clovislouis:
I need help

Edoblakky:
The bible calls it work of the flesh yet you say demons may be responsible without substantiating with scriptures. Whose report should we believe - that of men or God?

clovislouis:
yeah

Edoblakky:
OP, study the scriptures for yourself and don't be deceived by what an ignorant fellow wrote. Galatians 5:19-21 will let you know that such things as fornication, uncleanness and even witchcraft are works of the flesh and not necessarily orchestrated by any demon. Stop alluding so much power to demons! God through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ gave us so much power over devils. If you as a Christian still indulges in the works of the flesh, instead of blaming demons, all you need do is to stop because you have the power to do so. No more deliverance is needed. Being born again is your deliverance!

Abba999:
People who cannot control the urge to masturbate or watch pornography are almost always plagued with a sexual devil. Maybe more than one.
In the world of the spirit and according to Jesus Christ: the sexual thought is the same as the sexual act (Matthew 5:28).

When we use the powerful force of imagining something as if it were real, we are actually attracting that which we imagine into physical being.
When we imagine having sex with another via masturbation, we are actually summoning the power of the spirit realm to manifest the thing we are imagining.

We've all heard about the law of attraction by now, made popular from books and movies like The Secret. Well the law of attraction also works with sexual imagination.

There are such things as sex demons. And the danger in masturbating is that one could inadvertently summon a sex demon to attach itself to you through the act of masturbating. And once that demon attaches, it is difficult to get it to leave. It will drive you to masturbate, even when you don't want to. You'll be hit with urges to play with yourself so powerful that only an orgasm will allow you some temporary relief.

In worst case scenarios the one demon may gather other unclean spirits to itself to also attach to your life. That way it can wrap you tighter in its web of control, making it that much more difficult for you to get free. And many never do (Matthew 12:43-45).

By engaging in those acts of sexual impurity you are giving such evil spirits legal access into your life. And they will remain, causing untold personal pain, guilt and shame until the more powerful force of Jesus Christ is used against them to expel them from your life for good—See: Luke 8:29, Luke 9:39 and verse 42; Galatians 5:19-21; 2nd Corinthians 6:17-18


*****This was an excerpt taken from diva, goddess Queen: Breaking the power of soul ties, lust, and sexual demons.


SEX, FAITH
AUTHOR// MACK MAJOR

pneumaticos:


You can look up scripture yourself,quoting is one thing living in the revelation of quoted verses is another

Do demons procreate ,can a woman givebirth without a man or artificial insemination,

But we see women giving birth this days without any of this two methods

Guy,....in the spirit realm they act by revelation,if you hav a good antenna,you should pick up my drift

Durolajglobal:


Hello, being born again is actually not deliverance sir but simply means your name has just being written is the book of life and your past life style is over to start a Godly living. Il corin 5:17

Now what is Deliverance? Remember the moment you gave your life to christ you get enlisted with the sons and daughters of God which gives you power. You will have to defend the genuineness of your being born again by proving the devil wrong when he comes with temptation and the feelings of those things you used to do before you got born again by speaking the word of God having also dealt with your flesh.

Deliverance is freedom from unfriendly situation or experience. Deliverance is setting of the captives free from oppression of higher power. Deliverance is by force hence is setting free from oppression. Deliverance is when you know you have weaknesses and have done everything possible to help your self but to no avail now seeking assistance of higher or other methods to get rid of it.

The issue of Deliverance comes when you find out that you can still not control your flesh at any slitest provocation you fall or when the enemy doubles his strategy to get you to compromise your stand with christ. The devil is out not for those who dont know christ alone but majorly for those who claim they know Jesus and have forsaken their old bad ways and how does he do this, he send demons otherwise called spirits (invisible) into ones thoughts or character thats why you see some people do somethings at times they will say its the devil or they were out of control.

