lofty900:
the fact is that you lost that romantic sweetness u had before u got married and pregnant. Most women are like that, so cute and romantic but as soon as they enter husband house, they start looking unattractive . Start dressing sexy and romantic and ur husband will love u like b4

Hmmmmm
This is not always true
not much change could have happened to her within 2 years
She met her hubby in 2013. This is 2015. He stopped making love when she got pregnant, so its been like that for most of the marriage

There is a lot that goes into making a woman attractive to a man and its not just beauty, figure and her dressing . . there are other things like her words, her tone of voice, how she reacts in conflict, her body scent, her cooking, her tidiness within the home, general hygiene, how she treats his family members and a whole heap of other things. Same applys to men too. A six pack alone wont make you desirable to all women all of the time.

A woman can look great but have other negative things that put her partner off her
I am not saying that this is the situation in this case but its worth noting.

@poster have a chat with your husband, but be ready to listen to what he is saying as outrageous as it may sound to you at the time.
He needs to come clean with you, so that at least you know whats wrong and you can both work together. He owes you that
As for the cousin, please please and please put that one to one side. No good can ever come out of that and it will only end in tears and shame and 2 broken marriages.

Try and invest that energy to sort out the issues with hubby. He is your hubby.

fem29:


I now think he does this for attention, he craves controversy. I think if we all just ignore him, he will eventually get bored and go away.

seconded

missKiffy:

No bashing, Haba

Just being real....I hate bullshit in my life!

It is well honey, I was once there o.one or more of this may be involved, pls check ur neatness and matrimonial hygeinem, kip d home clean, and every other things around. 2. Your size is also a factor to consider ma, it may be putting him off, put your weight always in check, 3do you still cook his favorite meals ?4. He may be growing up mentally, he has to be a man of d home, paying bills , meeting needs etc all makes a man seriously go down out of sexual urge o, once he wakes up d first thing that comes to mind is 'what is d next thing to do today?,how do I go about this or that, how do I meet the f
Amilly needs?, how will d familly survive? E tcm this can make a man always disturbed and hence,...5. Lastly I hope he is not into another relation ship some where ?

lofty900:
seconded

Putting this into effect tho my fingers are itching to reply his vileness, I shall not, I am zen

gidjah:
It is well honey, I was once there o.one or more of this may be involved, pls check ur neatness and matrimonial hygeinem, kip d home clean, and every other things around. 2. Your size is also a factor to consider ma, it may be putting him off, put your weight always in check, 3do you still cook his favorite meals ?4. He may be growing up mentally, he has to be a man of d home, paying bills , meeting needs etc all makes a man seriously go down out of sexual urge o, once he wakes up d first thing that comes to mind is 'what is d next thing to do today?,how do I go about this or that, how do I meet the f
Amilly needs?, how will d familly survive? E tcm this can make a man always disturbed and hence,...5. Lastly I hope he is not into another relation ship some where ?

Nice one.

Although I don't like the way he went about passing his message across , I think dinachi has a point and a very valid one at that ... A married woman puts up her pics and comes to tell the whole world that she's Hot and wants to fvck her hubby cousin ... That's an indirect invitation as far as am concerned ... But then again , what do I know ... Am just a small boy

@op, put down your pics. You never know who's watching

biaka1994:
Please I just need ur advice abi advices which eva of them. I met my hubby in 2013 things were going on well and sweet. We normally make luv almost every minute of the day so much dat I got used 2 it. When we got married and I got preggy my hubby became so cold towards sex I thought maybe he was scared of my pregnancy. Sum times i'll have 2 beg him 2 make luv 2 me. After much begging he'll reluctantly do it. I gave birth and I thought tins would change but it's all d same. I keep begging n begging I have just decided 2 be myself and take my mind of it. The only person I talk 2 is his cousin and have become sooo close 2 him dat am beginning 2 lust after him he is married tho but he lives close 2 us. Just this evening I nearly kissed him nd I felt soo embarrassed. Please guys help mi it's Gettn out of hand. What do I do? Please no bashing we all humans n we do sily tins @times.


