year old of the 21st century is like a 30 year of the 19th century, those kids know a lot.

Wrong, very wrong. And for all of you clicking 'like'.
In the legal, moral, and advanced society point of view, you don't even have any business coming close to her not to mention falling in love.

Here in the USA, your sorry as.s is heading for serious trouble, if not in jail already. It is called PEDOPHILE(ing). And the gov and citizens don't even wanna hear about it.

How can you convince us that being left alone with her as much as a relationship permits, for 2 people in love, that you won't as little as touch her for the next 2yrs?
Pls we should let these little girls mature mentally and not physical looks alone. I can't believe a 28yr old and a 16yr old. If only you were 18 or 19, ok, we can say you may hang around till she's legally of age. Pls stop now, pls. That's someone's daughter!

kenex4ever:
dey there dey talk, if him leave her another oshiomole go come and she go agree and nairaland girls go come dEy defend her.
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Dey said oshiomole and iara is true love but they have over about 30years or more age difference but 11years difference is now an abomination..

hahahaahhaahahaha

Now you're not crazy. There's nothing wrong with it. Im 17 and my boo is 28 and we're in love. Its even better to date the older guys cos there's minimal drama and they're usually serious with relationships. They're usually less [left][/left][/color]likely to bleep around too.[color=#000000]

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

U're not crazy Bro!! U're a Clever Man!! And U'll be Cleverer if u wait for her to at least clock 18 or get into the University b4 u have any official relationship with her!! But for now bro just keep watering d flower!!

Wow are you sure that you love her so much, if you love her then that's good just keep it going like that

Afritop:
You ran away from one small girl to cuba You ran away from one small girl to cuba

Wisdom is profitable.

Tay16:
stop lying

I cant stop. If i stop i wont have anything else to fall back to. Plss. Tnks

midolian:
28-16..12..when you were 11, she was still in her mother's womb.

You are crazy!

I don't think the guy is crazy.
In the days of the old, our fathers gave our mothers much age gap.
How man years did Ojukwu give Bianca?
Sometimes, this gap can come out pretty.
Sometimes, it doesn't.

It varies with parties.

Abi oo my broda abeg hep me tell them and the most funniest part of it is that most of them forming saint here wud be very fast to seize advantage into her panties


Leopards in sheep clothings

opeyemisteph:
Before you finish this guy all ya...Know that we have people who are 12, 13 years older than their wives, this might be one of those in the making. He doesnt want to sleep with her. With his experience he could guide and guard her. Abeg let the poor girl enjoy the love from an experienced dude who doesn't wanna see her pant rather thn those riff raffs who would nyansh her at the slightest opportunity. And besides, a sixteen year old of the 21st century is like a 30 year of the 19th century, those kids know a lot.

holyokoto:

I wish everyone will view this situation from your point of View. You made the best comment so far

StarMogul:
Bros to be honest wif u,I think ur not crazy dis kind of thing happens.Personally my dad is older dan my mom wif 11yrs.They hv a wonderful life full of love nd understanding.But dats becus d love is guniune.If wat u hv said is true,I really don't see any wrong,but I advise caution in handling her,knowing fully well she is still a minor nd still has a childish way of thinking.

make all of you forget that, a 16 years old girl was timing my friend for sex, and wasn't even a virgin. If the girl want am give am or she will dump your sorry assssss for another guy that will

It's not a big deal.
Wait for another 2 years.
She'll be constitutionally ripe for marriage, then.

The only problem I av is dat she is still below 18 but the 12 years thing is not bad

agohmamuda:


I cant stop. If i stop i wont have anything else to fall back to. Plss. Tnks

God forgive u

Tay16:
God forgive u

Amen. And you too.

u ar in love wit a 16yrs old girl and u dey ask if u ar crazy,ansa d question ursef.

midolian:
28-16..12..when you were 11, she was still in her mother's womb.

You are crazy!

so a man of 40yrs cant marry a girl of 28yrs again??

[quote author=sirjohnson post=34404524]

Trust me gurl, I aint nearing her pants, am not after that. I have slept with enough girls in my life already. The days I used to be sex freaked are behind me. At most I would kiss her. I just wanna nurture her.[/quote]



That's exactly what I'm saying, that's pedophilia! And what makes you think you will stop at the kissing? And that alone, is jail time mo.ther.fu.cka! Just the intent to do it alone. She doesn't know what love is bro . In 3 yrs time, she'll be thinking differently!

madjune:


I don't think the guy is crazy.
In the days of the old, our fathers gave our mothers much age gap.
How man years did Ojukwu give Bianca?
Sometimes, this gap can come out pretty.
Sometimes, it doesn't.

It varies with parties.

you are right..I also know of many relationships that have worked with this kinda age difference or more.

I got the word "crazy" from his original post.

Not a Big Deal if he's Ready to Wait..












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