You have to check your life and be sure there are no ungodly character or traits so that the enemy will not take advantage of you. Deliverance is also when you say no to your weaknesses no matter what.

papawemba:


[s][/s]Your signature says it all about you. Freaking and fvcking retard.[s][/s]

Edoblakky:
So what are you saying?

papawemba:


Your signature says it all about you. Freaking and fvcking retard.[s][/s]

Toks2008:


See i just so hate it when people come to nairaland to give an impression that a certain thing is bad without giving a solution.

Look here friends, i gave my life to Christ since i was 13 and i have practically lived a chaste life all the years of my life and i do not think anyone is more born again than me as we all are justified by faith and not by works.

Now i do not even understand the act of masturbating because i cant remember the year i ever touched my penile shaft in order to jerk off but i often use the power of imagination where i just think about a sex act with my ex wife and once i do that i get satisfied not because i am so so attached with my ex but for crying out loud that is exactly the best i could do,but then lets say that is still wrong which i will strongly disagree with, the question is this;

How does a sexually active young man or woman get over the urge of making out without fornicating?

I will slap anyone who tells me they should not think about sex and i will spit on the face on anyone who says they can control the urge of not easing themselves for days, months or even years.

In my opinion, masturbation is far far better than fornication but the point where its confusing is watching porn while u masturbate because by so doing you are lusting after a human which is the porn starts thereby committing fornication.

An unmarried young man or woman can not also be thinking about a tractor or football game while masturbating but of-course must think about sex with another lady or man which is definitely not his or her spouse/

The issue of masturbation have been over-flogged and i keep wondering why people who go against it cant bring out just a passage in the bible that forbids it.

Edusouls:
africa and its religious madness, we were worshiping rocks,demons,statues, carved beings long before the westerners brought christianity to us, we being a naturaly foolish and dumb race carried the thing in the head, turned it upside down and practiced it wrongly,becoming fanatical and blinded by the thing that is supposed to make us better,it made us worse,poor and ignorant,suffering everywhere..masturbation dosent open any demonic portal,is a natural way for humans to ease off their feelings, and where do these crazy posts that deceive and ruin people appear here..

seunwen2:
[size=32pt]pls what is masturbation?[/size]

herald9:

forget Google, I rather ask you cause you seem to study Satan for a living.

Durolajglobal:


Hello, being born again is actually not deliverance sir but simply means your name has just being written is the book of life and your past life style is over to start a Godly living. Il corin 5:17

Now what is Deliverance? Remember the moment you gave your life to christ you get enlisted with the sons and daughters of God which gives you power. You will have to defend the genuineness of your being born again by proving the devil wrong when he comes with temptation and the feelings of those things you used to do before you got born again by speaking the word of God having also dealt with your flesh.

Deliverance is freedom from unfriendly situation or experience. Deliverance is setting of the captives free from oppression of higher power. Deliverance is by force hence is setting free from oppression. Deliverance is when you know you have weaknesses and have done everything possible to help your self but to no avail now seeking assistance of higher or other methods to get rid of it.

The issue of Deliverance comes when you find out that you can still not control your flesh at any slitest provocation you fall or when the enemy doubles his strategy to get you to compromise your stand with christ. The devil is out not for those who dont know christ alone but majorly for those who claim they know Jesus and have forsaken their old bad ways and how does he do this, he send demons otherwise called spirits (invisible) into ones thoughts or character thats why you see some people do somethings at times they will say its the devil or they were out of control.

You have to check your life and be sure there are no ungodly character or traits so that the enemy will not take advantage of you. Deliverance is also when you say no to your weaknesses no matter what.

CodeineJunkiee:
http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/masturbate-every-day

Reasons you should masturbate #ThankMeLater

pneumaticos:


You dont speak like a prince

If you ever meet a lord from the nagative realm with this kind of a reply,you may be spanked beyound your thoughts.....have a splendid night

naijathings:
all these demon experts sha...

