Reason why Test of sexual capability and compatibilty before marriage is a recipe for marital crisis.

The avalanche of proponents that have consistently corroborated the 21st century believe that: women should test their husband-to-be to ensure he is good in bed, is just another one of the many excuses people raise up to encourage traditions and fashions that will further proliferate immorality and further take sodomize this world,the supporting arguments are all lies from the pit of hell.

Here are the reasons below:

1. If you are satisfied with him sexually, is he satisfied?

In a lady's quest to ensure that he marries a sexually active man, are you sure you will/have satisfied him, then the man has equal right to put an end to that relationship no matter how far it has gone - leading to lost of time(months and years) and potential suitors that gave up on you when you were in that relationship.

2. The tester may end up being decieved by an hit and run

some people can easily fake a non-existent readiness to marry you and in the end, when the crown of victory has been won for making love with you in your quest to find out for sexual compatibiliy, that partner looks for silly excuses to say it's over.

3. At what point will the test be certified tested OK.

I will never encourage anyone to make love on a first date, or even engage in premarital sex, so if this holds, and perhaps after some dates and a lady/guy that believe in testing for sexual compatibility engages in the testing excercise,when will you finish collecting samples to complete your research,how many times, and how long. Won't be surprised if this same person engages in mocking people that are prostitute - what then are you? Lets say after some years of testing,you found the partner not OK,what tells you the next will be?

4. You the tester,may become the tested.

The partner may even be dumped the next day after she had a certified OK test with her partner, only for her to find out that she didn't reciprocate same. this happening more than once in a lady's life ,will surely lead to a shattered heart torn in pieces.

5. The partner you certified OK, may even fail the next day.

The most amusing fact is that africans before the 21st centuryHardly engage in courtship and yet they grow old together and die loving each other forever. We have courtship and we are still unsatisfied. Your partner that has been superb in bed, may become weak when you are married,what happens? Would you cheat to augment? Sue for divorce? See beyond sex as the only pillar of marriage,so far the man/woman can procreate? The world want to make us believe we can figure every thing out all by ourselves,but truly,marriage is a leap of faith. The test you carried out may even make you a young baby mama after 9 months or worst still you tried aborting and ended up with a spoilt womb,will you still insisit on testing afterwards,because i doubt if majority do this test with condoms.

6. The partner may be using some sexual enhancers.

We can't deny the existence of sexual enhancers,what will you do when he stops after marriage. If this is the basis for being married to men can go the extra mile to deicieve those that have this topmost in their criteria for an healthy marriage or relationship.
What would you do afterwards? Be the next sugar-mummy in town when he travels out? I won't advice so.

7. Would there be further test to confirm if both partner can procreate?

He is good in bed, she is very experienced,bla bla bla, etc. Is he/she also good in making children? Would you get pregnant before going into marriage? This may be the next line of excuse for immorality,may be not now,may be in ten years time.
If marriage is all about sex,then the purpose is invalid.
Casual sex is as rampant as the days go,Marriage should be also about companionship, friendship, and a union where two people support each others to reach their most cherished heart desires. No matter how it is painted pre-marital sex as a way of ensuring he/she will be good in bed is decietful and mostly counter productive.

So the remainin three whr dem fly go?

op you said 7 na, you wan chop the remaining ni

You re right! But dem go gree?

SuperSuave:
op you said 7 na, you wan chop the remaining ni

updated!

Cutehector:
So the remainin three whr dem fly go?

i have cut their wings,the remaining have been uploaded.

The one sure thing that happens as the year goes by is the encouragement of immorality with convincing excuses.

Tested ok



I will advise not to have anything to do with non tested things

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rawtouch:
Tested ok



I will advise not to have anything to do with non tested things

your choice bro, your choice!

A thread to support the shear resolve of some people in this age of moral decadance,can this make front page as others that have been laced to support immorality do.

Cc: lalasticlala

I can really see beyond any selfish reasons that I may have against this write-up to agree with it heart and soul.

My people would say, "onye buru chi ya uzo, o gbagbue onwe ya n'oso"

But tests carried out in the lab concerning the compatibility of genotype and other health related tests I will always advocate.

Nice one Op.

Mmmmm. Tho I'm forced to agree with u on many of the above stated reasons, we've seen countless cases of breakdowns in marriages due to inability of one of the parties to adequately satisfy the other party sexually. Morally, it is wrong but is not better there's pre marital sex than marry and have infidelity issues due to non sexual satisfaction( which can also result in a broken home) imagine the effect such will have on the children in such union. I still recommend sex before marriage tho it should be done early before good time and effort is wasted on the relationship

lalasticlala:


Source?

i wrote it and every thing - the views so expressed are solely my opinion.

May be very soon i may have a column on a bigger platform(serendipity),still got a long way to go.

Nairaland offers a platform, to reach out to people.

mentorandfriend:
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hmmm. Flawless? Thanks.

Until you marry a guy who can't get his ddick up after the first round then you'll know how invalid all these your points are

1. If you are satisfied with him sexually, is he satisfied?

1. If you are satisfied with her sexually, is she satisfied?

200 percent correct

i must read before i comment

Elena must not see this write-up before she close door gimme!!! Alakoba aye ra aye ni e

ok i hear

Testing is kinda cool especially in dis era...I can't imagine getting married 2 a lady whose engine room has been over-serviced like my friend's 'I pass my neighbour' generator, u av an idea how loose d puccie gonna be?And y'all knw it can't be swit if not tight

OK.




My Facebook has been hacked a beg I need help.to recover it. The person is just rubbishing me out there

rawtouch:
Tested ok




I will advise not to have anything to do with non tested things

tested? Na machine?

Well piled!

searay:
OK.




My Facebook has been hacked a beg I need help.to recover it. The person is just rubbishing me out there

do people still facebook these days? I can't even remember the last time I used it