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What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by Adamsdelrio(m): 6:20pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
I have noticed, countless times, that lovers that experience break-ups rearly remain friends after the separation. Some of the people we break up with are really good as friends since they know a lot about us. Some are bad though. What is the force behind this animosity between formal lovers? |
Re: What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by Nobody: 6:22pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Depends on d manner of their brkups. . . Some do remain frnds |
Re: What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by agohmamuda(m): 6:23pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Its always one tin "unfinished f*ck". |
Re: What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by danchuzzy(m): 6:33pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
There is no real reason jor.. It's just unsettled differences |
Re: What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by Papa12(m): 6:38pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Dunnno |
Re: What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by ShayGirl(f): 6:43pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Like someone above me said, it depends on d manner of break-ups..... BT certainly, nt applicable to everyone cos I'm still friends wit ma exs till date nt holding it in mind whether I made d mistake then or He did. |
Re: What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by ZedX6: 7:12pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
A break up encompasses a lot of things. Betrayal of trust, betrayal of loyalty. This is someone that knows you in and out. In as much as we all have secrets, this is the one person that knows your secrets and has seen you in your most vulnerable state. Now, for such a person to put to an end the love and trust and loyalty and silent agreement to be together forever you both had, of what purpose is it that you remain close to such a person? Hatred is a strong word. As much as I do not hate anyone for making a decision not to be with me, I do not blame those who now hate their exes. We all have a different way we react to emotional issues. If you put all of yourself out there to a person, and they break your heart, you'll never see them in the same light. . . You cannot love them, you cannot like them, you can no longer trust them, you no longer owe them your loyalty, in fact, all positive emotions toward this person are all gone. . . Except of course the feelings of very strong dislike, or, hate - and this emanates from that feeling of being betrayed. The nicest people in the world are also the worst assholes when they have been pushed to the wall, and have had enough! 7 Likes |
Re: What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by Adamsdelrio(m): 7:17pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
ZedX6:Whaooooo! I understand you perfectly. |
Re: What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by ZedX6: 7:18pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Adamsdelrio:You have no choice. |
Re: What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by Adamsdelrio(m): 7:24pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
Re: What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by IamLEGEND1: 7:33pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
ur ex asking u to remain friends is like warri kidnappers asking u to stay in touch after letting u go- ALBERT EINSTEIN..1864 2 Likes |
Re: What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by ivyT(f): 9:36pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
ZedX6: Terrific answer..nice one |
Re: What Is Behind The Hatred That Comes After Break-ups? by ivyT(f): 9:38pm On Jun 06, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1:lolzzzzzzz..... |
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