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Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by raumdeuter: 4:33pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Of course we would make it a Nigerian and African issue The two major religion who talked about women submission were not even from African nor Nigerian origin And I havent seen any culture where they dont talk about submission in marriages 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by dubylhover(m): 4:35pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
abeg is it submissiveness and dominance in 50 shades of grey we are talking abt? ![]() |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by Kimoni: 4:40pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
ifyalways: Upon meeting these conditions, I let him have the deciding vote in a stalemate situation. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by jnrbayano(m): 4:47pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: The bold is very wrong! Eph 5:24-25 says otherwise madam. Topic: submission is a two way thing else its outright slavery. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by crackhaus: 4:51pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa:I meant that the original definition has that part in it, and you removed it - I asked why. You know what? Never mind... ![]() |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by coogar: 5:59pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: submission is the main condition a woman must before even considering herself as a wife. if she is not willing to submit, she's not in a marriage. ![]() |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by bukatyne(f): 6:17pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
5minsmadness: @bold: What Does submission mean to you? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 6:24pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
coogar:My dear, it depends on how you define submission because as you can clearly see, it's subjective. Lemme know how you define submission. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 6:37pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
bukatyne: BeeKay, can we have discuss submission? Actually, I just want to pick your brain on the topic. Are you game? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 6:38pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: Your joy will know no bounds if you submit to me. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by cococandy(f): 6:40pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 6:44pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teambuck2u:I'll take it you mean in the way I defined it, if that's how you mean, then am sorry, not gonna happen ![]() We submit to each other. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by coogar: 6:56pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: submission has a clear meaning....it's not subjective! submission is a gift a woman chooses to give her husband. it's a free will, a decision she's made to be led him, to accept his authority and to be her hubby's helper whenever he needs aid. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 7:09pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
coogar:Good, I like the way you defined it, you understand that it's the woman's place to decide, some men don't believe that. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by troy20(m): 7:11pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
2CatWoman:you are hale and hearty and in a usual loungue i assume watching telemmundo while your husband is weeping up a meal.frankly i have no issues cooking for my woman but why the hell then did you paint that picture for if it has nothing to do with it? Your first comment has no correlation with the topic mrs catwoman or rather there was no motivation for it.Ok we get it he is the one submitting his ass.and with a smile too . |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by coogar: 7:11pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: they do! it's just that men find it bizzare that a woman would marry a man without the intention of submitting to him. if she cannot submit, why marry him? 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 7:15pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: Mutual submission will not work for us. One week of my dominant displays and you're hooked for life. I will only submit to you in the sack I'm afraid. And every time you address me, you'll do so as "my lord". |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by bukatyne(f): 7:18pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teambuck2u: No problem What happened to your previous moniker? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 7:19pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
coogar: Natural submission is even better. When she's been dicked down so well, she can only moan when you ask if she wants some water, the submission will flow with ease ![]() |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 7:23pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
bukatyne:Banned for derailing. What's your take on submission in marriage considering the bible's stand? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by bukatyne(f): 7:29pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teambuck2u: Pele I 100% agree and preach it. I even have a thread on it. You need to catch up. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 7:32pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teambuck2u:I need to laugh please. ![]() That's the only way it will work for me. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 7:35pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: You would be my lady, which kain queen be dat ![]() ![]() Don't be so sure. I can be addictive. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by teambuck2u: 7:35pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
bukatyne:Could you be kind as to provide a link to the thread? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by coogar: 7:36pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: if he truly loves you, he will have no problem doing the bolded bit of this sentence. the crux of the issue is when you & him have opposite opinion about an issue that has to be resolved instantly. whose opinion would you take? yours or his? ![]() |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 7:37pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
coogar:I guess it's because men make it seem like she doesn't have a choice, and if she tries to explain it to him, he thinks she's not "wifely" Plus these men also don't believe that, women should take important decisions, submission doesn't mean slavery. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by dubylhover(m): 7:38pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: two people cant submit to each other,cos d concept of d term submission means that there has to b a sort of fealty or allegiance to a dominant..so its either a lady submits to d man or d man submits to d lady..submitting to each doesnt make much sense and logic...in every institution,there shud always b a head who has d final say on decisions,though d person cud listen to other ideas and contribution, 2 people cant lead,and two people definitely cant submit to each other 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by Ewuro4: 7:40pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teambuck2u: ![]() ![]() ![]() Been there done that ![]() |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by bukatyne(f): 7:41pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
teambuck2u: https://www.nairaland.com/1933513/love-submission[/hr] Na work you give me so Check If it would work. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by coogar: 7:42pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: no man desires to marry a dullard! of course, we want women to take important decisions. men can't always be home every time & they need to be sure the woman they left at home is intelligent enough to make decisions that would secure lives & properties in the home. it's not like men don't want women to take decisions. there would be decisions she would take that would also suit her hubby. the main issue is when hubby wants to take road A & wifey believes road B is safer & quicker. in this instance, wifey should let her hubby take the lead. the only reason she chose to marry him out of the 500 toasters that asked her for marriage was because she saw him as an intelligent guy. if your suitor isn't more intelligent than you are then do not marry him cos you can never submit to his daft opinion. it's as simple as that. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 7:42pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
coogar:I like you more and more. I will have to answer as if this is just about me. If I find myself in that place, I have never been in this place where this was a problem, but I know that, the best would be for who knows better to make the call and a reasonable man/woman knows when to back down. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Understand By The Term "Submission"? by freecocoa(f): 7:46pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
dubylhover:That's not true. Unless you are speaking based on religion, then I don't know why submission can't be flexible. The Pilot has a co-pilot, the pilot's the one that flies the plane, not because he is a man but because he knows better. |
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