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Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by ednut1(m): 4:38pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
in year 2030 u wud see d guy. hammered and looking fresh and fine. na den u go dey regret 2 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by danbrowndmf(m): 4:39pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
irishCream:Your reason of not been emmotional to him base on his salary is jus to stupid,tipical nigerian girls mentality... He's ugly n u dnt like him for that,fine i understand that...if i may ask,what really brk ur last relationship? You dont beliv in love grows...you are not emotionally attached to him? And u want to go on and marry him? Hell NO!!! Do not Marry out of Pity, i say it again,Do not Marry out of Pity! Try be close to him more,call him often,do this for like 2months,if u still dnt feel anything,den dont say Yes! My 2cent! 1 Like |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by ZICCKOde1st(m): 4:39pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
MissSlimbody: One million likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Tallesty1(m): 4:41pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
2sex:Nah..... They want everything in a silver platter. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by 2sex(m): 4:41pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
IBBG:have you heard of concordance/register? please find out in your next English class |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by desunit(m): 4:41pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Just hang out with him for sometime and see how it turns out, u might fall for him if you spend sometime with him. Then if you do not feel a thing after spending sometime with, then you let go of him, coz i will not advise you to marry someone you don't love. 2 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by jaybee3(m): 4:42pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Ephemmm: It's not hard for a kind man to assess situation and take initiative. I do that with my friends so nothing new She could have misconstrued his gesture for kindness and nothing more than that. It's really not a biggy since we aren't privy to the kind of help being rendered |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Heriadeoluwa: 4:44pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
bellong:great bro...I like...no!!! I love dis comment...bravo bro!!!! 1 Like |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by purpledandelion: 4:45pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
I'm as confused as you are. Guys what should OP do? *sipping on Irish cream* |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by abduldope(m): 4:45pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
this part got ne cracking [quote author=irishCream post=35282266] just want to have a feel of my sweet body and off they go [quote]......lol lyk serzZZly |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Emmaville(m): 4:45pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
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Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by proxillin(m): 4:48pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
ednut1: [size=16pt]That reminds of me of my ex. I am now x10 better than the guy she ran to. SHe feels ashame anytime she sees me. I am not yet fulfilled in Life, but I thank God for shaming her...God really shamed her... Those days, my salary could not afford her blackberry. Anytime I am driving by her house, I roll down my side screen, I peep at her and ensure she sees me. I love that feelings...I love the way she hides.hahahahhah... Buga level[/size] 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by sinisters(m): 4:49pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
You aren't emotionally connected because you have sent signals to your brain to reject him because of his financial status or his 'presentable-ness'. Most great men today were nowhere to be found financially few years back. Look into his character,does he fear God?and see if he is hardworking and smart....if you find all these excellent,GIVE HIM A CHANCE...Then thank me later. 2 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by UjSizzle(f): 4:49pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
jaybee3:I don't think some men care very much about that. After all, we are supposed to be interested in their money. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by pbs4real(m): 4:49pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
UjSizzle:luk lyk u stil dnt gerriit wat doz she nid wisdom for again The wisdom to date a broke and ugly dude. . .ma sis lets nt deceive ourselves. . . . She knws wat she want and the best advice any1 here wld gv to her is to continue her search and put her in prayers that one day she wld meet her dream man,the saying that if the "preferable isnt available then let the available be preferable" isnt applicable in marriages. . .let her allow that innocent guy luk for some1 else that would luv him for who he is and nt for wat he is. . . #enufsaid |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by mikolo80: 4:49pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
jaybee3:U can love him for being rich ke |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by omolami: 4:50pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Mary only, only, only the man you love. Go for counseling and deliverance if you suspect spell. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by senorB(f): 4:51pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
sonofananimal: Back to Sender!!!! You sound unintelligent...what's the reason for this insult?? |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by balee56: 4:52pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
If you have completely checked yourself and there is NOTHING you find loving or attractive in him, then move on. Otherwise, you will run out of the marriage with time. You just have to find something attractive about him, be it his pocket or looks. Thats my own piece of coin. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by emerged01(m): 4:53pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Tallesty1: He loves OP dearly but she thinks he is the wrong person because presently he is not rich and handsome. .....who knows he maybe an angel in disguise. God doesn't think the way we think. well,if OP believes in prayer, she should pray about it for guidance in making decision. 1 Like |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by akanbiaa(m): 4:54pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
