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Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Nobody: 12:17am On Jun 22, 2015 |
animalz: Am too matured n reserved to argue or respond to this 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Brugo(m): 12:33am On Jun 22, 2015 |
Sex is overrated. It doesn't keep a husband or wife faithful. The pleasure from it doesn't even last the whole day. The satisfaction only leads to more hunger. Couples that have amazing sex also get divorced. However, I have never known a person who'd be glad to walk away from a good companion. For marriage, I believe it's better to find a companion whom you can love and forgive naturally. You can teach a person sex styles faster and easier than you can teach him/her companionship and sacrifice. 8 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Elxandre(m): 12:35am On Jun 22, 2015 |
treasuremabel:I could easily throw away the sweet if I discover it is defective, after tearing the wrap... Can I throw you away like that? |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Howcomes(m): 12:35am On Jun 22, 2015 |
Okay |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Nobody: 12:38am On Jun 22, 2015 |
Elxandre: I don't think something nicely wrapped could turn out defective To start with, you can't have me in the first place so there wl be no need to throw me away sweetie |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by silverspringle(f): 12:41am On Jun 22, 2015 |
Why do people think dat sex is everythin in marriage...me i think sex is over hyped nd i think d op is 100% correct. If i ve a loving husband who recognises his responsibility as a husband nd father who cares about sex. Truth is couples can help each other build their sex life to their taste. So a woman dnt necessarily need to be experience or having a man who can perform...they can always learn if it becomes a problem. 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by ronald4lif(m): 12:45am On Jun 22, 2015 |
Insidous: Premarital sex is a premise to marriage. Meaning it's done before marriage. It's not premarital sex if two lovebirds never got married. So the OP argument is flawed on this basis. Again, sex is a beautiful symbol of the connection between two people, not a beautiful symbol of having a marriage certificate. What about couples who don't want to get married? Should they not have sex just because they won't go to a registry and sign a marriage paperwork? Does that legal piece of paper diminish the love and commitment they feel for each other? Pre-marital sex is not immoral (when indulge with someone a person love, trust and committed to), and I have yet to hear a viable argument that it is. Consensual sexual relations between adults capable of making such decisions are not immoral acts. You believe it to be, but that doesn't mean it is. Part of what makes two people right for each other is their sexual chemistry. If you don't know whether or not you have that chemistry before you get married, you may be adding to the possibility of your marriage ending in divorce. Lastly, most of what the OP highlighted can still be experienced when married and sexual incompatibilities have been responsible for many broken marriages worldwide. So not test driving and getting married without ascertaining sexual chemistry doesn't guarantee the marriage would last either. There's a thing called divorce. 5 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Elxandre(m): 12:45am On Jun 22, 2015 |
treasuremabel: ![]() I once bought some sweets, one was about a third of the normal size. ![]() So you see.... I can't have you? Lol! Where did I say I needed you? ![]() Go to bed meanwhile ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Nobody: 12:47am On Jun 22, 2015 |
Elxandre:Goodnight |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Nobody: 12:49am On Jun 22, 2015 |
story for the babies |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Elxandre(m): 12:51am On Jun 22, 2015 |
treasuremabel:Acceptance of defeat! lol. Meanwhile, I believe everyone should act in accordance with his belief to prevent guilt. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by ronald4lif(m): 12:52am On Jun 22, 2015 |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by AfricanQween: 12:52am On Jun 22, 2015 |
In the not so long ago days men or young men were taught how to preserve a women's virtue by doing it in between the thighs of the women. Because they understood human nature and lust. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by francizy(m): 12:52am On Jun 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif: ![]() ![]() Nwanne ke way? ![]() |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by ronald4lif(m): 12:54am On Jun 22, 2015 |
francizy: No, not that. We both have always had counter opinions about premarital sex, that was why she called me out to show me why it's wrong. Apasam odogwu, ke ije |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Nobody: 12:55am On Jun 22, 2015 |
Elxandre: Well, call it whatever sir, we are all entitled to our opinions plus I hate online arguments, they never result to something good. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Nobody: 1:01am On Jun 22, 2015 |
It's quite ignorant to say that people in romantic relationships 'get physical' for the sole purpose of 'testing' their partner. Regardless, sexual compatibility is quite important in a relationship and incompatibility may lead to breakdown of the relationship. I see nothing wrong in two people in a relationship having sex if they mutually agree. If you're not a participant in the relationship, then it's really none of your business. 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by francizy(m): 1:01am On Jun 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Ura bu the next thing nwanne. Ka mu dobe isi na pillow.. Ka chi fó.. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Nobody: 1:01am On Jun 22, 2015 |
treasuremabel:Wrong, they make you familiarise yourself with your keyboard and type faster. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Nobody: 1:06am On Jun 22, 2015 |
DandyWalker: Or you know, her brain ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Nobody: 1:07am On Jun 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif: God bless this post ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by Nobody: 1:07am On Jun 22, 2015 |
blublahd: Hehehehehe I partially agree s ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by menshealth1234: 1:27am On Jun 22, 2015 |
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Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by donJ2(m): 2:19am On Jun 22, 2015 |
emperorchedda: The next thing *in that honeymoon bed* is to create a thread on NL with headings lik '50 reasons why you should test ur proposed spouse' 'HELP!!! A frnds hubby is Impotent!' ![]() ![]() ![]() Give them two months, shez out on d street servicing every dick and harry... ...though I dint fully disagree with d op, I think its all abt choice and priority, if u love a gal enuff to be wid her even tho she wont satisfy or bear u kids, then dont test. But if u cant, abeg do d needful.... I hv a family frnd in dat issh ryt now, d guy said no sex b4 marriage (in 2009) Now they have two kids... (not by d husband cuz he is impotent / sterile)... and d crazy thing is that d kids resemble their biological. father so much that even a blind man cud tell ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by donJ2(m): 2:32am On Jun 22, 2015 |
treasuremabel: With d number of ho.okers on the streets (of which most will eventually marry), i'd prefer an unwrapped sweet, to a severely licked wrapped sweet. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by donJ2(m): 2:34am On Jun 22, 2015 |
InvertedHammer: God bless you #oracle 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by AllNaijaBlogger(m): 2:36am On Jun 22, 2015 |
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Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by DandyWalker(m): 2:50am On Jun 22, 2015 |
Velocitron:Brain is valued for both male and female. In the light of male-to- female relationship, chastity is key for the ladies, while for the guy, the financial ability to take care of his wife. 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by scentmarlc(m): 5:11am On Jun 22, 2015 |
Medley: Thank you sir. |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by machi25(f): 5:22am On Jun 22, 2015 |
You are very right at OP. Men want to turn themselves into God thinking they can provide solution to all their problems. How can a man be wiser than his creator? |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by abdulkayus(m): 5:39am On Jun 22, 2015 |
Velocitron: Will u sincerely give this advice to ur sons and daughters or to ir blood sister or tell ur sister's bf that he should be servicing ur sister? Any postulation we made, we should to weigh it into our live or our families and see if we will agree to it. By the way, where do u worship and will u be proud to stand in front of your members and tell them this. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis by abdulkayus(m): 5:40am On Jun 22, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Will u sincerely give this advice to ur sons and daughters or to ir blood sister or tell ur sister's bf that he should be servicing ur sister? Any postulation we made, we should to weigh it into our live or our families and see if we will agree to it. By the way, where do u worship and will u be proud to stand in front of your members and tell them this. 1 Like 1 Share |
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