Ishilove:
Eyah

godoluwa:
@op, plz dnt wait a minute to call it quit with the gal. I knw its a very hard thing to do but it will do you good. she's keeping you in case her relationship with the other guy crashed. next time, neva gve d whole of ur heart to gal. its what av experienced to the extent that thinking about me destroyed my biz partnership with someone. let her go as their are thousands ladies out there that will makes u smile. gudluck

LastProphet:
u havent fallen sick yet, wait till she hands u a correct dose of staph. My guy at that age u can NEVER EVER keep a girl to only yourself, you better get this into your greasy hair now. All girls and guys will cheat as far as they continue to look good it is only the degree that varies from person to person. As par the part where u cant stay without her, that is a totally childish opinion. Nobody was born with another person, moment you stay away from her a few days and do something new or change environment and see other people, u will realize how slow u were. There are other very very exciting people around so open your eyes and meet them. Dont rush into another relationship, sit down and take stock of what you can learn from this about u, your partner and rships in general. Once again forget anything making u believe u cant stay without one person - we all believed it before and found out it was a lie. My late brother was engaged to a lady schooling in UJ when he died, people were so scared of breaking the news to her because she was in final year and they were 'heavily' in love, my guy after her exams she shed some tears and got herself a very nice fine man to marry 6 months later - she lived happily thereafter. Enuf said

okonivwe:
U Nor Wise ? Na Girl Dey Use U Play Foolball Get Out Gare Mumu Like U Wen Many Women Dey Beg 4 Marry.

yomi007k:

A glass of Andre for this broda.

Cheers bro,gba gbe oshi

carzola:
this guy cant be a final year student nah he is lying,

ugodean8485:

you no serious oo... How is it supposed to help this over grown baby focus on adult matters

AreaFada2:
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Nnah ehn,

This guy gives guys a very bad name.

If you were not seriously after dating and just wanted occasional condomised bleep, I will even hear. But possibly over 3 years of infidelity and you stayed put. Haba! Abeg check yourself.

Anyway like 80% of guys are being cheated on, only just not aware.

90% of ladies, especially students in higher institutions that I talk to, actually think dating 2, 3 or 4 guys is not really a big deal.
Even after engagement, playing away for some girls is ok.
Only after marriage most are not ready to do it. At least they claim so. It may just be "forming" decent wife things.

In infidelity stakes, girls have overtaken guys years ago, with the advent of social media and smart phones.

So make we nor cruficy this guy. We're all mostly ignorant mugus.

This guy knows, that's the only difference.

LastProphet:
u havent fallen sick yet, wait till she hands u a correct dose of staph. My guy at that age u can NEVER EVER keep a girl to only yourself, you better get this into your greasy hair now. All girls and guys will cheat as far as they continue to look good it is only the degree that varies from person to person. As par the part where u cant stay without her, that is a totally childish opinion. Nobody was born with another person, moment you stay away from her a few days and do something new or change environment and see other people, u will realize how slow u were. There are other very very exciting people around so open your eyes and meet them. Dont rush into another relationship, sit down and take stock of what you can learn from this about u, your partner and rships in general. Once again forget anything making u believe u cant stay without one person - we all believed it before and found out it was a lie. My late brother was engaged to a lady schooling in UJ when he died, people were so scared of breaking the news to her because she was in final year and they were 'heavily' in love, my guy after her exams she shed some tears and got herself a very nice fine man to marry 6 months later - she lived happily thereafter. Enuf said

BeeBeeOoh:
U've dated her close to 2 tenure of office & u've not taken her to d altar??.. God help u the time when u will come here to blame ur state govt. or FG for spending 8yrs in office without achieving anything..




You Don't Deserve Any Advice As Far As I'm Concern!!

vizkiz:
you have been on nairaland for a while and you are yet to learn anything....nigga you are just too dumb for my liking. I'v gat nothing to say to you dummy!

Three reasons why you are a bloddy fool
1.You girlfriend is furcking another guy and you are still in the relationship even though you are very much aware of that fool!!!!

2. Even her friends has the knowledge of her cheating and they still want you to chill for her, and you agreed to that... FOOOOL!!!!

3. You typed six years mean while she has been in another relationship for the past three years with another dude. Don't you know you'v been a side dude for three years now Fooollll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ejembi28:
@ op people like u make girls feel they re smarter,there re thousands girls out there.girls ve no value without GUY.

Ishilove:
Eyah

elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

DrGroove:

You are right.Faithfulness is now thrash,occupant of waste bin.The male folk started the infidelity game,claiming they are polygamous in nature as a justification for their actions.the ladies have followed suit.Whatever a man can do,a woman can do better.Anybody male/female who thinks his/her lover has only him/her is high on something cheap.Most of d guys abusing this op are also sharing their babes even wives,the only difference is that they know not!Men flaunt their sexcapades,women do theirs codedly

celebobo:
Guy my advice for you is to call the girl and sit her down. Ask her to make her choice of man she want to be with, if she choice you then you are in but if she choice d OND guy. You let her go and be focus. God must surely link you to your real woman.

DrGroove:

You are right.Faithfulness is now thrash,occupant of waste bin.The male folk started the infidelity game,claiming they are polygamous in nature as a justification for their actions.the ladies have followed suit.Whatever a man can do,a woman can do better.Anybody male/female who thinks his/her lover has only him/her is high on something cheap.Most of d guys abusing this op are also sharing their babes even wives,the only difference is that they know not!Men flaunt their sexcapades,women do theirs codedly

barnabas91:

guy u just hit the nail on the head......ppl insulting him without a tangible reason to back it up are not better than him. seriouslyyyy, its d truth u said. I have experience such b4, d babe never wanted to let go of any, but me, I cant dull myself, I left her. the guy engaged her with ring sharp sharp. her doom came when d guy got married to another lady without her knowledge. now she wanna come back, when nigga has gotten a preferable damsel for himself already.

elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

agarawu23:
oshi gidi ni

don't forget to vote me bro

AreaFada2:
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My dear, thank you. I like people who are honest. Instead of trying to defend women's "honour" at the expense of truth. Lots of working wives are banging work colleagues, especially their bosses/managers.

People like to doubt research findings that: 50% of first born kids belong to another guy outside. 30% of all kids belong to another guy outside.

Women have never been short of desire to cheat. But it was just too risky and opportunities were limited. Women now move about freely to work, travel alone, live in school hostels 700km away from home, chat with men on social media from the whole world from their bedroom.
Opportunities are vast now.

Men throughout history have been marrying many wives and having side dishes, and was accepted by society.

I guess with cheap DNA test kits soon to be available, men will be in shock over paternity.

Two people I know in diaspora wanted to bring their kids from 9ja. They had the kids with former girlfriends years back in 9ja. Before going abroad. DNA test was required. Both kids failed DNA test.

The humiliation is massive because one is married to a white lady now. He used to make mouth about how lose women are in the West. His oyinbo wife is now mocking him.

agarawu23:
should I call you a fool?
her friends are begging you to endure and promised you to change her ways? you wasted additional 3years after your discovery? chai !!! you must be the girl's MAGA!!!. I guess you are rich bro

dump her ass and move on.

if she truly love you, she won't be sharing your love with another guy.

elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now