animalz:



ABEG SHOUT UP JORR.


NA YOUR TYPE GO DEY PREACH NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
BUT YOU DEY YOUR BOY FRIEND HOUSE EVERY SATURDAY AND SUNDAY NIGHT DEY ENJOY HE TOY

treasuremabel:
I always say it n I will keep saying it;
Pre-marital sex is absolute rubbish!
In the end you become a loser n we'd end up hating each other

Some dudes be like 'you can't buy a car without testing it na'
But am like 'a finely wrapped up sweet n an unwrapped one which do you prefer, which is better'?

Elxandre:

I could easily throw away the sweet if I discover it is defective, after tearing the wrap...

Can I throw you away like that?

Insidous:
ronald 4lif make you come here o

treasuremabel:


I don't think something nicely wrapped could turn out defective
To start with, you can't have me in the first place so there wl be no need to throw me away sweetie

Elxandre:



I once bought some sweets, one was about a third of the normal size.
So you see....

I can't have you? Lol!
Where did I say I needed you?


Go to bed meanwhile

treasuremabel:

Goodnight

AgapeCharis:

Wetin this yeye boy dey shine teeth for?.

ronald4lif:


Premarital is a premise to marriage. Meaning it's done before marriage. It's not premarital sex if two lovebirds never got married. So the OP argument is flawed on this basis.

Again, sex is a beautiful symbol of the connection between two people, not a beautiful symbol of having a marriage certificate.

What about couples who don't want to get married? Should they not have sex just because they won't go to a registry and sign a marriage paperwork? Does that legal piece of paper diminish the love and commitment they feel for each other?

Pre-marital sex is not immoral (when indulge with someone a person love, trust and committed to), and I have yet to hear a viable argument that it is. Consensual sexual relations between adults capable of making such decisions are not immoral acts. You believe it to be, but that doesn't mean it is.

Part of what makes two people right for each other is their sexual chemistry. If you don't know whether or not you have that chemistry before you get married, you may be adding to the possibility of your marriage ending in divorce.

Lastly, most of what the OP highlighted can still be experienced when married and sexual incompatibilities have been responsible for many broken marriages worldwide. So not test driving and getting married without ascertaining sexual chemistry doesn't guarantee the marriage would last either. There's a thing called divorce.

francizy:

Only say person mention your name na I'm you drop this dictionary?
Nwanne ke way?

Elxandre:

Acceptance of defeat!
lol.

Meanwhile, I believe everyone should act in accordance with his belief to prevent guilt.

ronald4lif:


No, not that. We both have always had counter opinions about premarital sex, that was why she called me out to show me why it's wrong.

Apasam odogwu, ke ije

treasuremabel:


Well, call it whatever sir, we are all entitled to our opinions plus I hate online arguments, they never result to something good.

DandyWalker:
it is a pity girls are no more ashamed of sleeping with many men before getting married. what then is the essence of bride price? why do I have to pay for what another guy has had for free. Gosh! Even the art of sex denigrates the female folks; the way a guy handles and touches a girl denigrates her. That is why guys can comfortably talk about sex and the number of ladies they have slept with. The same thing does not apply to a lady. The most valued quality of a lady is her chastity. But nowadays............It is well.

ronald4lif:


Premarital is a premise to marriage. Meaning it's done before marriage. It's not premarital sex if two lovebirds never got married. So the OP argument is flawed on this basis.

Again, sex is a beautiful symbol of the connection between two people, not a beautiful symbol of having a marriage certificate.

What about couples who don't want to get married? Should they not have sex just because they won't go to a registry and sign a marriage paperwork? Does that legal piece of paper diminish the love and commitment they feel for each other?

Pre-marital sex is not immoral (when indulge with someone a person love, trust and committed to), and I have yet to hear a viable argument that it is. Consensual sexual relations between adults capable of making such decisions are not immoral acts. You believe it to be, but that doesn't mean it is.

Part of what makes two people right for each other is their sexual chemistry. If you don't know whether or not you have that chemistry before you get married, you may be adding to the possibility of your marriage ending in divorce.

Lastly, most of what the OP highlighted can still be experienced when married and sexual incompatibilities have been responsible for many broken marriages worldwide. So not test driving and getting married without ascertaining sexual chemistry doesn't guarantee the marriage would last either. There's a thing called divorce.

blublahd:

Wrong, they make you familiarise yourself with your keyboard and type faster.

emperorchedda:
Until you marry a guy who can't get his ddick up after the first round then you'll know how invalid all these your points are

treasuremabel:
I always say it n I will keep saying it;
Pre-marital sex is absolute rubbish!
In the end you become a loser n we'd end up hating each other

Some dudes be like 'you can't buy a car without testing it na'
But am like 'a finely wrapped up sweet n an unwrapped one which do you prefer, which is better'?

InvertedHammer:
OP

Stop deceiving yourself. There is no formula for marriage. Pious, educated, successful, handsome and even losers have failed in marriages equally.

When two adults raised from different family backgrounds and beliefs come together, there is bound to be clashes. The way the clashes are handled will determine if the marriage will survive or not. It is not by sex, education, height, appearance and other mundane things you ignorantly ascribe to marriage.

Marriage is tough.
\

Velocitron:


Or you know, her brain

Medley:
you're welcome, scentmaric

Velocitron:
It's quite ignorant to say that people in romantic relationships 'get physical' for the sole purpose of 'testing' their partner.

Regardless, sexual compatibility is quite important in a relationship and incompatibility may lead to breakdown of the relationship.

I see nothing wrong in two people in a relationship having sex if they mutually agree. If you're not a participant in the relationship, then it's really none of your business.

ronald4lif:


Premarital sex is a premise to marriage. Meaning it's done before marriage. It's not premarital sex if two lovebirds never got married. So the OP argument is flawed on this basis.

Again, sex is a beautiful symbol of the connection between two people, not a beautiful symbol of having a marriage certificate.

What about couples who don't want to get married? Should they not have sex just because they won't go to a registry and sign a marriage paperwork? Does that legal piece of paper diminish the love and commitment they feel for each other?

Pre-marital sex is not immoral (when indulge with someone a person love, trust and committed to), and I have yet to hear a viable argument that it is. Consensual sexual relations between adults capable of making such decisions are not immoral acts. You believe it to be, but that doesn't mean it is.

Part of what makes two people right for each other is their sexual chemistry. If you don't know whether or not you have that chemistry before you get married, you may be adding to the possibility of your marriage ending in divorce.

Lastly, most of what the OP highlighted can still be experienced when married and sexual incompatibilities have been responsible for many broken marriages worldwide. So not test driving and getting married without ascertaining sexual chemistry doesn't guarantee the marriage would last either. There's a thing called divorce.