To really help you with the best answer first tell me the qualities the guys that have a feel of your sweet body have that attracted you to them in the first place. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by jaybee3(m): 4:54pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
UjSizzle:I suppose that's why they keep getting burnt |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by UjSizzle(f): 4:54pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
jaybee3:You're mistaken booboo. She thinks she knows what she wants. Maybe she does. But wisdom teaches her to apply what knowledge she has acquired. Wisdom helps her distinguish between good and bad advice; good and bad choices. Wisdom gives her common sense. I can't think of anything else she needs right now. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Sobeautiful: 4:57pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Whether rich or poor, the big question is have you prayed? Is God aware of it? Rich or poor, ugly or handsome, seek the consent of God so that you don't live in regret and pains. Marriage is a line you cross without return unless you want to answer a divorcee which God hates. Some men hide under poverty to look humble but once money comes they forget the woman that suffered with them and for them. That is when you know whether they are humble or not. Their true colour comes out. Forget the poverty induced humility. Don't be moved by it. Seek the face of God instead. 3 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by UjSizzle(f): 4:58pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
jaybee3:Sometimes we want the things we do not need. We don't see the things that are right in front of us. Sometimes our minds are clouded by our desires. But a Christian believes that God knows best-- He always has. And that's why we pray. Choosing a life partner isn't the same as picking suitable flowers for a date. A lifetime commitment, this marriage thing. We can't afford to get it wrong. So we'll turn to the one who never gets it wrong. That's my belief. I don't expect it to make any sense to you if it doesn't. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Vyolet(f): 5:00pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Some of these girls will not wound me with laugh. Yes everyone wants a good life but it doesn't just come,you work for it. 50k plus salary is enough for a start if you also work and conteibute,there are young men in Nigeria who earn 30k plus and yet married and live simple life,the wife also works and earn money,they combine their finances and manage if well,it shouldn't matter who earns more,as long as bills are paid. As time goes on,you make sure you encourage your man to spread his tentacles to make more money by bringing business idea or exploring other legal means. Life shouldn't be about you alone,make the man see you as an asset not liability. Your "sweet body" is not enough to keep a man. On a another mode I don't appreciate ugly dudes too,a guy must be above average for me to get attracted to him. . If you ain't cool with his looks then don't force yourself. 4 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Chizyann: 5:00pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
bellong: |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by olaNL: 5:01pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
love is overrated. see all the guys that once claimed that they love you, where are they today. you better stick to the one available now. you might not love him but from the looks of things, he really loves you. well it's your life not mine so the choice is yours. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by UjSizzle(f): 5:02pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
pbs4real:I've never understood this statement. I think what a person is, is just as important as who he is. By the way, I get it. I am a woman so I know exactly what she's talking about. You're not. So do you get it? |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by jaybee3(m): 5:02pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
UjSizzle: But we all have common sense don't you think so? We all have the ability to process information and in turn differentiate between good and bad. We all understand our wants and needs We tend to ignore these basic principles due to varying factors that we sometimes have no control over I always say if you love yourself then you will simply know what's good for you. BTW: The prerequisite of wisdom is knowledge and she definitely does have that else she wouldn't have been able to seek for feedback in order to gauge responses which would in turn enable her make the best decision going forward. Having knowledge should normally allow her the privilege ability to process information of what's good for her so what sort of wisdom does she need again to apply this basic principle? |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by proguru: 5:04pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
This lady is rather playing a dangerous game. She does not know the essence of marriage. Money or Beauty should not be the reason for marrying a man. It is rather dangerous for a man to marry a woman on the basis financial well being. What happens after marriage if the losses his source of income. You need orientation lady, otherwise you will end up jumping from pillar to post till you get to 40 if you continue with this mindset. Marriage should be based on love not money or other achievements or position!!!! |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by mcaylife(m): 5:05pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
my advice goes does. marriage is a long life commitment.. I understand your fears when you said u don't have feelings for him. what u need to look out is the positive side of the guy. 1. you said he has been there even when u are friend zoning him. one thing most women don't know is that it is best for your man to love u more than u love him. if he does love u. he will worship and adore u forever even when those sexy curves of yours ain't there again and also if u are more beautiful than your husband he will see u as the best thing he can ever achieved. ask very well ugly guys are the most romantic and when they love they do that with all their heart. secondly on finance leave that one for God. am very sure a girl would have asked dangote to go to hell before. now he can afford to marry as many as possible ladies he want. look very well search your mind u will see something that will make u love him. |
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