And some other experts will tell you that mastrrbation is good and they will tell you the usefulness of it.

but people like this come here and all they can use to back up their point is some quote from the Bible from some guy called LUKE and MATHEW and what someone in Nazareth and Jerusalem said 2500 years ago (meanwhile they dont know the history of their village 50 years ago). I dont think that is enough to educate anyone against mastrrbation. Bring your facts to the table.



who don watch WOLF OF WALLSTREET for here ?

Abba999:


I really don't understand what u are seeking to know from me.

lloydpras:



Put the Biblical process aside, Just advice him to rub aboniki balm on his palms whenever he feels the urge.

MrT2011:


Hello ma,
Seriously speaking, I masturbate a lot ooo!
And I feel somehow bad afterwards - just like doing it with the wrong person.

Does this truely mean a demon could be holding me back

Abba999:
The truth is masturbation will kill you – physically, mentally and spiritually. Let’s first look at how it ruins your body.



Masturbation and Stress
- why masturbation makes you feel better
When you masturbate, your brain releases dopamine and endorphins. 

“Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that enables you to feel pleasurable emotions, and endorphins are chemicals released during stress and physical activity that allow you to recover and feel at ease…

Over time, this frequent release of brain chemicals can become addictive. Because endorphins and dopamine can help you cope with stress, people experiencing extraordinary stress or mental health problems are especially likely to become addicted to the release of these chemicals that occurs with masturbation.

Thus frequent masturbation can become an unhealthy coping mechanism that causes you to avoid – rather than address – your problems.”1

According to a Dutch scientist Gert Holstege, “brain scans of orgasm resembled brains scans of shooting heroine.”2   This explains why.



Addicted to masturbation
“If you masturbate several times a day, your brain can become addicted to the release of powerful, pleasure-inducing chemicals. Moreover, it can become more difficult for your brain to release these chemicals without increasing stimulation.

"Consequently, you may need to masturbate more frequently or to more dramatic stimuli in order to receive the same pleasure you previously had. Many people become addicted to porn at the same time they become addicted to masturbation because pornography allows people to seek out increasingly graphic stimuli.

"When your brain is fiending for dopamine, you’re experiencing similar feelings to those of a heroin addict, so it makes no difference that you’re not actually ingesting a chemical substance.”3

Like any addiction, your body will pay for it.


Chronic masturbation
Dr. Hernando Chavez, a sexologist and professor of human sexuality at the college level explains in an online article about the negative effects of masturbation. Though he believes masturbating is “one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself” he also acknowledges that “Biologically, chronic masturbating can affect our brain and body chemistry because it can overproduce sex hormones and neurotransmitters.

This overproduction impacts each person differently, and can range from:fatigue, pelvic pain, vision changes, lower back pain, testicular pain, or hair loss. There is current research that states increased testosterone production is linked to DHT production, which is associated with male pattern hair loss.”4

Whenever you tax one part of the body excessively it depletes your energies and breaks down your constitution because other parts of your body are robbed in order to compensate.

Here is a list of the negative effects of masturbation on the body.

Effects of masturbation on the body
Headache
Dizziness
Nervousness
Pain in the shoulders and side
Pain in the back and legs 
Rheumatism - inflammation or pain in muscles, joints, or fibrous tissue
Loss of appetite leading to weight loss
Fluid retention (edema) – weight gain
Insomnia
Tiredness
Great exhaustion after exercising
Sallow countenance (your face looks like you have the flu – that sick, dead look)
Loss of memory and sight
Loss of concentration and focus (brain fog)
Increased risk of cancer
Abrasions or swelling of the penis
Difficulty in performing real sexual intercourse because of a weak erection
Premature ejaculation
Semen leakage
Reduced orgasm
Loss of sex drive towards the opposite sex
Not only will your body be affected, your mind will too.