My dear, just stay away from the cousin. Lose as much weight as possible and stop begging your hubby for sex. Simples




Cc: Lalasticlala

My dear, just stay away from the cousin. Lose as much weight as possible and stop begging your hubby for sex. Simples

First you said this.

fem29:
I now think he does this for attention, he craves controversy. I think if we all just ignore him, he will eventually get bored and go away.

And this

fem29:
Putting this into effect tho my fingers are itching to reply his vileness, I shall not, I am zen

Yet you did this

fem29:
Bring it

And this.

fem29:
Rabid trolll

Now I do no longer need to tell the whole world that you do not have any iota of integrity! You have proved it yourself.
Continue fvcking you rabbit vibrat0r! You have absolutely nothing to offer to anybody!

dinachi:

First you said this

And this

Yet you did this

And this.
Now I do no longer need to tell the whole world that my father does not have any iota of integrity! He proved it himself.
My mother Continues fvcking to use her rabbit vibrat0r! Nether of them have absolutely nothing to offer to anybody!

Don't come for me unless I send for you

dinachi:

Lord, why is my mother an old hag, she left me alone from a young age that's why I hate women rabidly!
I don't know why providence twisted and damaged me like this to be a nuisance to everyone.
I am just a dime a dozen! I have nothing to offer, I am sorry to say I do not even have an ability to sustain any intelligent discourse.my IQ is that low
Please when we need animals for experimenting I will gladly volunteer my big dumb knuckle dragging self!

Eeyahh, that explains a lot, pele, the Lord is your strength

holusormi:
A married woman puts up her pics and comes to tell the whole world that she's Hot and wants to fvck her hubby cousin ... That's an indirect invitation as far as am concerned

Just like another monicker Kilode100. That one announced on nairaland that she 'used' to fvck three men at once(Foursome) and sucks men's unwashed arseholes. She capped up her 'testimony' with her picture on the DP and even posted her Bbm pin for easy access.
These hoes ain't smiling these days!

dinachi:

Just like another monicker Kilode100. That one announced on nairaland that she 'used' to fvck three men at once(Foursome) and sucks men's unwashed arseholes. She capped up her 'testimony' with her picture on the DP and even posted her Bbm pin for easy access.
These hoes ain't smiling these days!

Lol, now that's funny ... I had a showdown with that kilode100 on 'that thread' .... And it was bloody , I had to stay off so I wouldn't murder her ... They ain't loyal !!!!

[quote author=dinachi post=34878370][/quote]

Rabid troll. I've reported you and I will keep doing so till you get banned.

fem29:

Rabid troll. I've reported you and I will keep doing so till you get banned.

Bwahahahahahahah

I have sum times he says it's d urge. He may not be ready wen I am nd vice verse. Well have decided 2 live on my own stil play my wifely role 2 him but begging 4 sex no! No! No! All d same tnx

tearoses:


Hmmmmm
This is not always true
not much change could have happened to her within 2 years
She met her hubby in 2013. This is 2015. He stopped making love when she got pregnant, so its been like that for most of the marriage

There is a lot that goes into making a woman attractive to a man and its not just beauty, figure and her dressing . . there are other things like her words, her tone of voice, how she reacts in conflict, her body scent, her cooking, her tidiness within the home, general hygiene, how she treats his family members and a whole heap of other things. Same applys to men too. A six pack alone wont make you desirable to all women all of the time.

A woman can look great but have other negative things that put her partner off her
I am not saying that this is the situation in this case but its worth noting.

@poster have a chat with your husband, but be ready to listen to what he is saying as outrageous as it may sound to you at the time.
He needs to come clean with you, so that at least you know whats wrong and you can both work together. He owes you that
As for the cousin, please please and please put that one to one side. No good can ever come out of that and it will only end in tears and shame and 2 broken marriages.

Try and invest that energy to sort out the issues with hubby. He is your hubby.