Continue to learn about the effects of masturbation on your mind and personality

Edusouls:
africa and its religious madness, we were worshiping rocks,demons,statues, carved beings long before the westerners brought christianity to us, we being a naturaly foolish and dumb race carried the thing in the head, turned it upside down and practiced it wrongly,becoming fanatical and blinded by the thing that is supposed to make us better,it made us worse,poor and ignorant,suffering everywhere..masturbation dosent open any demonic portal,is a natural way for humans to ease off their feelings, and where do these crazy posts that deceive and ruin people appear here..

lastchild:
yes of course,a demon is behind it,when you masturbate you are feeding her sexually, let me give you an assignment,when the urge comes,start speaking to her as if you are seeing her,let her know that you are now aware what is happening,then tell her that the battle for your freedom has been drawn

After that,if you can't hold the urge let it out,then wake up 12 midnight the same day,before you start the prayers,remind her that you told her that the battle for your freedom has begun,don't start By commanding her in the name of jesus to leave,start by commanding every demon in your spiritual foundation to manifest,pray this prayer aggressively that night at least 1 hour

When you sleep they'll come at you because you have shot a bullet at the enemies camp,then tomorrow start heading to a nearest MFM branch,the pastor will give you a prayer point after he must have throw more bullets in their camp

Note:if you are not ready to finish what you started,don't even try,stay as you are


I don't speak from what I was told,I speak from what I know

Abba999:



How to Stop a Masturbation Addiction

Masturbation happens in every culture, across every period of history, and it's the way most adolescents discover what they enjoy before embarking on adult sexual relationships. However, if it's becoming an obsession that inhibits other aspects of your life, or you belong to a religion or philosophy that forbids masturbation, then it's possible to curb the impulse, gather your self-discipline, and take control of your urges.





Part One of Two:
Staying Busy and Focused

1
Find another outlet for your time and energy. Fill your life with engaging activities. The excitement of doing something different can help replace the urge to masturbate, and you'll have a go-to distraction next time you're tempted. Try some of these options:
Be Creative. The process of turning sexual urges into creative output (called sublimation) is something on which monks and sages have relied upon for centuries. Start writing, learn to play a musical instrument, paint, draw, or do whatever else makes you feel like you're doing something productive.
Play Sports. It takes discipline and persistence to excel at a sport. Develop an interest like running or swimming, or a group sport like soccer, football, basketball, or tennis. Also, any form of exercise will help you relieve tension, feel happier, and to make you focus on your physicality in a positive way. Yoga is another form of exercise that can help you feel more relaxed and less likely to feel the sudden urge to masturbate.
Eat a Healthy Diet. Fruits and vegetables have healthy effects on the body and provide nutrients necessary to increase your energy to make you more active throughout the day.
Find a new hobby, or cultivate a skill. Learning something that takes a while to master can refocus your brain on the delayed gratification of achieving goals instead of the instant gratification of masturbation. Try skills like cooking, woodshop, archery, baking, public speaking, or gardening.
Volunteer your time. Devote your energy to helping teens who've been less fortunate than you, such as working at a shelter, tutoring low-income students, cleaning up blighted areas, or raising money for a good cause. You'll get an altruistic feeling from helping others, and you'll have less time to stray from your goals.

2
Make a plan for avoiding masturbation during your "go to" times of day. If you have problems before going to bed or in the shower, refrain from any temptation to masturbate. For instance, if it's a problem late at night, drop to the floor and do push-ups until you're too exhausted to do anything but fall asleep. If you find shower time too tempting, start using ice cold water only — you won't want to be in there for long.
If you always masturbate when you get home from school, make sure to have a solid plan to stave off any boredom you may feel. If you have so little to do that your mind frequently wanders to sexual thoughts, occupy your schedule. You'll find it gets easier to avoid masturbation if you're too busy or tired to spare any energy for distractions.
If you're tempted to masturbate in the morning, try to sleep with more than just one layer of clothing so touching yourself is more of an effort.