My size ain't d problem, as 4 keeping d home clean I do dat in as much as sum men r vry untidy n lazy he falls in dat category he can't even wash his clothes wen I travelled 4 3wks I came bk nd met dirty clothes he ddnt touch them. But they r not my problem cos I dnt get tired of working. As 4 meal he is very real Wt okro n sea foods. Its rili annoying dat dia is jst one way 2 appreciate mi yet he chose it 2 punnish mi.

gidjah:
It is well honey, I was once there o.one or more of this may be involved, pls check ur neatness and matrimonial hygeinem, kip d home clean, and every other things around. 2. Your size is also a factor to consider ma, it may be putting him off, put your weight always in check, 3do you still cook his favorite meals ?4. He may be growing up mentally, he has to be a man of d home, paying bills , meeting needs etc all makes a man seriously go down out of sexual urge o, once he wakes up d first thing that comes to mind is 'what is d next thing to do today?,how do I go about this or that, how do I meet the f
Amilly needs?, how will d familly survive? E tcm this can make a man always disturbed and hence,...5. Lastly I hope he is not into another relation ship some where ?

Y do u choose 2 showcase ur stupidity here. We've heard u can leave and stop derailing my thread

dinachi:

Just like another monicker Kilode100. That one announced on nairaland that she 'used' to fvck three men at once(Foursome) and sucks men's unwashed arseholes. She capped up her 'testimony' with her picture on the DP and even posted her Bbm pin for easy access.
These hoes ain't smiling these days!

dinachi:

First I don't need your thanks. Secondly, you are an unrepentant adulterer intent on wrecking your
marriage. You even posted your picture on your Dp to entice other men and women in nairaland who will come after you since you have now signaled to the whole world that you can't do without sex!
Get ready, you will soon get tons of pms from other evil minded people here who now knows that you are vulnerable about sex.
And yet you want us to still regard you as a married woman.
You are at best a very smart married prostitute who just expanded her clientelle base by targeted advertising on naira land.

Bro I thought noone would notice, this is all a twisted attempt at self pity and attention, why come to NL with this story? Why not your pastor or close friend? Why leave ur picture on your profile? Some people are thirsty. She has no shame.

biaka1994:
Please I just need ur advice abi advices which eva of them. I met my hubby in 2013 things were going on well and sweet. We normally make luv almost every minute of the day so much dat I got used 2 it. When we got married and I got preggy my hubby became so cold towards sex I thought maybe he was scared of my pregnancy. Sum times i'll have 2 beg him 2 make luv 2 me. After much begging he'll reluctantly do it. I gave birth and I thought tins would change but it's all d same. I keep begging n begging I have just decided 2 be myself and take my mind of it. The only person I talk 2 is his cousin and have become sooo close 2 him dat am beginning 2 lust after him he is married tho but he lives close 2 us. Just this evening I nearly kissed him nd I felt soo embarrassed. Please guys help mi it's Gettn out of hand. What do I do? Please no bashing we all humans n we do sily tins @times.





Cc: Lalasticlala

Which means he rejected your attempt to kiss him. Lol. So shameless! Na so the konji reach you? Hubby's cousin of all people. Taaaa!

biaka1994:
I have done dat so many times all he tells me is I won't tell him wen 2 do it n wen not to. Bro am getting tired. I wanted 2 walk out but I take a glance @my baby nd I hv a 2nd thought. Its rili weighing me down.

When next you give him food, especially Friday evening(no work during the weekend) put some sex-enhancement stuff. Ensure you purchase it from a good pharmacy.

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biaka1994:
Please I just need ur advice abi advices which eva of them. I met my hubby in 2013 things were going on well and sweet. We normally make luv almost every minute of the day so much dat I got used 2 it. When we got married and I got preggy my hubby became so cold towards sex I thought maybe he was scared of my pregnancy. Sum times i'll have 2 beg him 2 make luv 2 me. After much begging he'll reluctantly do it. I gave birth and I thought tins would change but it's all d same. I keep begging n begging I have just decided 2 be myself and take my mind of it. The only person I talk 2 is his cousin and have become sooo close 2 him dat am beginning 2 lust after him he is married tho but he lives close 2 us. Just this evening I nearly kissed him nd I felt soo embarrassed. Please guys help mi it's Gettn out of hand. What do I do? Please no bashing we all humans n we do sily tins @times.





Cc: Lalasticlala

make sure your husband and cousin look alike so that if you fall pregnant no one will suspect you.

Since your husband doesnt find you attractive anymore let someone who still finds you attract enjoy abeg.

Body no be firewood. You are still young and you still have life in you. If you keep disturbing your husband they will tell you you nag. Dont be a nagging wife, resolves your problems in the arms of another and stop disturbing your husband over something he doesnt want to do.