3
Limit your solitude. If you masturbate frequently because you feel lonely, find ways to be as socially engaged as possible. This means that you should join as many clubs or activities as you can, accept and give more invitations to people, and go out of your way to make more friends. If you want to date someone, consider asking a friend to set you up or join an online dating site.
Another thing you can do is to limit the times when you are likely to be home alone. If you tend to masturbate in the hour or two before your parents get home from work, go for a walk during that time, or do your homework in a coffee shop.
Even if all of your friends are busy, you can still limit your impulse to masturbate by going out in public. For instance, instead of watching the game at home by yourself, watch it at a sports bar. Even if you're not hanging out with friends, you will not be alone, ultimately having no time for masturbation.

4
Stop watching porn on your computer. One of the reasons you may be masturbating so much is that you know that you can access porn within seconds if you want to. However, if you don't have the willpower to stop looking at the porn on your own, then you may have to take other measures to get the job done:
Consider installing porn-blocking software on your computer. Of course you will know the password to bypass the blocking function, but just having it pop up will remind you of your priorities. You can also type a random password in a text file, copy and paste it when you enter your password and verify it, then delete the text file. Then, you will not be able to know the password of your own porn-blocker. This is the best way to keep you strong and spare you the struggle.
If you have the tendency to masturbate looking at porn on the computer, try moving your computer into a room where others can see you.
If you have a physical collection of porn, dispose of it ASAP.
Get Help. Porn addiction apps such as Brainbuddy are designed to rewire your brain so you crave real connection instead of porn.

5
Be persistent and patient. Stopping a masturbation addiction won't hit you like a lightning bolt. It's a process that requires commitment, and you might make mistakes or relapse on occasions. The real struggle is persevering, so commit now that you won't let little mistakes stand in your way.
Set up a reward system. Bribe yourself to stay on-track with rewards for good behavior. For instance, if you can go two whole weeks without masturbating once, treat yourself to a small indulgence like a new game or an ice cream cone.
Reward systems are great; just make sure not to reward yourself with the very thing you're trying to conquer, which, in this case, is masturbating. If you say that you'll reward yourself with masturbation after a week of not doing it, then you'll only be turning masturbation into something that you really, really want even more.



Part Two of Two:
Getting in the Right Mindset

1
Stop punishing yourself. Consider it this way: if you're constantly dwelling on the disapproval that some may feel about masturbating, then you're still thinking about masturbation all the time. Don't just trade in your masturbation addiction for another one — they're so closely related that you won't resolve anything. Instead, acknowledge that this has been a problem for you, but you will persevere to stop the impulse.
Remember, you're human, and humans masturbate. Some studies show that up to 95% of males and 89% of females admit that they have masturbated.[1] You'll feel less shame once you realize you are not alone.
Resist the urge of sinking into despair by remembering the times spent feeling sorry for yourself when it could have been spent relinquishing your addiction.

2
Don't believe the myths about the harms of masturbation. If you want to stop your masturbation addiction, then you should do it for reasons that are personal and moral, not for reasons that are health-related. The only real health problem that can be caused is pain and rawness from chronic masturbation, but that can go away if you stop touching yourself so frequently. Here are some things that masturbation will not do to your body:
Masturbation will not cause infertility, premature ejaculation, or impotence.
Masturbation will not cause insanity.
Masturbation will not cause blindness, or even eye floaters.
Masturbation will not cause frequent urination.

3
Know that it will get better. If you have the faith that you can really find a way to stop your masturbation addiction, then you'll be able to do it. Maybe your goal isn't to stop masturbating completely, but just to limit your masturbation to a healthy amount, such as once or twice a day. That's perfectly fine, too. If you have the belief that you really can win this battle, you'll be much more likely to succeed than if you're constantly second-guessing yourself.
That being said, there may be days when you have relapses. If you find yourself masturbating one day when you planned not to, don't think, "Oh, well, I've ruined this day anyway," and then continue compulsively masturbating for the rest of the day and then starting fresh the next. This is about as logical as thinking that you should eat an entire pie because you've had one cookie and have ruined your diet for the day anyway.

4
Know when to seek help. If you've tried everything and just can't seem to get your addiction under control, it might be time to tell someone else about your problem and ask for assistance. Don't feel ashamed, and remember that many people have similar problems like an addiction. Seeking help is a brave action, and most people you ask will see it as such.
Ask your religious leader for guidance. If you belong to a church, consider asking your local clergy for help. Keep three things in mind: First, these people become part of the clergy because they're dedicated to helping their congregations. Second, they've probably already assisted someone with a masturbation addiction before. Lastly, they're bound by strict confidentiality. Request a private appointment with your pastor, bishop, imam, rabbi, or other religious leader, and see if his or her advice can help you.
Make an appointment with a medical professional. Counselors, psychologists and psychiatrists are all trained to help people with varying levels of addiction. Start by seeing a therapist in your area, who can assess your addiction and refer you to more specialized help if necessary. Several treatment options are available, from cognitive-behavior therapy to medication.





Tips
Take your mind off it with (non-sexual) music.
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Set tiny goals for yourself, start with going 3 days clean, the third day is the speed bump, get past that and you KNOW that you're committed. Then go a week, then 10 days, then two weeks, then 17 days, etc.
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Do exercise daily in the evening, this will make you tired at night. And since masturbation is often done at night, so when you are exhausted, you will give preference to sleep not to masturbation.
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Avoid sitting on your bed. Use a table/chair, and always sit with other people.
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When the urge is very intense take a cold shower! It is not only shown to calm the mind but have many other benefits to overall health and energy.
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Think about your family or anyone else and if they were watching you.
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When you feel the need to masturbate, take a brisk walk or jog. Always try to occupy yourself when the urge arises.
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Exercise more and get out of the house. This is a great way to take your mind off everything.
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Try fasting. Abstain from food or drink in a few hours everyday can distract your mind from sexual urge. Fasting will also act as a diet from stimulating food or drink for a certain period. If you do it regularly you will have better control upon your urge.
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If you come upon a certain thought, urge, or your lustful thoughts come into your mind, immediately think about a different topic such as baseball, football, etc.
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Warnings
Some video games, films, and even books contain sexual material, such as sexually attractive characters or sexual activity (kissing, making out or even making love). So if you play video games to distract the need, be careful!
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Remember that members of the clergy and medical professionals are human and susceptible to error, too. If you ask someone for help and he or she suggests a remedy you find highly uncomfortable, seek a second opinion.

herald9:

what's a Satan?
What's sin?

Abba999:
People who cannot control the urge to masturbate or watch pornography are almost always plagued with a sexual devil. Maybe more than one.
In the world of the spirit and according to Jesus Christ: the sexual thought is the same as the sexual act (Matthew 5:28).

When we use the powerful force of imagining something as if it were real, we are actually attracting that which we imagine into physical being.
When we imagine having sex with another via masturbation, we are actually summoning the power of the spirit realm to manifest the thing we are imagining.

We've all heard about the law of attraction by now, made popular from books and movies like The Secret. Well the law of attraction also works with sexual imagination.

There are such things as sex demons. And the danger in masturbating is that one could inadvertently summon a sex demon to attach itself to you through the act of masturbating. And once that demon attaches, it is difficult to get it to leave. It will drive you to masturbate, even when you don't want to. You'll be hit with urges to play with yourself so powerful that only an orgasm will allow you some temporary relief.

In worst case scenarios the one demon may gather other unclean spirits to itself to also attach to your life. That way it can wrap you tighter in its web of control, making it that much more difficult for you to get free. And many never do (Matthew 12:43-45).

By engaging in those acts of sexual impurity you are giving such evil spirits legal access into your life. And they will remain, causing untold personal pain, guilt and shame until the more powerful force of Jesus Christ is used against them to expel them from your life for good—See: Luke 8:29, Luke 9:39 and verse 42; Galatians 5:19-21; 2nd Corinthians 6:17-18


*****This was an excerpt taken from diva, goddess Queen: Breaking the power of soul ties, lust, and sexual demons.


SEX, FAITH
AUTHOR// MACK MAJOR